Zhang Ailing once wrote a paragraph:
The most difficult days have passed; the feeling of closing their eyes and shedding tears, I don't want to experience it again in this life, and now I no longer expect any company, because on rainy days, even the shadow will leave.
It's heartbreaking to read.
The road of life will always be one encounter after another, one storm after another. Among them, there is bitterness, there is entanglement, there is confusion, there is sadness,...... Let people sink, let people sink.
However, when you have seen a period of scenery, walked through cities, passed through waves of people, experienced one past after another, when you are getting older, the more you experience, the thicker the precipitation, the more you will understand, do not go tangled, the footsteps can be relaxed, do not go confused, the look can be refreshing.
When we come to this world, we are destined to encounter potholes, wind, frost, rain and snow, and feel the great waves.
And the traces of life have never been yesterday's polishing, but today's letting go; not yesterday's anxiety and distress, but today's peace with the encounter; not yesterday's timidity and cowardice, but today's fate to look down.
Beautiful and ugly, sunny and cloudy, flowers blooming and falling, are all born of correspondence, and when you look down on the past, you will follow the present.
Only by settling down with the encounter can we live out the maturity of life experience
Mr. Yang Dai once said that the most beautiful scenery in life comes from the calm and calmness of the heart.
Most of the wisdom of people's lives comes from the clarity of the heart, the open-mindedness and the strength of the mind after experiencing hardships.
People live with the encounter, but on ordinary days, they can also smell the fragrance of flowers, can feel quiet, and can live far and calm.
Lin Qingxuan once said: The suffering in the world is nothing more than poverty, disease, loneliness, death, love can not be consummated, etc., this is nothing, but if we can go back, the mood is like a child, then the sweet potato leaf also has its own peacock open screen style, naturally can live a little more peace of mind, a little more comfortable.
It can be seen that maintaining your original intention, many imperfections of life, when you do not care about the past, but live in the present, you will inevitably live at ease.
Yesterday's things, such as yesterday's death, today's things, such as today's birth.
Those who hide calm and calm in their bodies are often calm and humble when things happen, even if they have a glorious past, they do not reveal, nor deliberately hide, but are like ordinary people, but in life more sensitive and awakened than others, and they are at ease when they encounter things.
The years passed, and in the blink of an eye, they turned into a cloud of smoke, and those past events that disappeared into the invisible were just a glass of thin wine that I drank with my friends tonight.
Therefore, life is a long road, learn to go with the flow, in order to make you more mature, more stable.
Only by following your own fate can you meet people who are sincere to you
Karma is the emotion between people.
The beginning of love may be a look back, and when it ends, it may be the cosmic firmament, just because some people can't put it down in their hearts and can't see it.
How many people pick up their mobile phones after being drunk and make a phone call that will never be able to dial; how many people wake up in the middle of the night, dreaming of tears, thinking of people far away;
After drunkenness, I know that the wine is strong, and after love, I know that it is heavy.
Day or night, that man lingered in his life all the time.
When people are young, they have a little bit of the passion of Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai, and they always feel that love and hate should be vigorous, even if they are turned into discs, they must prove the depth of love.
So he swore to the bright moon and to the emperor and the queen of heaven, as if this was the only way to take out his heart and show it to his lovers. Until one day, the fate is over, but I am eager to cut the negative person piece by piece to pay tribute to the true feelings that I have paid.
People who are immersed in love always like to measure the depth of love clearly. But love has passed, it has passed, and it is enough for you to meet at the most beautiful age, and it is enough to have an unforgettable love.
People live a lifetime, it is impossible for the person you meet, is the person who will accompany you to the old age in this life, love is not a star in the sky, there are fixed constellations, there is its own orbit, love is ethereal, it is unpredictable, just like the human heart.
Therefore, only by looking down on fate can you meet people who are sincere to you.
The oath of life and death, lingering and compassion, is nothing more than autumn wind and leaves, going with the wind and flowing with the water.
You need to have this state of mind: when fate comes, affirm it and cherish it; when fate goes, deny it, and let it go.
Conclusion:
Once saw a sentence:
Before the age of twenty, time and shade were the slow flow of a small stream, so slow that it seemed as if they had not grown up in a lifetime, and they could not see the scenery in the distance; after the age of twenty, they did not care about the passage of time at all, fast and slow, and it was idle to look at it more.
Growth is an experience, maturity is an experience.
In this life, people cannot always move forward in a good situation, and those encountered wind and rain, those torments in love, are all part of your experience.
So, when one day you mature, those who missed the past, is the calmness of the heart, you can calmly smile, spoil the calm, Ling Han can also be as proud as a plum blossom, in the trough, you can also have the fragrance of wild lilies.
The older you get, the more you will like Mr. Dongpo's state of mind of "bamboo sticks and shoes are lighter than horses, who are afraid, a smoke and rain for a lifetime". Although we live too ordinary, it is impossible to reach this state. But you can also throw away the unnecessary things in your life, and give up what you should give up.
Mr. Zeng Guofan once instructed us: the future is not welcome, things come to conform, the time is not complicated, the past is not in love.
Then, for the rest of your life, may everyone have the mood of appreciating the bright moon in the mountains, and also have the peace of mind in the surging crowds, and they can find the elegance and calmness of life, live with fate, and be at ease with fate.
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