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Bai Yansong did not open social platforms such as WeChat and Weibo, he believes that this is his way of life, he once said:
"In fact, the content of the WeChat circle of friends, a lot of it is not nutritious, but it can occupy a lot of people's time, a brush is half an hour." Others just want to tell you how he is living, I can't understand it myself, and I have to care about how others live, which is too tiring. ”
Of course, a hundred people have a hundred ways of life, and it is understandable that his remarks are controversial.
Some people like to share, and some people like to watch the life in the circle of friends, which is understandable. But if you have the following three kinds of people in your circle of friends, delete them as soon as possible.
Because not only is their character not good, but their level and realm are not high, bringing you only negative information and consumption.
One: People who often complain about life and vent the negative energy of life will affect your magnetic field
Yawning is contagious, smiling is contagious, emotions are contagious, because emotions are something with a lot of energy. It is precisely because of the huge energy that it is also very contagious.
If a person always vents negative energy in the circle of friends, and you can brush it every time, over time his bad emotions will be absorbed by you, thus affecting the magnetic field in your heart, and you will find it difficult to discover happy things.
A person who likes to treat the circle of friends as an emotional garbage can is himself a person with a poor sense of self-emotion management, he has difficulty controlling his emotions, knowing that the circle of friends is a public occasion, just like the big mother who dances square dancing downstairs at night, they have no worries about affecting others.
Nine times out of ten, people who like to complain only see bad things in their eyes, they lack the heart to find good, and their hearts are filled with complaints and complaints, and they are all thrown into the circle of friends. Over time, the circle of friends full of emotional garbage will emit a foul smell, and every time you brush it, it will be affected once.
In real life, no one likes friends who complain about everyone, and they are automatically away from people with negative energy explosions, and the same is true in the online world.
Take the initiative to clean up your circle of friends, do not let the negative energy garbage affect your emotions, keep the circle of friends clean as keep the mind clear.
Two: People with a very strong sense of comparison will make you fall into a situation of anxiety
A person is like a big tree, the root of the root of the tree is corrupted by the water of decay, and the rotten water that erodes the human soul is the imbalance of mentality, and the key to the imbalance of mentality is the heart of comparison.
Human quality is uneven, there is a gap between everyone to some extent, accept the gap between yourself and others, will reap the satisfaction and happiness, otherwise you will live very tired.
Half of the tiredness in life comes from survival, and half from comparison.
Some people have a very strong heart of comparison, seeing things that others have or admire on the Internet, no matter what their actual life level is, they must get the same model, and post it in the circle of friends, enjoy the comments that everyone likes and envy.
There is a big difference between the people in the circle of friends and the netizens on the Internet. Most of the people in the circle of friends are known to you, and your conditions are similar in all aspects, so seeing that others are much better than you, you will have anxious emotions. And other netizens have nothing to do with you, and it is too far away, you will not feel.
It's like you wouldn't be jealous of a billionaire, but you'd be afraid your neighbor would drive a sports car and you wouldn't be able to afford it.
But you must know that the things posted in the circle of friends may not be true, because these anxieties are not necessary, everyone has their own rhythm of life, and it is enough to follow their own rhythm.
Three: Very broken mouth, like to spit on the people around them in the circle of friends
Many people will have such a person in the circle of friends, every time they send content, people look at the clouds, at first glance nothing, but it is uncomfortable to read, as if it is in the connotation of a person or a thing.
Maybe the object of his spit is not named, or even you don't know it at all, but this kind of person with a broken mouth still don't have deep friendships, otherwise one day you will become the object of his spit.
The interaction between people should also be polite when they are far away, and they must grasp a degree when they are close, otherwise it will give people a sense of discomfort that life has been invaded.
And people who always break their mouths on others, obviously they can't grasp this degree well, they don't understand the connotation of the phrase "the friendship of gentlemen is as light as water", and they always evaluate others from God's perspective.
Such a person likes to be self-centered, will impose his three views on others, and once others do something beyond their own understanding, they will complain about it. They are very tolerant of their friends, and they are basically typical of being strict with others and being lenient with themselves.
Today's circle of friends has long become a platform for sharing and showing yourself, some people are sincerely recording everything they love, and some people are showing what he wants you to see. You don't have to take it too seriously, but if you meet the above three kinds of friends, it is recommended to stay away from them and not see them.
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