Original | Pregnancy
Abstract: Safety education this class, all parents can not be absent!
Of all the crimes, the most hated thing is hurting children!
Whether it is the sexual abuse of children or the abduction of young girls, it is an evil that cannot be described in words, but such evil is not far away from our children.
A 9-year-old girl in Nanjing, Jiangsu Province, was sexually assaulted and killed by devil Shan, and shocked the whole network after the incident.
The most infuriating thing is that this is shan Mou's third crime, three innocent girls, cruelly injured by animals.
Wake up the alarm for all parents, and the devil who hurts the child may be around the child.
Just during this year's Spring Festival, on this day of reunion, a tragic case occurred in a small district in Chengdu, according to the owner of the community: an 11-year-old girl was killed in her own community, a flower girl, left this world forever.....
The hurt that children bear, the grief that parents bear, people dare not imagine.
The official did not give a detailed report on the incident, only the news that the suspect had been arrested.
But according to neighbors, before the incident, the little girl played downstairs until about 5 p.m., and then took the elevator home, only to be pulled into the house halfway through.
What happened later, can't imagine.
By the time there was news of the child, it was already an abandoned corpse in the wilderness.
"It is said that the SWAT police led the police dogs from house to house to find it, and it was raped first and then killed!"
There are really crazy demons in the world, 11-year-old girls, how can they bear to be so hurt.
What makes people think about it is that the day before the little girl was killed, someone also seduced the daughters of other neighbors, fortunately the little girl was not deceived.
It's just this luck, not every child has it.
For the girl who was killed, the neighbors were deeply sad: why did they kill the child? So cheerful for a child.
At the same time, many neighbors remind all parents: although the bad guys have been caught, everyone must pay attention to safety, and we must explain that the children must have a sense of prevention.
The most important thing is to be sure to take good care of the children.
Yes, to protect a child's healthy growth, the most important thing is to take good care of and teach the child to protect himself.
We can't stop the devil, so protect our children!
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The first lesson in protecting your child
Anti-sexual assault!
There are always some parents who feel that sexual assault is far away from their children, and those bad things will not happen to their children.
But sexual assault is not far from our children, and there are many well-dressed animals in this world, and they are hidden around the children.
According to the Supreme People's Court, the following data shows
Between 2013 and 2016, there were 10,782 cases of child sexual abuse heard in courts across the country, with an average of at least seven children being harmed every day.
Not long ago, in a school in Huizhou, Guangdong Province, Ye Mou, a 41-year-old rural teacher, molested at least 6 left-behind girls, the oldest of whom had just entered the 6th grade and the youngest in the 3rd grade.
In May 2013, Yang Shifu, a 56-year-old teacher in Tongbai County, Henan Province, sexually assaulted female students many times over the years, and of the 16 students who were violated, the youngest was only 7 years old and the oldest was 13 years old.
In September 2014, Xiao Qi (pseudonym), a 9-year-old girl in Guangdong, was sexually assaulted by a neighbor for 3 years, and her family found that the child's mother found that her daughter's underwear was repeatedly stained, so she took her daughter to check it out, and was diagnosed with an old rupture of the hymen and suffered from gynecological inflammation such as pelvic inflammatory disease and vaginitis.
Under the mother's questioning, the daughter said everything, and it turned out that the "devil" was a familiar neighbor who was one step away from home!
Similarly, in June 2019, the case of Wang Zhenhua, former chairman of Xincheng Holding Group, who sexually assaulted young girls shocked the whole network, who brought the two victim girls from Jiangsu to Shanghai as accomplices of animals and animals?
It is an acquaintance, an acquaintance who is familiar with the child's mother.
According to the Statistics of the Girls' Protection Fund of the China Children's Culture and Art Foundation:
Among the 317 cases of sexual assault in 2018, acquaintances committed 210 crimes, accounting for 66.25%; in acquaintances, teacher-student relationships accounted for 33.80%, netizens accounted for 18.57%; neighborhood relations (neighbors, villages, etc.) accounted for 14.76%; kinship relationships (father-daughter, stepfather-daughter, adoptive father-brother, relatives, etc.) accounted for 11.90%.
The numbers are incredible, but true.
Demons are often around, cloaked in warmth and hypocrisy, and treat simple and lovely children as prey, which is what parents should be vigilant about.
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The second lesson of protecting your child
Anti-trafficking!
There have been a number of recent missing cases of girls.
Xi'an girls are missing, Jilin girls are missing, Hubei girls are missing, etc., and recently there was a disappearance of Hefei girls in Wuxi, Jiangsu Province.
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Where have these lost children gone, I dare not think!
For example, the most recently paid attention to the news #Xuzhou eight-child mother with chains#, because it resembles the missing girl Li Ying, which makes parents who have lost their children across the country start to panic....
