Pregnancy and childbirth is a family event, a woman is pregnant in October, a childbirth, carrying the hope of the whole family, the family is immersed in the tension and joy of welcoming a new life.
But many people habitually focus on the newborn baby, and the mother who gave birth to the baby has been snubbed, and even the new mother jokes: I am just a delivery. Although it is a joke, it is also a little bitter.
However, recently, Ms. Wu of Shangqiu, Henan Province, shared a video of her sister-in-law giving birth to a child, which made expectant mothers feel a warmth.
On February 10, the sister-in-law of Ms. Wu gave birth to a daughter by caesarean section, and the younger brother Mr. Wu wore a suit and bought a bouquet of fiery red roses in order to welcome her daughter, saying that he wanted his daughter to see her handsome father at the first sight. I have to say that Mr. Wu is a very attentive father, and the first time the father and daughter met was full of ritual.
When he saw his post-surgery wife lying weakly on the bed, tears came out of his eyes uncontrollably. A big man, holding flowers in his hand, cried in front of everyone.
This picture has touched countless netizens, all of whom envy that this wife is really married to the right person.
The best love is that you empathize with my suffering. Although the birth process was very painful, seeing her husband's reaction, the wife must have been sweet in her heart, and even the knife edge was not so painful.
It is said that the boy has tears and does not flick, and Mr. Wu wipes his tears with his clothes, which is really too handsome, and people can't help but sigh, and there is no better feeling than this.
Although there are many people like Mr. Wu who feel empathy for the mothers, and feel sorry for them and cry, there are also many family members who are selfish and unwilling to think even a little for the sake of the mother when they are most painful and helpless.
Netizen Mustard said: I have frequent contractions in the delivery room, he lies on my bed to play games, his mother says he is tired and rests, his father said to pay the hospital, the doctor and nurse will take care of it.
Netizen affectionately said: When I entered the delivery room, my in-laws and husbands went home to sleep, the nurses couldn't find the family outside, and they also trained me in the delivery room, muttering in my mouth, all three fingers, and they still had the heart to go home and sleep!
There was even more infuriating: an hour before giving birth, the husband and the mother had a big fight, kicked open the door of the ward and left, the mother was breathless, alarmed the doctors and nurses of the entire department, and did not reappear until two hours after the birth of the daughter.
It's really not better than not knowing, one is more frightened, there are really all kinds of strange situations, and some are basically that the family does not know the weight, and in the end this is not worthy of being a father at all.
At the critical juncture of giving birth to a child, life and death are in a flash, no matter what the situation is, as a husband, a father, to know which is more important, even if the mother is unreasonable, this time should also focus on the overall situation, try to keep the mother's mood stable.
But he quarreled with his wife regardless of his disregard, and even the doctors and nurses in the entire department were frightened and frightened, and they simply did not pay attention to the safety of his wife and children's lives, fortunately, there was no accident, otherwise this man's sin would be great.
Having children is the only way for every woman, and perhaps there is nothing unusual in the eyes of many people, and even an understatement will be that a woman must have children, but it cannot be denied that she is pregnant in October.
As a family member, in this special period, she should be given more care in life and psychological support, otherwise there are so many men in the world, why should she have children in your house?
These cares and love are often hidden in some small details of daily life, life care, emotional tolerance, little by little is the accumulation of family feelings, with these warm memories, even if there is a dispute in the future, it is enough to melt countless solid ice.
As the saying goes, it is easy to get a thousand gold treasures, it is rare to have a lover, no matter what, a woman who is willing to have children with you is worth your kindness to her, like this Mr. Wu, use your own warmth to leave her with some good memories.