It is said that people are in good spirits every time they are happy, and the happiest celebrity in this year's New Year is probably Lai Hongguo, the ex-husband of Gillian.
On the first day of the New Year, I was busy celebrating my new girlfriend's birthday and proposing marriage, and I wanted to mention the rhythm of the new marriage.
▲ Left picture last year Tanabata, right picture Lai Hongguo currently responded to the media has a stable object, and this new girlfriend Alice, and then also shared the harvested Cartier gift on social platforms, writing "Yes I do"
It is said that the lifelong event should be congratulated, but netizens do not buy it this time. As soon as the marriage proposal news was on the hot search, some people complained, saying that this matter was not necessarily happy or worried. What's going on?
Many people may have almost forgotten that Lai Hongguo, who will be married three times in 6 years, almost all of the first two flash marriages and flash divorces.
After each breakup, it is almost always a year or so before a new relationship breaks out.
In 2016, the first marriage object was Ivy Chao, who is known as "China Airlines Lin Arichen". At that time, the two were on various shows, and were once known as the "fastest dating couple" on the popular network, and as a result, they were not happy for half a year after getting married.
Interestingly, this relationship was not written into Lai Hongguo's encyclopedia, so much so that many people thought that he and Ah Jiao were the first marriage.
▲ Interjection sentence: Lai Hongguo, 18 years old, and Kaiwo model Zhang Kangwei are in love with fashion variety shows, showing love in public on the show, Lai Hongguo also put words "In the days to come, I will try to make you happy"; embarrassingly, after the show, it was reported that you broke up
In 2018, he and Gillian were engaged in less than 3 months of public love, and they also left 14 months after marriage, which is probably a lot of time that passers-by do not know.
The key is that the heroine Alice, who made her debut on Tanabata last year, met her parents. It has only been the past few months, and I have successfully proposed marriage. Two days ago, according to local media reports, Lai Hongguo and his girlfriend have successfully created a happy father.
If it is true, it can only be said that it is more exciting than today's fancy love complex, and it is fast, passionate and heartbeat.
Some netizens joked that it is not impossible for Lai Hongguo to mention a fourth marriage one day, others fly for commuting, and he takes a plane to go on a blind date. But isn't it the legendary Audi man who wore 4 wedding rings.
Some people also say that the first paragraph of his marriage object is a flight attendant, the second paragraph is a star, and the third paragraph is a flight attendant, according to this law, the fourth married wife is estimated to be a star.
However, ridicule is ridicule, and we will not say anything if we are not rude.
However, not long after the news of Lai Hongguo's successful marriage proposal came out, his first wife, Ivy Chao, was a guest on an interview program with Internet celebrity bloggers.
In the video, Ivy Chao is asked what she thinks of premarital cohabitation, and she does not hesitate to say that she not only wants to live together to try marriage, but even to test the car. Otherwise you will really regret it.
The host also asked if she could accept "first have and then marry", although she said that it was acceptable, but out of her own considerations, she still felt that "we must really educate the next generation and then give birth to him, because that responsibility is very large."
This question is a bit interesting, and her answer is more considered by netizens, like she is speaking to her ex-husband's third fiancée.
Ivy Chao is not the first time to talk about the topic of "living together before marriage", she has also done a feature on her personal platform. As for the reason, people said very clearly in the video: just a date is very good to act, and it is only when you live together that you know whether this person is suitable for life.
There is a saying that this makes a lot of sense. You say, let alone this person is a donkey or a horse, the appearance is like a you know that you accept nothing, in case you find out after marriage that you are blinded by each other's various "acting skills", and you have become a wronged boss, that is really not worth the loss.
Ivy Chao's divorce insider is still confusing, but is the loss that Gillian suffered when she got married still small?
The two began to be open together at the beginning, and Lai Hongguo was once based on the "spoiled wife" personality. One is to please the public, and the other is for the wife to eat this set.
How? I can only sigh that he is quite accurate in his understanding of women's psychology.
The first is that the sweet mouth will coax people. When the media faced, Lai Hongguo has never been stingy in praise of Ah Jiao, praising her beauty: "In my heart, her facial features are the most beautiful and beautiful actresses in all of Asia and even the world." ”
On the day of the wedding, Lai Hongguo also used the killer skill to send a card to Ajiao to confess affectionately: "This is the love card I gave you, there is no limit on the amount, you can buy what you want, and you don't have to grievance yourself in the future." ”
Ah Jiao was very touched, because she had never met a man, and generously told her to use her own money casually, but Lai Hongguo did it, and it was not what she asked for.
