Parent-Child Record February 2022 Part 2: Children are always happy because they only recognize their own rhythms

Today is a parent-child recording day of the week.

This week is the first week after the Spring Festival and the last week before the start of school, where the baby and grandparents stay together.

The two of us were able to enjoy a slightly more relaxed week off work, clean up the house, wash our clothes, and of course, feel a little bored, after all, the inertia of habit is still very strong.

Every day, the baby will video with us, together with a small parent-child video game, in the baby's strong desire, the baby bought the child "Minecraft" tool set, can play a doll war with me.

This week, I realized:

The most important thing about a person is his rhythm and style.

Just like a person's breath, one breath and one breath, one give one gain.

The reason why children are always happy is because they only recognize their own rhythm.

If outsiders interrupt their rhythm, they will cry.

No matter what level of economy you are at, what kind of rhythm your breathing is every day, what time you get up, what time you go to bed, what you do when you get up, these always need to have a rhythm.

The most important thing in a person's growth is to sort out their own rhythm and style logic, and then go step by step according to their own rhythm.

Do not panic because of various changes in the outside world, and make certain adjustments according to the changes.

The complex disturbances of the outside world, combing under your rhythm, become nutrients and resources to help you grow.

This rhythm and style is your unique meaning of existence in the world, and it includes all your explanations of the phenomena and facts of the world.

Every child is a spirit of the world, what their talent is, three points are destined, seven points rely on hard work.

There is also an old saying that three years old looks big.

As I said before, before the age of twenty, you can vaguely know that your talent is still slightly ordinary.

As parents, we cannot transmit the pressure of life to our children and let them bear the burden of choices that cross the border.

If you want a second child, whether you need your parents to accompany you and choose full-time

Children are ignorant.

Parents not only need to work hard for their dreams and find their own suitable rhythm, but also provide guidance and resources for their children to find and develop such a rhythm.

No matter what kind of achievements life ultimately achieves, the meaning of life's effort is that a life walks through the world at its own pace.

It can be a meritorious deed, or it can be a dashing and well-behaved maverick, there is no prescribed path, the past is cloudy, the future road is in the distance, and the rhythm under the feet is not chaotic.

Your rhythm externalizes, that is, your schedule, your hobbies, and what you give up, which falls between your breath and inhale.

If you give up the choice and lie flat, then it is to give up your own rhythm initiative, let other people's thoughts run in your head, let your time and resources be dominated by others, and your recognition of the meaning of your own existence will decline, so you will feel that life is not interesting, the connection with the outside world is reduced, you will gain depression or indulge in a certain hobby, and get meaning from the illusion.

To cultivate the truth through falsehood, the false is ultimately false, it can only be the beginning of a shallow level, and it has no effect on objective facts.

We need to unite knowledge and action, and put cognition into action.

To find the rhythm, start by refining your own schedule, starting with the meditation and awakening of breathing and inhaling.

Welcome to pay attention to the message, I know I will meet you tomorrow!