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The novel "Loving You is the Best Time" was adapted into the TV series "There Is You in This Life", starring Zhong Hanliang and Li Xiaoran.
Although the first love is profound, it should not be too much that people can still remember, or even grumble, seven years after it ends.
Why would Nie Yusheng still not forget her seven years after he broke up with Tanjing? In the world, there is no unfinished story, only the undead heart.
This article only narrates, comments, and analyzes the plot of the original novel. Let's first look at Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing's past seven years ago.
1. Acquaintance
Tan Jing's father died while she was in kindergarten. Her mother, Xie Zhiyun, is a music teacher, teaching piano in her spare time to earn some extra money to subsidize the family, and later became a piano teacher for Nie Dongyuan's son Nie Yusheng.
At that time, Nie Dongyuan was busy with his career and did not have time to accompany his children, and Nie Yusheng liked Xie Zhiyun very much and was willing to listen to her. Nie Dongyuan also looked at Xie Zhiyun differently, and then developed a male-female relationship.
Nie Dongyuan (played by Zhang Chenguang)
Nie Dongyuan promised Nie Yusheng that he would not marry again, but he and Xie Zhiyun promised that they would give her a stable life.
Xie Zhiyun has always suspected that Nie Dongyuan killed her husband, and has never stopped investigating, so she rejects Nie Dongyuan's feelings and decides not to continue teaching Nie Yusheng piano.
Nie Dongyuan observed for a while and found that Xie Zhiyun was not pretending to be a gesture but really wanted to cut off contact with him. In order to let Xie Zhiyun return and continue to teach Nie Yusheng piano, he promised to help Tan Jing transfer to the key middle school 14 middle school for high school.
One day in tan jing's first year of high school, Xie Zhiyun suddenly fainted while teaching Nie Yusheng piano, and he was sent to the hospital. When Tan Jing rushed to the hospital, Nie Yusheng appeared and asked her if she was Teacher Xie's daughter. The two met in this way.
Teenager Tan Jing (played by Fan Shiran))
Nie Yusheng paid xie zhiyun more than five thousand medical expenses. Xie Zhiyun wanted to recuperate, so he asked Tan Jing to return Nie Yusheng's money.
Nie Yusheng asked her not to be in a hurry to repay the money, and she also wanted to pay them a little more tuition in advance. Tan Jing refused to accept it, Nie Yusheng felt that this girl how could she screw it like this?
Because Tan Jing is a child of a single-parent family like him, Nie Yusheng is subconsciously willing to be close to her.
Young Nie Yusheng (played by Zhan Yu)
2. Fall in love
Nie Yusheng was a few years older than Tan Jing, and was in his freshman year at that time. He graduated from the fourteenth grade and excelled in both character and learning. With her mother's consent, Tan Jing began to exchange letters with Nie Yusheng and exchange learning things.
Back and forth, the two gradually secretly became affectionate.
After the college entrance examination was over, Nie Yusheng invited her to watch a movie. The two held hands for the first time and established a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.
Nie Yusheng's family situation was far from Tan Jing's, but he didn't mind at all. He loves to talk quietly, it's the first time he's loved someone, so wholeheartedly.
Tan Jing was a few years younger than him, so he regarded her as a princess and held her in the palm of his hand.
He knew she didn't like him spending his family's money to buy her gifts, so even with five thousand dollars a month of pocket money, he still "translated materials for others in the heat of the holidays, and stood in the street selling drinks in the hot sun", just to use the money he earned to give her a brooch as a birthday present.
He said, "I hope that the thing closest to your heart is sent by me." ”
Nie Yusheng had complete trust in Tan Jing. When he learned that his father had an illegitimate child out there who was a few years younger than him, he was devastated.
He ran to her house on a typhoon day and appeared in front of her wet. She took good care of him and patiently unraveled him. The next day, he had a high fever, but she had to go to school, so she left him a stack of beans, saying that when the beans sprouted, she would come back.
So, after she left him, he made countless beans, and then waited for the beans to sprout and waited for her to return, but she never came back to him. And he hadn't had a birthday since she left, because he and she had the same birthday.
3. Impermissible love
When Tan Jing told her mother that she and Nie Yusheng were in love, Xie Zhiyun immediately expressed her opposition to their being together. She said they were too small, and that rich families like the Nie family were too complicated.
Xie Zhiyun did not tell Tan Jing her suspicions about Nie Dongyuan's killing of Tan's father.
Tan Jing believes that "she loves Nie Yusheng, Nie Yusheng also loves her, this love is simple and simple, she never felt that Nie Yusheng's family environment will bring any kind of impact to this relationship." ”
Later, Xie Zhiyun's information made her more and more convinced that Nie Dongyuan was the one who killed her father, so she and Nie Dongyuan said that they could not be together because he killed her husband.
Nie Dongyuan was very angry at the time and said that he had done it, and he also humiliated her with words, making her both embarrassed and uncomfortable.
Tan Jing learned many years later that Nie Dongyuan should have nothing to do with her father's death.
After this incident, Xie Zhiyun, who had a heart attack, deliberately did not take medicine, and she finally died of a heart attack a few months later, when she was not in good health. At that time, Tan Jing was still in college.
Nie Yusheng originally studied bioengineering at university, because he was afraid that Tan Jing would inherit her mother's heart disease, so he applied for a change to clinical medicine, hoping that he could better protect her.
The cross-college change of major requires the signature of parents, and Nie Dongyuan realized that his son was so deeply affectionate about tanjing at this time.
