The study found that most expectant mothers with moderate or severe anxiety in the third trimester chose to feed milk powder after childbirth, and the baby's "infant temperament type" was mostly difficult to raise.
Sugar Mom and several colleagues have recently been chasing "Country Love", in everyone's words, the character characteristics of each character are very distinct, there are advantages but also infuriating behaviors. In addition to Xie Guangkun and Liu Neng, song Qinglian, a young pregnant woman, has also made everyone angry recently.
After Song Qinglian became pregnant, her temperament changed drastically, and her pretentious behavior made people angry
People who have chased "Country Love" should remember that in the plot of 13 films, Song Qinglian is a more pleasing person, her appearance is not low, and her personality is relatively good, otherwise Song Xiaofeng would not have chased after it.
I thought that they would usher in a happy life after marriage, but Song Qinglian's series of performances in 14 parts made many people not understand.
In the 14th part of "Country Love", the pregnant Song Qinglian is angry at every turn, and her speech seems to become mean, and a small thing can cause her to cry, and more than one person said that she was a bit "done" after she became pregnant.
What is even more incomprehensible is that she always can't get along with her stepmother, let her stepmother run errands for herself, and even take the initiative to "find fault", a series of performances and the previous judgment of the two. Song Qinglian is not a big protagonist, but her character changes have also caused a lot of controversy.
Sugar Mom saw someone send a bullet screen when chasing the drama, saying that this is the true face of Song Qinglian, Song Xiaofeng looked away and married the wrong person! Some people also helped Song Qinglian speak, believing that the plot set the image of pregnant women too exaggerated and was smearing this group. Sugar Mom wants to say that in fact, it is not a smear.
After a woman becomes pregnant, she is half strong and half fragile
Many of the bridges in the film and television drama are derived from real life, and sugar mother has given birth to a baby twice, perhaps because of experience, I can fully understand when I see the "unreasonable trouble" behavior of pregnant women.
Song Qinglian's temperament changed greatly after pregnancy, and Liu Ying cried every day when she was pregnant earlier, which seemed to be an exaggerated effect of the plot, but it was actually very real. In real life, Sugar Mom has met a mother-to-be who has changed more than the two of them, and it can be said that the plot does not smear pregnant women, but restores real life.
However, Sugar Mom wants to say a word for this kind of expectant mother, they are really not pretentious. Many expectant mothers have two personalities hidden in them. Half is a strong heart that bears physical pain and stress, and the other half is a fragile heart that is prone to collapse due to small things.
Song Qinglian was said to be too "done" by everyone, and did not notice that she had depression when she was 6 months pregnant. This is not a dog blood plot, but a reflection of the real psychological situation of women during pregnancy. If it can be summed up in one sentence, it may be "I can eat 10 points of suffering, but I can't bear half a point of grievance."
Pregnant women have a big change in temperament, among which the reasons affected by progesterone are very large, they can't control their emotions, and the small things around them that look inconspicuous touch the weak defense line in their hearts.
Pregnant mothers are unhappy, and both themselves and the fetal treasure will be affected
Part of the child's personality is inherited from the parents, but pregnant women have too many negative emotions during pregnancy, and the baby is more likely to become a temper tantrum and crying ghost after birth.
Others inadvertently evaluate the mother-to-be's body shape changes, although it is a joke tone, but also let the mother-to-be can not accept their own image; when the people around them do not care about the mother-to-be's physical discomfort, and psychological situation, sensitive mother-to-be feels that they are not valued, like a fertility machine, all kinds of small things piled up together, it is easy to emotionally erupt.
There are emotions that cannot be held in the heart, but various negative emotions not only make pregnant women unhappy, but also have adverse effects on the fetus.
Fetal emotions and mothers are connected, during pregnancy, the fetal treasure follows the mother often produces negative emotions, will make a frowning expression and even cry in the pregnant belly, not only has an adverse impact on the body, but also has a lower appearance than the fetal treasure that is very happy during pregnancy.
I don't want to let the mother-to-be "do" during pregnancy, but rely on the family to work together
Depression doesn't just happen after childbirth, and about 10% of women feel depression of varying degrees during pregnancy.
Expectant mothers don't necessarily "do it" on purpose, sometimes because they can't control themselves. We can't let expectant mothers hold their emotions in their hearts, otherwise it will aggravate the depression during pregnancy. If you want to make the mother-to-be not "do" after pregnancy, relying on herself to "see the opening point" has little effect, and you need to work together with your family.
Encounter things that do not rise to the character of the expectant mother
Women's personality at the time of pregnancy and before pregnancy are quite different, and after understanding the above reasons, you will know that it is not a matter of "character". Marrying the wrong person, revealing the true face, and commenting on the role of the TV series are very uncomfortable, and we can't use this kind of word to deny the expectant mother around us.
While caring for the fetal treasure, consider the feelings of the expectant mother
After pregnancy, a woman loves the fetal treasure very much, and she can also withstand physical changes and bravely face the pain of childbirth, but this does not mean that the people around her can ignore her feelings.
There is no need to eat "two people's portions" during pregnancy, eat less and more meals, nutritional balance, expectant mothers eat delicious and full, and the growth of fetal treasure will not be delayed.
If the family always emphasizes that she should eat more for the sake of the child, the pregnant woman will feel very wronged. Moreover, the fetal treasure does not need so many calories, eating too much nutrition, and finally all become the flesh of pregnant women and fetal treasures, resulting in overweight.
Candy Mother's Heart:
It has been said that women are queens only when they are pregnant in October, and in fact many expectant mothers are aggrieved like servants during pregnancy. Expectant mothers cannot deliberately bully people around them by virtue of their status as pregnant women, but when the expectant mother really changes her temperament because she has been wronged, she must also try to understand her.
【Today's topic】Do you think Song Qinglian "does"?