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What is the difference between allowing and accepting? Permission is to uninstall the system that others pre-installed in your mind, such as when you were a child, you were overly manipulated by adults, and various adults' not allows will implant your intentions

author:Hee-heng psychology

What is the difference between allowing and accepting?

Permission is to uninstall the system that others pre-installed in your mind, such as when you were a child, you were overly manipulated by adults, adults are not allowed to implant your subconscious, and when you encounter scenes reappearing in adulthood, you will have automatic confrontation.

Acceptance is the relationship between yourself and yourself, that is, you have uninstalled the operating system that does not belong to you, how to do it yourself, it is completely up to you, you have lived out of yourself, and you have lived your full self.

But most of them have been fighting with the original family pre-installed system all their lives, what they want to do, and the pre-installed system is inconsistent, in order to be loyal to the parents pre-installed system, the self and the pre-installed system have been fighting, internal friction.

Permission is to say goodbye to the original family pre-installed, and acceptance is a compromise between oneself and oneself.

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