Zhengzhou National Medical Hall: When I was a child, my grandmother always said something to scare us, such as not opening the door to strangers casually, not going out to play at night, ghosts or something, probably to make us obedient. But, you know what? Frequently scaring children will leave psychological hidden dangers. Parents should never scare their children.
Fright can hinder a child's psychological development.
Scaring children around 2 years old will be effective, but parents rarely consider such consequences. If children often have fear, their spirit is easily traumatized, which may cause stuttering, enuresis, insomnia, mental retardation, and even mental neuroses, affecting the normal development of children's psychology. Some children grow up to show cowardice, cowardice, and lack of independence. Children who grow up in this intimidating atmosphere will at least show the following weaknesses:
1. Timidity.
Timidity and intimidation cast a terrifying shadow on a child's young mind, forming the illusion of knowing the world, mistakenly believing that there are really fanged monsters, jackals, butchers and toothless butchers lurking around. They have nightmares at night, often crying and waking up to wet the bed, and often being scared and frightened when they wake up during the day. They spend their days cautious, afraid of being carried away by wolves or demons. Always trying to rely on adults, seeking protection. Such children are likely to grow up cautious, timid, suspicious, and depressed.
2. Low self-esteem.
The main reason for inferiority is that everything around you is stronger than yourself, and there is a danger of being destroyed at any time. Because of the intimidation of the parents, it is this terrible impression of the child that makes the child feel that he is a poor creature, and the monsters around him may swallow themselves at any time and anywhere. This inferiority complex can affect a child's life, causing him to lose self-confidence and achieve nothing.
3. Sluggishness.
Intimidating children does not dare to think, dare not say, dare not ask, dare not do, thinking stagnation and rigidity, sluggish behavior. Over time, the child becomes sluggish and insensitive to anything.
It can be seen that scaring children will cause endless harm. We advise young people to lay down this weapon as soon as possible! Give your child more positive guidance. Parents should carefully observe what the child is afraid of, try to eliminate the child's fear from the psychology, and overcome the child's nervousness. If the child is afraid of the dark and is not easy to sleep, tell him that day and night are the same, there is nothing to be afraid of. Usually, he can turn off the lights, watch TV, listen to music, play games in the darkroom with his children, let him associate the things he is afraid of with the happy things, and the company of his relatives will also make him feel safe. Before going to bed, you can turn on the lights for a while, let the child explore the house, and gradually develop a sense of fear of the dark. Slowly, he would get used to sleeping alone in the room with the lights off.