Song Xiaofeng's fortune: born to good parents, married a good woman, met a good master, and gave birth to a beautiful daughter
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The philosopher Bacon said:
In life, a woman is a lover when she is young, a partner in middle age, and a guardian in old age.
For men, parents set the starting point and women set the end. Choosing the right woman is the best investment in a man's life.
Song Xiaofeng has a deep understanding of this. He once said that she was his lifelong benefactor, and without her, he would not be where he is today.
Regarding Song Xiaofeng, I believe everyone is no stranger.
He is the thick security captain in "Country Love", the kind old Ding in "Cherry Red", Zhao Dezhu in the hit "The Legend of Que Daomen" and so on;
They are all Song Xiaofeng, but of course not all.
In Song Xiaofeng's life, except for his wife, parents, and master Zhao Benshan, they were all his nobles. Of course, this is also inseparable from his own persistence and efforts.
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Born into good parents.
Song Xiaofeng was born in 1978 in a remote village in Nong'an County, Changchun City, Jilin Province. His childhood was difficult due to the poverty of his family. He first learned the taste of oranges when he was 8 years old, picking them up and throwing them away.
However, the embarrassment of the countryside did not bury Song Xiaofeng's talent. She has loved singing and dancing since she was a child. When the village needed a Yangge team, he always took the lead.
Not only that, Song Xiaofeng's results have always been among the best. If his family has the conditions to let him study, this may be a way for him to change his destiny.
But their family was so poor that they cried and left. Such a family could no longer afford his tuition.
At the age of 13, Song Xiaofeng, a freshman in high school, dropped out of school to help his parents with farm work at home.
Seeing that the children of the same age were going to school, Song Xiaofeng had indescribable jealousy in his heart, but he comforted himself that it didn't matter, and he could go to school when he had money.
No parent can understand their son's thoughts. Dad Song looked at his son's calloused hands and envious eyes watching others go to school, and he had a painful feeling in his heart.
He and Song's mother thought of letting their son go to the county to learn a craft. He has suffered for most of his life, and he cannot let his son look up at the loess and look back at the sky every day. He shouldn't live like that.
But their family was too poor for him to go to the county center, and he wasn't sure if he could study well and get ahead. The village neighbor convinced his parents to forget about it and waste money.
Papa Song is a visionary father. He felt that his son deserved a better future. No one can suffer for his son. Even after selling his house and land, he sent his son to the county seat.
So, Father Song sold his house and land and brought his son to the county seat. Song Xiaofeng studied Yellow Dragon Opera in the county town and sang the role of an old student. Father Song and Mother Song live in a rental house, and the family's life is supported by Father Song, who drives a rickshaw.
However, Song Xiaofeng was still too young at that time, and because of his arrogance, he broke his father's heart. Looking back on it years later, he still regrets it.
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This year, his father went to deliver food to Song Xiaofeng.
At first he was happy to know that his father was coming, but he was shocked when he saw his father standing in front of him in tattered clothes.
There were also a few friends who were with him at that time, and they asked Song Xiaofeng curiously: "Who is this?" ”
Song Xiaofeng stammered, "This is my father. ”
At that time, Song Xiaofeng felt that his father embarrassed him and was very shameless, so he took things and sent his father away.
Before his father asked him if he was used to it, whether he was well fed and clothed, how he learned it...
Seeing that his son hurriedly urged him to leave, he knew that he had embarrassed him, and a trace of disappointment flashed in his eyes, and he left.
Later, Song Xiaofeng realized that he had done something wrong. On the way home from vacation, he saw a familiar figure pedaling heavily on a tricycle. He was tired and sweaty.
Song Xiaofeng tentatively exclaimed, "Dad? ”
Father Song turned to see his son and was overjoyed, but soon turned and left.
Song Xiaofeng was puzzled and chased after him: "Dad, why are you ignoring me?" "He seems to have completely forgotten what happened last time.
But Dad Song remembered that he had a towel around his neck, covering half of his face, as if afraid of being seen, and slowly said:
I'll embarrass you by dressing like this. You hurry home.
Hearing his father's words, Song Xiaofeng felt very uncomfortable. He knew he had done wrong and should not have treated his father like this.
He immediately knelt down and bowed to his father to apologize: "Dad, I was wrong, you will always be my father." ”
Since then, Song Xiaofeng put aside his inner vanity and began to study worldly opera. In his spare time, he helps his father ride a tricycle.
