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Does your baby like to play "Over home"?
It was found that no, before the age of 6, boys and girls, children are particularly keen to play a game - "home".
They may play the role of mom and dad, acting out the trivialities of life in the family;
They may play the role of doctors and patients, pretending to see a doctor and treat a doctor;
They may play as cops and thieves, playing chase-and-fight games
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Sometimes, children also invite their parents to join them and play with them.
They enjoy the "passer-by" game. So many parents are very strange, what is there to play such a childish game? Sometimes children play "over the house" and make a mess at home, which makes parents very upset.
If you object to or prevent your child from playing "over the house", you are making a big mistake. To know the benefits of "living in the family" for the growth of children, there are more than you can imagine!
"Passing the Family" is actually a role-playing game, the child will turn themselves into a mom and dad, a police thief, Ultraman, etc., they will follow the language and actions of the character to carry out the game.
And this mode of play, in psychology, is called "pretend play."
It is a creative game that children will use their own experience to construct a virtual scene through imagination.
This game requires children to have a certain cognitive ability, comprehension ability and imagination ability, and then through their own processing and creation to complete, all children who like to play "family", often very smart, IQ is also very high.
1. Improve cognitive level and promote ability development
There is a video of a little girl playing home on the Internet that is very popular.
In the video, the little girl skillfully plays the role of doctor and tony teacher. The posture of the doctor is similar, and the posture of cutting hair is also very standard and very professional. This shows that the child's observation ability and comprehension ability are very strong, in order to perfectly copy the words and actions of these people.
In the face of the father's various "provocations", the child copes very easily, indicating that the child's reaction ability and language expression ability are also excellent.
"Passing the house" is a process of scene reproduction: the first thing a child has is observation and understanding, knowing who I am playing and what his main function is; the development of the game requires the child to have a certain ability to reorganize and build, turn what is observed into his own content, and add his own understanding to achieve scene reproduction.
Especially in multiplayer games, some children will also play the role of conductor, which greatly improves children's planning ability, control ability and leadership and command ability.
A small game can greatly improve your child's cognitive level and abilities, which are crucial in your child's future growth!
2. Improve self-esteem and self-confidence, and realize self-worth
Children often play important and advanced roles in the game, such as mom and dad, doctors and policemen, and so on. These roles can greatly improve a child's self-confidence.
You carefully observe, once the child becomes a parent, his aura and small eyes are immediately different, especially when he speaks, he immediately becomes a small adult.
This is because the child is actively putting himself at a high level and replacing it with a more advanced thinking mode, which is not only conducive to the growth of the child, but also conducive to improving the child's self-esteem and self-confidence.
And this is the process by which children realize their self-worth.
3. Achieve social communication
"Passing the family" is an important action to improve children's social skills and achieve social communication.
"Passing the family" is often a game of more than two people, and the child needs to constantly interact with each other and communicate in the game, especially when the game, if there is a dispute between the children, the child also needs to actively solve.
In the process of such games, children will slowly improve their social skills and problem-solving skills. At the same time, in the game, children will find out things and the connections and operating rules behind them, and have a deeper understanding of things.
Social communication plays a very important role in the growth of children, can children quickly adapt to kindergartens, schools and society in the future? Can you get along with your teachers and classmates? How to deal with conflicts between classmates and friends? How to understand social functioning, etc., is of great help.
Professor Richard, a behaviorist at Harvard University, pointed out that before the child is 6 years old, the brain will go through two golden development periods, and the development is 90% complete. At this stage, the synapses of brain cells are abnormally active and increasing, and if the synapses are used more frequently, the neuronal links will be strengthened more strongly and the child will be smarter.
The "family home" is a game that stimulates the development of brain synapses in all aspects, and parents should help their children in the game of "home".
1. Parents should pay attention to their own words and deeds
Tingting's mother found that when her daughter played "Passing the Family", she often pinched her waist, pointed at the rag doll and roared or screamed. When she asked her daughter why, her daughter's words made Tingting's mother very ashamed, "You are usually like this."
Thomas Gordon wrote in PET Parental Effectiveness Training that children treat their dolls the way their parents treat them. Psychologists have long discovered that by observing how a child plays with a doll, they can know how their parents treat the child. If a child manipulates, tyranny, and punishes a doll in her role as a mother, it is almost certain that her mother treats her this way.
As long as children are playing the game of "passing the family", most of their materials must be their own parents.
If one is not careful, the child will put the parents' real appearance, the secret of the family to perform out!
Therefore, parents must restrain their words and behaviors and set a good example for their children. Only then can children learn the excellence of their parents and become a better person.
2. Parents should participate more in their children's "home" games
As we said earlier, children playing "family home", in fact, the improvement of IQ, cognition and other aspects of the ability level, so "home" is a process of children's active learning, if parents can participate in the child's game, can better guide the child, the child is easier to understand and receive.
Therefore, do not refuse the invitation of the child's game, but take the initiative to participate in the child's game.
Add some small difficulties in the game to increase the difficulty and improve your child's adaptability and handling ability.
Add some educational games to the game, such as simulating conflicts between children, playing strangers to seduce children, pretending to be on fire and electrocuting, etc., children are most impressed in the game, and education is more active.
3. Parents should provide more game materials for their children
If you want to enrich your child's cognition through "passing the family", you must provide more game materials for your children.
In addition to providing children with various toys for "passing the house" and helping children provide specific scene content, it is also necessary to improve children's experience and insight.
Take the kids to more places: lively wet markets, banks, hospital clinics, supermarket bakeries, restaurants, etc.
Guide the child to observe: Parents can tell their children how others work, guide the child to observe the workflow of the staff, behavior and so on.
Give the child more explanations: In the face of the child's problems, carefully explain to the child to improve his understanding.
"Home" is a game that is very rich in form content and rules of the game, which promotes the healthy development of children's personality and emotions, consolidates and improves children's various abilities.
Parents must recognize the benefits and importance of the "home- and home-based" game and play with their children more!