As a netizen said: the lost "Li Ying" may not be found, these girls are already studying when they disappear, and some have even gone to college or graduate school, normal literacy communication is no problem.
With today's information technology, these people can say their own information whenever they can access the Internet, and they can only be dead, crazy, stupid, or locked!
Yes, if the child disappeared because it was abducted by human traffickers, the consequences are really unimaginable.
Being sold to a normal family and growing up healthy is a good ending.
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Bi How Chenghui, a female college student, was abducted and sold by human traffickers just after the beginning of college.
120 yuan, sold to Ni Tianguo, a 55-year-old single stick in a remote mountainous area, afraid that she would escape, Ni Tianguo imprisoned him in a pigsty.
As long as he dared to escape, it was a severe beating, eating and living was an inhuman life, He Chenghui prayed more than once to let him go, but Ni Tianguo only wanted to have children.
It wasn't until 17 years later that He Chenghui's father finally found her.
The daughter, who should have been healthy and happy, is now tortured into the form of a madman.
Once abducted, both parents and children, their lives, lose their color and hope!
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The best way to protect your child
It is to take good care of the child and teach the child to protect himself!
Whether it is sexual assault or trafficking, it is a pain that parents and children cannot bear.
Children who are sexually abused spend their entire lives healing the shadow of being hurt.
Children who are trafficked may not be able to escape the dark life for the rest of their lives.
Therefore, as a parent, we must do our best to protect the child's innocence and kindness, teach him to maintain expectations and trust in the world, and also tell the child that in addition to the sun, there are shadows in the world, and there are terrible demons.
It is the holiday, I hope that every parent can keep the safety of their children in mind, the following safety knowledge and safety precautions must be done:
1. Parents must do a good job of guardianship
Some accidents have a common feature - parents do not fulfill their guardianship responsibilities, keep in mind these points:
Don't just let an acquaintance perform custody for you.
Whatever the reason, be careful to hand over your child to an outsider and take it out.
Try to avoid children staying alone in an enclosed space with other people, especially adults of the opposite sex.
Be sure not to be distracted when you are with your child, and hold your child's hand.
At any time, don't look down at your phone and look after your child.
2, no, relatives and friends acquaintances can not
Tell your children that you have the audacity to say "no" in the face of inappropriate demands and behavior from an acquaintance, whether he is a relative, a teacher, or a neighbor.
Parents should tell their children: not only strangers, acquaintances may also bring harm to us, such as deliberately touching private parts, or let you touch his private parts, or let you watch some nude videos, photos, etc., which are acts of sexual assault.
Whether he is a stranger or an acquaintance, whether he is a person you feel very respectful and admired every day, or even a person we feel is very authoritative, then he is a bad person, we must reject him in time, and we must tell our parents in time.
Parents should also be vigilant and help their children discover and recognize the hidden dangers in the acquaintances around them in time.
3, the intimate parts must not be touched
● Boys' genitals and buttocks are private parts.
● Girls' breasts, reproductive organs, and buttocks are all private parts.
Tell the child not to casually kiss and hug, the private parts protected by the tank top shorts, can not be touched, can not take off the pants outside, can not be touched by others, can not touch others, if you encounter someone to touch, be sure to loudly refuse, and then tell Mom and Dad.
4. Be vigilant
● It is always safest to keep an eye on it, beware of strangers, and also beware of those who pretend to be "acquaintances".
● Do not give your child to someone else at any time, not for a minute or a second.
● Remind the elderly at home not to talk to others at will, even if you meet someone you know, you must take care of your children first.
5. Do a good job of safety precautions
● Give your child a watch with a positioning function, and be able to get the child's location at any time.
● Baby strollers should make sure to fasten seat belts so that bad people can take the baby away in an instant.
● Before going out, make an agreement with your child where to meet once you are lost, such as the mall management office.
● Let your child remember the phone number and address of their parents.
● Wearing bright clothes when going out is more eye-catching.
● Agree with your child on a secret code, such as when you encounter a friend who calls himself a parent, ask the other party to give a secret code.
● Do not use "the police to arrest you" to scare children every day, but let children understand that it is difficult to find the police.
● Protect privacy. Do not disclose the child's appearance, name, family name, contact information, home address, school, family work address, etc.
6. Teach children the ability to discern the bad guys
Tell the child: bad guys don't have big teeth, they don't have big red eyes, they don't have big hands and evil smiles, bad guys don't look bad, they may be kind, they can smile, or they're cool, and they even have a bunch of sugar in their pockets.
Tell them not to accept candy from strangers, not to walk with strangers, and not to help strangers at will.
I hope that all parents can remember that parents are the last line of defense for child safety, "never let your child out of your sight", this is the duty that every parent should remember!
May every child have a carefree childhood, healthy and happy growth!