Recently, there is such a popular sentence on the network video: life is impermanent, and the large intestine wraps the small intestine.
Although it has a taste of ridicule, it does reveal that when people encounter impermanent life, they are mostly helpless and powerless.
In fact, we may also have such an experience, life is like a drama, praying mantis catching cicadas, yellow finches behind. You think you are lucky, but you don't know that under the skin of luck, there is bad luck.
As Mr. Yang Dai said:
There will be no simple happiness in the world, happiness is always mixed with troubles and sorrows, and there is no eternity in the world.
A simple person may deceive himself that there will always be an eternity in this world, there will always be simple happiness, so all his life, his mind is struggling with reality.
In this way, in fact, he not only failed to live happily, but also failed to prove anything.
On the contrary, if you acknowledge the impermanence of the world and the vagaries of life early on, you will not be able to face them calmly in your heart when you really encounter some things that make it difficult for you to accept the three views.
Gain and loss are looked down upon, success or failure is looked down upon, and since life is impermanent, there is no need to publicize it.
1: Life is impermanent
Cao Xueqin wrote a song "Hate Impermanence" in "Dream of the Red Chamber": "Joy and glory are just right, hate impermanence has arrived." ”
In life, there are always some people who still feel the beauty of life one second, and the next second they encounter the blow of life.
This feeling of happiness and sorrow, or that you simply can't predict whether a good thing will come in the next second in the future or a bad thing will strike, often makes people feel helpless.
Human nature is to yearn for the beautiful, but also to pursue the beautiful, just like the simplicity and heat of "life is like the first meeting".
However, the impermanence of life will often make people feel and sad about "what is the autumn wind and sorrow".
How fragile people are, how strong people are, when a person has experienced many impermanent lives, he looks down and sees through, it is estimated that he can live more calmly and calmly.
Zhuangzi said:
Knowing the time is endless, observing the surplus and the false, so gaining but not joy, losing without worrying, knowing the impermanence of the division.
People live, there is always too much truth and knowledge, we are not involved, and we do not know at all, when we feel their own smallness.
Then, some of the so-called gains and losses in life, or temporary successes and failures, even if we can't let go for a while, we must tell ourselves to learn to let go in time.
Because only when you really learn to let go and face the impermanence of life can we really be able to afford it, or what we should do for it.
We will have the experience that when we are young, we will feel that the whole world has collapsed because we have lost one of our small toys, and we will cry to death because of pity.
When you grow up, don't say that you discard a few dollars of small toys, even if you lose tens of thousands of dollars, you don't have much pain in your heart.
This is because people's hearts will become tenacious through some trials or thinking, and they can bear things in the face of success or failure or gain and loss.
2: Life is impermanent
As the poet Yu Guangzhong wrote in "Memory As Long as a Railroad Track":
"It is said that life is impermanent, but it is also the constant of life."
When people reach a certain age, they do not argue, do not make trouble, do not seek, only wish to be at peace in their hearts, and in the impermanent life, find the constant of life, and accept the constant of life.
Then, do not argue, do not argue, do not rush, do not lose, then put down, proud, not ostentatious.
Life is indeed impermanent, and life is also impermanent, but most of the cuteness in life is also in this impermanence.
Therefore, even if we are dominated by a capricious fate, we must perceive the beauty and wonder of life from it, rather than becoming a puppet of life.
Shakespeare said:
"Don't point to the moon and swear, it's fickle, every month is full of profits and losses; if you point to it and swear, maybe your love is as impermanent as it is."
Romantic people, weak personality, like to be driven by emotion, can not move this oath, can not move so sad, emotional ups and downs, life is chaotic.
They may be full of expectations for life, but also longing for themselves to be able to live a good life all the time, stabilize the status quo, and stabilize everything.
In fact, no moment in life is the same, and you in the first second and you in the next have already discovered some kind of change that is not seen by the naked eye.
If you blindly "carve a boat and ask for a sword", or cling to the past, or stay in the fantasy world of self-design and refuse to come out, then the impermanence of life will always make you lose more and more.
The Master of Sinology once said:
"We now see this world of birth, old age, sickness, death, impermanence, suffering, emptiness, and selflessness, a shadow.
You don't see that behind these phenomena are constant, blissful, self- and pure. ”
Cheap cannot be greedy, and blessings cannot be enjoyed, because life is impermanent, and the more you desire to get it, the more likely it is that it will be easy to lose.
So, don't worry, don't be discouraged, don't tangle, don't worry.
Life is like water, like water, back and forth, is a kind of fate, but also a normal state of life.
Life comes in stripes and leaves in stripes, and since life is impermanent, there is no need to show it.
3: Accept impermanence
If life is impermanent and life is impermanent, then the more you see, the more you experience, the more you think, the more you become normal.
Yu Qiuyu said:
"As far as life is concerned, it should be balanced between mountains and water. The water's edge gives people joy, and the mountains give people comfort. The water's edge allows us to perceive the impermanence of the world, and the mountain allows us to understand the eternal prosperity of heaven and earth.
The water's edge allows us to enjoy the thrill of a long journey away from the arms of our elders, and the mountain allows us to experience the gentle taste of returning to the ancestral home. The philosophy of the water's edge is not to give up day and night, and the philosophy of the mountain is to know the sun and the moon. ”
In life, you must have agility like water and a calm like a mountain.
The flexible mind can flexibly perceive everything in the present moment in the impermanent world, learn to adapt to changes, and know how to respond with tact.
The calm nature allows us to accept the impermanent life and life while retaining a philosophy of life in our hearts.
This philosophy of dealing with the world is to be calm, stick to the faith, and stabilize the mentality.
Many times, we have to understand a truth, since there are some things, even the strength and effort of a lifetime are unpredictable, cannot be changed, and even cannot be escaped.
So, instead of entangling with it and not giving way to each other, it is better to become friends with it and live in harmony with each other, is not it a kind of wisdom in life?
As Su Shi said:
People have sorrows and joys, and the moon has clouds and sunshine, and this matter is difficult to complete.
Since life is impermanent, life is impermanent, life is impermanent, then accept all this calmly, and do "there should be no hatred, why should something be long and round?" ”
Calmly face everything, do not show off, do not be arrogant, do not have to be arrogant, and must not pass, but also tell themselves, as long as the heart maintains a "hope that people will be long- and thousands of miles together" beautiful expectations.
Then, life can be full, satisfied, and happy.
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