Coordinates Fujian rural areas today attended the funeral ceremony, there are many feelings. Once upon a time, when I was a child, my grandfather died, but I was kneeling behind the ancestral hall looking at the outside through the cloth to bid farewell. Blue and white tones, mournful waves

Coordinates fujian countryside

I attended the funeral ceremony today and felt a lot of emotions.

Once upon a time, when I was a child, my grandfather died, but I was kneeling behind the ancestral hall looking at the outside through the cloth to bid farewell. Blue and white tones, mournful, the host speaks a local dialect, goes forward, bows and bows three times.

Today, it is to attend the funeral of an uncle. Now I am a married woman, and when I come back to the funeral, I have to kneel on behalf of my husband and wait for the others to come forward and bow down one by one. Finally, he went forward to kneel and pray with others and left again.

The mood is particularly mixed. Looking at the deceased grandson kneeling next to the ancestral hall, still fighting, it seems that he does not understand what these specific meanings are. Thinking back to myself, when my grandfather died, it seemed that there were very few sad emotions. However, now that I am, the mourning music and the sound of the host in my ears seem to infect me, and tears are swirling in my eyes.

Funeral giving, which is a tradition, has been simplified a lot compared to before. I still remember when I was in junior high school, the political teacher at that time said that many of our funeral customs were that people did not spend money on him when they were still alive, and they were so solemn after death. You also have to run a banquet and send money. Yes, really send money, this is something that everyone is aware of when we are young, there is money to be taken at the banquet for birthdays and funerals, and the little friends will compare who has taken how much money.

After talking so much, I want to express everything, and I don't know what the main point is said, and I feel a lot of emotions. Heck, it seems like someone else was in contact with yesterday... People are really vulnerable. Goodbye, silence.