It is not enough to have an attitude, but we have to take action to make it up. After marriage, she accompanied Gillian to the variety show "Parents Preschool", and her boyfriend was also bursting in front of the screen, but she set off Gillian as a big miss.
When they arrived at the destination, facing a large pile of luggage for the two of them, Ah Jiao looked impatient, and Lai Hongguo silently moved the large boxes from downstairs to the upstairs one by one with his own strength.
Tidy up the house, and then propose to blow the wind outside with Gillian, adjust the mood, quite eye-catching.
The show was asked about parenting and could ask if they could praise their children more than three times a day.
Because he didn't have a baby with Gillian, he casually sprinkled dog food on a stealing concept and said in public: "I praise my wife more than five times a day!" It should be able to do it later.
As a doctor, Lai Hongguo himself was quite busy, but he awarded the model award to his wife, saying that Ah Jiao was more hard, often filming outside, sleeping badly, and he must work hard to hurt his wife in the future.
After marriage, Lai Hongguo was upgraded from a part-time doctor to a business owner and opened a plastic surgery clinic. At that time, Ah Jiao was still promoting her cheerful platform, sitting and waiting for her husband to earn money to support the family in the future, and she only needed to be beautiful as a flower.
But in fact, this wonderful love + new marriage experience, soon a variety of problems.
Because the days have to rely on real life, whether you are a star or a celebrity, three meals a day, rice, oil and salt, can not escape the test of life.
Gillian strolled around carver himself forgot to bring a wallet, used his card to swipe a 100,000-piece brand-name bag, he received a consumption text message the whole person is not good, immediately called his wife: "We are living a life, you have to save some, 100,000 bags are a bit luxurious." Then he slipped the card back.
This makes people confused, obviously when talking about love, Ajiao spends money is very willing, he is not unaware. The small essay at the time of the breakup, he clearly wrote clearly.
There is also the cold violence of married life, what to throw the towel directly into The face of Gillian, complaining that the wife does not cook for him for fear of oil smoke hurting the skin...
Even the divorced family's aunt jiao did not say much, he complained about various grievances while also opening the divorce conference to the door of his clinic. While saying that he still hopes to meet for dinner in the future, he quickly removes Ah Jiao and deletes everything.
Men are really like this, saying one set and doing one set? Or is it the misfortune of Ah Jiao's flash marriage that fulfills the words of Lai Hongguo's ex-wife Ivy Chao, lack of trial marriage period, and is blinded?
The Beijing Evening News once reported the story of a couple who tried to get married after getting engaged and ended up in court.
The two couples were originally engaged, but after living together to try marriage, the woman found that the man was sexually incompetent, because she was worried about not being able to conceive a child, so she planned to do artificial insemination.
It is said that this woman is also responsible enough, but the man's family is not happy. The man's parents insist that they must conceive naturally, and if the son has problems, he can be treated first, cured and then said.
In the end, the woman did not want to continue. The man's family demanded the return of the dowry of 100,000 yuan on the grounds of the woman's repentance, and the woman's family did not agree at first, and as a result, the man sued the court, and the court ordered the woman to return half of the dowry.
How bad you say this is! At that time, this matter caused a lot of discussion.
Some netizens do not approve of living together before marriage, and always feel that men do not have good intentions if they are white prostitutes? In the end, I have suffered losses.
Some netizens strongly agree, believing that whether it is mental or physical, it is inseparable from the healthy foundation before marriage.
The trial marriage period found that the man had any problems that he could not accept in any way, at least to minimize the cost of breaking up between the two parties.
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There is also a girl on the Internet who shared her own story: although she has been in love with her boyfriend for another 5 years, she can really spend half a year together. During this period, the two will quarrel seriously to the point of fighting, to put aside the day of not seeing each other, you nong I nong telephone text message flirtation, never think that this kind of thing will happen ah. So you think you really know each other, but you don't.
Everyone's growth environment and values are different, and it is understandable whether to try marriage or not. But there is one thing I think is the consensus:
At the end, love is precious, and living a life is more important. Whether it is Ivy Chao, Gillian, or ordinary people in the news, for girls, the most concerned thing about marriage is not to find someone who can be relied upon in the end?
And even if it is really found that there is a problem after marriage, it is not necessary to stop the loss in time. Whose life can always be smooth? When encountering difficulties, having the courage to cross, and encountering scumbags with the determination to give up, it is a good thing.
This year is a good situation, as long as we are independent and willing to work hard in our hearts, good days will come, we are not afraid.