Opening Remarks:
In this life, walking and walking, you will understand; live, live, you will fade.
Time is hurried, it will always turn the face into old age; the years are long, and the publicity will always become indifferent.
Everyone, only after half a life, going through the complexity of the world, watching people walk cold, and experiencing sadness and helplessness, can they no longer indulge in the past, no longer cling to trivial matters, no longer entangled in love and hate... Looking down on everything makes life easier.
How many times, we chased desperately for something out of reach, but ignored the happiness that was already in our hands: the warmth of "family sitting idle, the lights are amiable" when we came home that night, the fireworks of "chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea" every day... It's all so moving.
So, the rest of your life is long, 2022, has gone through more than three months, no matter how much money you have made this year, how much money you have lost, no matter this year, whether you have experienced good or bad, please believe: you are very healthy, you are living well; you are very peaceful, you are living a great life.
Life for everyone, only this time, the green mountains are still there, but the coming day is not long, so cherish the beauty of the moment, tired to rest; can not hold, just take a holiday.
Don't stretch the days too tightly, don't block the emotions in the chest, let go of what you can't get, for the rest of your life, we have to love this great time.
Because, life is really too impermanent.
Take the "human feelings lightly", make the circle simple, and meet with fate
Du Fu Zeng Shiyun: The clouds in the sky are like white clothes, and the whiskers are like dogs.
Everyone is being pushed forward by time.
I don't know if you have noticed that sometimes, the more you live like a bystander, the easier you will live. When you are more and more calculating, all your troubles come.
In the dream of the Red Chamber, it is said: Everything is learned, and the cultivation of human feelings is an article.
But, sometimes, you think that you are trying to express yourself and try to please everyone, but the more you are like this, the more difficult it is to get the approval of others.
On the contrary, you look down on people's feelings and sophistication, ignore the cold and warm of people's hearts, only do yourself, only be ashamed of your heart, the more you live, the more painful you are, and the more you live, the more you can get the respect of others.
You know, the person we all like must be this person who is kind, generous, upright, upward, and makes people want to get close to him, and the person who makes us disgusted must be playing tricks, playing with the eyes, seemingly shrewd, seemingly surrounded by a group of people, but in fact, there are too many falsehoods hidden in hypocrisy.
So, don't panic, time will eventually let you see through who is sincere to you, and will also let you see who has been hypocritical to you.
Everyone will always grow from an innocent child to a sophisticated adult; everyone will always live a taste of maturity from simple ignorance... Look down on love and hate, live out your own human feelings, and everything will be fine.
For hypocritical people, see through and don't say it.
For those who calculate, see through it and do not explain it thoroughly.
If you understand everything in your heart, some people, time will punish them, make their circle simple, let themselves live with fate, and be at peace with encounters.
Take "life lightly" and make life simple and go with your heart
Busy life, everyone is for a better life, and forget that what we need most is the fireworks of the world.
How many people are on the road to survival, early out and late, early and greedy, for the silver money two or two, in order to let the family live a better life, but even the scenery passing by around them is too late to take a look.
Do you remember the last time you walked by a sparkling lake with an evening breeze? Do you remember the last time you laughed and played with your child? Do you remember the last time you had a beer with your friends?
When you grow up, will you still be able to chat with the stall owners in the night market? Are you still in the mood to tease, little wildcats on the side of the road? Is it possible to hold a piece of roasted sweet potato in winter and hum two sentences while walking?
Life is long, we are just ordinary people who are busy for chai rice oil and salt, we are just ordinary people who are eager to find peace in the hustle and bustle, and we are just human passers-by who hope to heal their inner sorrows with pyrotechnics.
So, don't make yourself so hurried, don't let yourself live so hastily, don't drown your life in the old stories of the past, make the days simple, let the mood be comfortable.
Don't be affected by those trivial things, and don't be affected by those chickens and dogs, forget the happiness.
The better your mood, the more you will love the world, the more you can enjoy the fireworks, the more you will be treated tenderly by this world.
Don't be confused, let the once mottled experiences be quenched into waves; don't be anxious, let the wind, frost, rain and snow along the way precipitate into a quiet and calm.
Look down on "love", let love and hate be like the wind, and gather and disperse with fate
In the vast sea of people, the encounter is accidental, and the acquaintance is fate.
How many love affairs, walking and walking, will disperse, how much love and hate, walking and walking, become a knot in the heart. ‘
Some people, because of the departure of some people, are in pain, and some people look down on fate and let it dissipate with the wind.
Affection is always thicker than water.
Children are the continuation of our lives, the deepest softness in our hearts, and the worries that we cannot let go of in this life.
Parents are the biggest benefactors in our lives, the people who worry about us the most every day, and the people who see our backs drifting away the most.
Lovers are the relatives we give ourselves in the dark, we cross thousands of mountains, walk through thousands of rivers, and find a lifetime for ourselves.
Therefore, in your lifetime, you must cherish these people, they are the swords and swords of the years, they are the lightning and thunder on the road of life, protecting you, giving you support, giving you strength.
Don't put too much pressure on the child, learning good or bad is his creation, happy and happy is the meaning of his coming to this world; don't be too far away from the parents, to know that "the parents are here, life still has a place to come, the parents go, life is only the way home", the parents are your protectors, filial piety to the good parents, is the biggest blessing saved for yourself; the lover, is the one who wants to share your hardships with you, "holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son", it is he who let you make the suffering of life into a feather duster when the dust falls, and sweep away all your sorrows.
Smoke and rain red dust, live a little with fate.
Leave your people, don't go to nostalgia, don't hate, to take revenge, guard these people around you, they are your blessing.
Believe that there is never an unprovoked encounter in this world, and there is never a gratuitous separation. When the fate is there, cherish it, and when the fate leaves, let yourself not regret it.
When we come to this world, everyone is just a passer-by, just a grain of sand in the stars of the universe, don't take yourself so seriously, and don't take everything to heart.
With an indifferent heart, calmly face the world's changes, and believe: the simpler your heart, the simpler the world, there is nothing in the world, and the mediocre people disturb themselves.
Life is impermanent, and there are many hardships in going to the day.
Learn to endure suffering, learn to let go of vicissitudes, learn to make yourself content and happy.
For the rest of your life, may everyone be able to cherish the time, look down on the joys and sorrows of life, when frustrated, do not give up, when proud, not arrogant, live out your own true colors, live out your own encounters and be at peace.
2022, let it all go with the flow!
Author, Frank Fox
Figure, network
May you find in my words the ordinary years, a strong affection! Thanks for your attention!