He knew before that when Nie Yusheng actually went to summer work, he found someone to find out that his son and Tan Jing were in love. He asked his subordinates to take 100,000 yuan to talk to Tan Jing about the conditions, let her leave Nie Yusheng, and Tan Jing refused.
This time, Nie Dongyuan personally met and talked with Tan Jing, told Tan Jing about his relationship with Xie Zhiyun, and said that he would transfer a villa in Hong Kong to her name and make her promise to leave Nie Yusheng.
Only then did Tan Jing begin to understand why Xie Zhiyun would oppose them being together in the first place, and therefore hesitated whether to continue to be with Nie Yusheng.
However, when she accidentally saw Xie Zhiyun's diary and "knew" that Nie Dongyuan was the one who killed her father and mother, she decided to end her love affair with Nie Yusheng.
4. Break up
At that time, Nie Yusheng knew nothing about Nie Dongyuan and Xie Zhiyun, and he didn't know that his father had talked to Tan Jing, and he knew that his father didn't like him to be with Tan Jing, so he was busy helping Tan Jing apply for a school in the United States, planning to marry her in the United States and then live together.
However, Nie Yusheng, who was working hard for their common future, was suddenly broken up.
Tan Jing said that she had never loved him. She said she was deliberately pregnant and then beaten off, in order to give him a taste of what it was like to lose his most beloved thing and make him sad.
She said, "The cruelest thing in the world is nothing else, it is to make you think you have everything, and finally find out that everything is actually false." ”
No matter how he pressed, Tan Jing did not tell him the real reason why she left him. He loved her so much, but she trampled one of his hearts to pieces.
This relationship hit Nie Yusheng very hard, his first love was still so sweet and beautiful one moment, and the next moment the girl he loved deeply turned his face and was ruthless to him, fiercely stabbing his heart. For this reason, he also suffered from depression and saw a psychologist for three years.
5. Conclusion
After reading Nie Yusheng and Tan Jing's past, I think Nie Yusheng is very innocent. He seriously fell in love, loved someone wholeheartedly, and planned to marry her, but in exchange for this result.
In my opinion, the reason why Nie Yusheng has been obsessed with Talking Quiet for seven years after the breakup is because of the following five reasons:
(1) Tan Jing is Nie Yusheng's first love, and the first love is unforgettable.
The French writer Romain Rolland has this sentence: "Initial love requires very little nourishment!" Just see each other, touch them lightly as you walk by, and a fantasy power will gush out of your heart to create her love. A little boring little thing can make people lose their souls. ”
Tan Jing appeared at the beginning of Nie Yusheng's love and easily got his love.
Nie Yusheng was very devoted to love and exhausted all his feelings. As a child of a single-parent family, his desire for affection is stronger than that of the average child. And Nie Dongyuan, the father, is very busy and has no time to pay attention to the emotional needs of his children.
When Nie Yusheng met Tan Jing, who also came from a single-parent family, he felt that they were the same kind of people, and there was an invisible tacit understanding between them, so he was more willing to open his heart to her, love without reservation, and even if he fell out with his father, he would change his profession for her and change his future development direction.
2. Tan Jing said that she had never loved Nie Yusheng, which made him self-doubt and denial.
He took this love so seriously, only to be told that the best times in his opinion were just a revenge for her. This makes him doubt himself, suspecting that he is not good enough or that he has not paid enough to make her not fall in love with himself.
Self-denial is because he feels very sad about being broken up, and he feels ashamed because he is being played with.
3, a life that has disappeared before it is born.
Even if Nie Yusheng was a man, he knew how much physical harm to a woman by beating a child was. And Tan Jing actually went to kill their forty-eight-day-old child because of revenge on him, which hit him even harder.
4. Because of the quiet conversation, the relationship between Nie Yusheng and his father was very stiff, and the father-son relationship could never return to the former intimacy.
Tan Jing's denial of their relationship made Nie Yusheng feel how stupid it was for her to fall out with her father. But the broken relationship can no longer be repaired. Even though he broke up with Tanjing, he still refused to study business according to his father's wishes, but continued to study medicine.
5, just like the psychologist said to Nie Yusheng: "You don't really choose to forget, you just choose to close."
Although she hurt him like that, because he never knew why, subconsciously he never believed that she would be so ruthless, and he always expected that one day she would return to his side.
So he has always been attached to study and work, and refuses to try new feelings.
There is a clip in the book where, seven years later, he tries to associate with Shu Qin in order to reassure his father, who has lung cancer.
When Tan Jing and Shu Qin appeared in front of him at the same time, he felt uncomfortable. Even if Shu Qin was already his nominal girlfriend at that time, and Tan Jing was only an ex, he still had a feeling of betraying Tan Jing. It can be seen that he has never let go of her in his heart.
There's a line in the book that says, "I've used up all I have to love you, so if you don't, forget it." That was what Nie Yusheng said to Tan Jing seven years later.
In fact, whether it was Nie Yusheng seven years ago or him seven years later, he also used up all of himself to love and talk quietly. It's not that Tan Jing doesn't understand him, it's just that she has always mistakenly thought that he is the son of the enemy of their family, so she desperately cuts off her contact with him, and refuses to go to him even when she is in the most difficult time.
Nie Yusheng put all his love on Tan Jing, and he couldn't get it back, couldn't get it, and couldn't put it down, so he couldn't forget it.
(This article is based on the original content of "Love You is the Best Time" and may differ from the content of the TV series.) The pictures in this article come from the stills of the TV series "This Life with You", if there is infringement, please contact to delete. Original article, plagiarism must be investigated! ）