Once, an actor from the troupe got in his car and didn't recognize him as the driver until the end. The fare was originally one dollar, but a colleague gave him two dollars out of sympathy.
Song Xiaofeng felt very embarrassed at this time, and in addition to gratitude, he also made a decision:
One day I have to step up so my parents don't have to work hard anymore.
In the following years, Song Xiaofeng practiced and studied hard every day. At one point, he lifted his legs too hard, causing muscle strains. He limped a long way, but never thought of giving up.
It is with this unwavering spirit that he has won the appreciation and recognition of the troupe teachers.
In particular, a teacher named Liu Jianwei helped him a lot. He still remembers this kindness. Every time he had the opportunity to go back, he would visit this teacher.
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Song Xiaofeng can persist on the road of learning art, inseparable from one person, this person is his first wife Yang Xiaoru. Yang Xiaoru is also a double actor. The two met in a troupe. Yang Xiaoru's family conditions are much better than Song Xiaofeng, so after the two confirmed their relationship, she often hid her family to support him.
Yang Xiaoru likes Song Xiaofeng because he is simple, optimistic and motivated. She was optimistic about him, but to her parents, Song Xiaofeng was a poor child, so of course they didn't agree.
However, Yang Xiaoru persevered. He was determined that wherever he went, Song Xiaofeng would follow him.
Song Xiaofeng went to Changchun to realize his dream, so he ran away from home with his parents behind his back and went to Changchun to find and escort him.
One minute on stage, ten years off stage. At the Da'an City Theater in Jilin Province, Yang Xiaoru works part-time as a theater chef, and Song Xiaofeng is responsible for purchasing groceries. When no one performed at night, I borrowed the stage to live.
Coincidentally, due to the temporary employment of previously designated old actors, Song Xiaofeng and Yang Xiaoru appeared as substitutes. Unexpectedly, they achieved unexpected results.
They were fully immersed in their roles on stage, and the audience watched eagerly and cheered.
The manager spotted the two treasures and immediately decided to hire them officially. Each person participates in a play and earns 20 yuan.
This change has greatly changed their living conditions, but they have not relaxed.
In order to improve himself, Song Xiaofeng used part of the money to buy records and learn other people's singing and speeches. They are full of expectations for the future, and Yang Xiaoru believes that Song Xiaofeng will succeed.
However, while they were waiting for the future, Yang Xiaoru's parents found him after many inquiries. Originally, they planned to take Yang Xiaoru home this time.
But seeing that the two have lived together, no one can do without the other, Song Xiaofeng also assured them that he will definitely not let Yang Xiaoru down, and will definitely try to make changes, everyone rest assured.
Yang Xiaoru's parents recognized their relationship and told them to live well. With the blessing of their parents, they can finally fight together with peace of mind.
Song Xiaofeng is a person who thinks of danger in peacetime. They were known as a duo at the time, but he knew that in order to develop himself in the long run, he had to further develop himself.
If I don't improve, my job will stay here. I want to improve my home.
He wanted to go back to school, but his family objected. They all believe that after marriage, they should work hard and earn money to support their families.
But Yang Xiaoru understood him. He not only encouraged her to go, but also fully supported her. He also lied to his family and paid 50 yuan a month for Song Xiaofeng to go to school.
Chen Zhongzhong wrote this sentence in "White Deer Plain":
In his spare time, Bai Jiaxuan studied all the families of his peers and juniors in Bailu Village and came to the conclusion that the key to the happiness of all men lies in women.
Indeed, the pattern of a woman not only affects the husband's career, but also determines the direction of the family. Women have a large family and men have a successful career. Yang Xiaoru is a woman with a family. He did not think that Song Xiaofeng was inferior to him, and constantly encouraged him to improve himself and support him to study.
Song Xiaofeng was very glad that he married a good woman and decided not to let her down. A man and a woman working together for a better future. In 2004, Yang Xiaoru gave birth to her daughter Song Zhixin and formed a happy family of three.
Song Xiaofeng has been promoted to father, and the burden on his shoulders is heavier. If he wants to give his wife and daughter a better life, he has to work harder.
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The harder you work, the happier you are.
In 2008, Song Xiaofeng received a phone call saying that teacher Zhao Benshan wanted to invite him to act.
