The formation of children's personality has a lot to do with the atmosphere of the original family, and it is inseparable from the education of parents. Adults should not think that children do not understand anything when they are young, in fact, children are very precocious now.
Therefore, adults should pay attention when speaking in front of children, do not think that children can not understand the words of adults, now children are very smart, do not say that they can understand words, even if they can not understand by looking at the expressions of adults can be seen.
Children should use a good attitude, through good guidance and education, children can develop into good character, if not well disciplined children, may form an unhealthy personality.
On February 11, Wuhan, Hubei Province, showed such a picture in the surveillance: the father poured water next to him, the son persuaded the father, and the son spoke like a small adult, which caused praise from netizens.
Where there are no quarrels and no contradictions between husband and wife, father and mother have quarrels and contradictions because of trivial matters, and when they have conflicts, they let their sons hear.
Adults should not think that children are still young, do not understand anything, they can be unscrupulous in front of children, even if they are seven or eight years old boys, he can clearly see right and wrong.
When the son saw his father come out of the bedroom, he said to his father: You must please her well, do you know? Be sure to talk to her nicely.
Perhaps the father also reflected on his mistake and felt that the contradiction between the two people had hurt the son, and the father was silent and could only bow his head and drink water.
The son saw that his father did not reply, looked at his father, thought that his father did not hear, and said again: Sleep with her tonight, you must talk to her well.
The father also had a stomach full of grievances, and he asked his son: Which of my words is not good? The son spoke out of his father's series of operations, and the father felt that he was in a loss and entered the room, and the son also entered their bedroom, hugging his mother tightly.
The son said to his mother: Don't be sad, housework is also a matter. He also said that tonight he would watch the cat in the living room and not let it scratch the door.
After finally kissing his mother, the son lay on the table in the living room and quietly wrote his homework.
Netizens also feel that their father is not doing the right thing when they see this scene, and netizens commented: Father and son are not at a level at all, one is annoyed and angry, and one is very calm and has no waves.
It is inevitable that husband and wife will not be able to quarrel, quarrel, and make some small contradictions, but we must also take into account the feelings of good children.
Do not quarrel in front of the child, which may form a shadow in the child's psychology and adversely affect the child's personality formation.
If you are doing something wrong, apologize to the other party in time, even if you are a child, you must apologize in time.
This father may be a bit macho and a little sharp when he has a conflict with his mother, but he must apologize to his mother for doing something wrong, so as to facilitate the harmony of family relations.
The child's emotional intelligence is very high, he is well educated by his mother, and he faces his father's angry questioning, not in the same angry tone, but very calm, not humble.
With such an attitude, I believe that children can also solve some difficulties well when they grow up. Do you think this kid is doing the right thing? Do you think he's too partial to his mom?