On the fourth day of the New Year, several of our classmates who had a good relationship in high school got together again. In an old rural home, I was busy washing vegetables and cutting vegetables early. Those who came late were responsible for eating and drinking well, and they did not disperse until after lunch until more than ten o'clock in the evening. We can't hold such a party once a year, sometimes for two years, sometimes for three years. But this kind of party is also very happy.
In high school, we used to fantasize about such a scene, when we worked and had a family. You come to my house, and there are flowers growing under the windowsill that I have loved since I was a child. When I went to your house, you still intimidated me as much as I did then.
Now our high school days have passed more than twenty years ago. Everyone has worked in different industries for more than ten years and has their own lives and families. Maybe some of them may take a year, two years to meet... But the feelings between us have not faded.
After being together, life, work, family, there are times when there are good things to say, and there are times when they keep complaining. Even the daughters-in-law of several classmates also joined in, complaining and complaining in various ways. The atmosphere was very harmonious.
Most of the time, we are simply in touch by phone. Many times a few simple words, sometimes holding the phone and talking for a long time, unhappy work, trivial complaints about family marriage. At this time, most of them listened, persuaded, and came up with ideas that they knew or experienced. If you don't know, listen to it.
For life, perhaps because their living environments are different and their work is different. More often than not, it's still an audience. But that feeling was just as heavy, and many things were just as sad when they listened.
For the happy things, it will not take long to spread in this circle. Every time at the party, although everyone will not meet too much, but when they get together, the people who come are basically the same, married, still in love, have children, and basically the whole family is together. As the age group grows, the size of the party slowly grows. The level of excitement is also increasing year by year, and the things we talk about have become wider or narrower year by year. Family, work, children, jokes, small talk, frolicking...
Age is changing, and the friendship between several people is also changing. Maybe occasionally someone wanders out of this small circle for some reason, but everyone will only wish for the better. No complaining, no complaining.
Such circles are a continuation of youth in their teenage years. Even if the slow youth is gone, there are always many such feelings in life that continue to be preserved.
When you have endured all kinds of life, family... After the pressure, there must always be a circle that can talk to yourself, and there must always be a circle that can talk to yourself and listen. Maybe this is the way men's friendship survives, and maybe it's also a way for men to decompress.