Song Xiaofeng thought it was a scammer's phone and was about to hang up, but Yang Xiaoru thought that it was impossible for a scammer to use Zhao Benshan's name to deceive people.
Song Xiaofeng felt that it made sense, and perhaps the other party also felt that he did not believe it, so he continued:
Mr. Zhao just watched your "Duo Turn" performance and thought you acted well. If you want to act, come to Shenyang.
This is how Song Xiaofeng starred in the comedy "Mr. Kanto Dai" directed by Zhao Benshan. He plays the young man at the roast duck shop in the play. With this role, Song Xiaofeng officially entered the entertainment industry.
Song Xiaofeng has a talent for comedy and can also bear hardships and stand hard work. He was a man who could risk his life to film. Zhao Benshang got strength. After more than a year of contact, he officially accepted himself and Yang Xiaoru as apprentices and became the No. 38 Zhao disciple of the family class.
With the progress of his career, Song Xiaofeng decided to give his wife a stable home and a decent wedding.
In 2008, he bought a small cottage for 40,000 yuan and then held a beautiful wedding.
Seeing the success of their daughter and son-in-law, both Father Yang and Mother Yang breathed a sigh of relief. The parents of the Song family are also proud of their son. Finally, he broke into his own world.
For Song Xiaofeng, this is just the beginning. He knew he had to work harder to succeed.
The audience first introduced Song Xiaofeng through the little security guard of "Country Love". In fact, the character did not exist in the first three films, and this image was added later.
When the opportunity comes, I will definitely seize it and seriously act every scene.
Song Xiaofeng cherished this opportunity very much. In the team, he works daily with the site manager. If there are no other scenes, people are watching and learning from the sidelines. He taught her how to face the camera, how to behave.
Others make for the sake of filming, but I can make movies with my life.
Originally, Song Xiaofeng had very few roles in the play. Some scenes were created by himself, and one scene was where he was about to jump into a hole nearly two meters.
Many people on the set asked her if she was okay, and she said it was fine, but in fact her waist circumference was almost useless.
Dirt, sand, sprinkled all over the body. At that time, I felt my bones start to fall apart and my waist broke. But he insisted. From "Township" 4 to 9, he has never relaxed in these five years. His efforts paid off, and he ended up carving out a world for himself with real guns and live ammunition.
After becoming famous with the "Country" series, Song Xiaofeng traded his parents for a bigger house. After his father-in-law died, he brought his mother-in-law home, and even handed over the family's economic power to his wife Yang Xiaoru.
Many people abandon their wives and children after becoming famous in the entertainment industry, but Song Xiaofeng has never changed.
He realized that without her, he would not be what he is. He was her benefactor and the one who would always accompany her in this life.
He also loves his daughter. Because of her busy work, she spent very little time with her in her early years, and she felt a little guilty.
But my mom taught me well. He understood my father's work and followed his example.
Song Xiaofeng is now a national second-class actor, and his daughter Song Zhixin was also admitted to the Beijing Film Academy because of her interest in acting and became a member of Specimen 22.
Song Zhixin is quite handsome, perfectly inheriting his parents' high appearance, and also inheriting their artistic cells.
The path of learning acting was her own choice.
As a father, Song Xiaofeng respects his daughter's choice.
Not only that, but he also became all-powerful for his daughter and became her idol.
Looking back at Song Xiaofeng's journey, he had a difficult journey, but he also had luck. He was born to good parents.
But his parents were not poor in spirit, and sold their house and land to study in the city, preventing him from living as slaves like them.
Due to the arrogance of his youth, Song Xiaofeng felt that his ragged father would embarrass him. But he soon realized that he was wrong and eventually grew up to be a good son of his parents and a proud child for his parents.
Another advantage of Song Xiaofeng is that he has a good wife Yang Xiaoru. He has a vision and a big picture. He never abandoned her, boldly encouraged her to pursue her dreams, and helped her succeed.
Another fortunate thing for Song Xiaofeng was to meet Zhao Benshan, who is his bole, and it is his trust and promotion that has made him what he is today.
The most important thing is Song Xiaofeng himself. He never gave up. No matter how hard life is, no matter how hard it is, he never stops moving forward. He had a clear dream: to change his destiny. In the end, all the hard work will pay off!