The student age is very important for everyone, many students will return to their alma mater after graduation, everything in the alma mater witnesses the growth of students, and the teacher is the biggest contributor to helping students grow, and some students who have a good relationship with the teacher will often visit the former teacher.
In everyone's impression, students who can often go back to school to see the teacher are generally the bullies in the class, but is this really the case? Many teachers said that the students who often come to see them are not academic bullies, but students who miss the old, but the students of 985 have disappeared en masse.
Will students come back to see their teachers after graduation?
Many poor students have an experience, that is, the teachers in the class are most concerned about the students only xueba, and they will not have too much concern for the students who have grades in the middle, which also leads to the imbalance in the hearts of many students, but the teachers have limited energy after all, and they will also focus on the students in a limited time, so they cannot take care of every student.
But even so, we find that the students who actually go back to school to see the teacher are often not academic bullies, and many times they are some students with lower grades, and these students often come to see the teacher with gifts, and these students also make the teacher feel very pleased.
However, those students with good grades rarely come back to see the teacher, and the contact between the students and the teacher will become less and less over time, which also makes the teacher feel sad, after all, many teachers will pay more effort to the bully.
But for xueba, there are many reasons why they rarely go back to school to see teachers, not that students have no heart, but because of many special circumstances that cause students to be unable to go back to school to see teachers.
After graduation, some students often see the teacher, but some just disappear, and the teacher says the reason
★Students at 985 institutions will be busier
In fact, one of the simplest reasons is that students in 985 colleges generally do not have time to go back to school to see teachers, many teachers will tell students to wait for college to be relaxed, but in fact, this is only motivating students to study well, today's universities are not only difficult to enter, but also difficult to get out, especially key universities, usually learning can be said to be quite busy, not easier than high school.
Many students need to study hard during college to graduate successfully, and students in general colleges and universities may only need to work hard for half a month or even a week at the end of the semester to successfully pass the final exam, but for xueba, they need to study hard every day.
Therefore, Xueba rarely has time to go back to school to see teachers, and some Xueba will also be far away from their hometowns, and even choose to study abroad, and they will have no time to go back to school to see teachers.
★ A lot of relationships with teachers are actually very ordinary
Many people put the success of Xueba on the teacher, but many Xueba can have today's results, in fact, the result of their own efforts and the learning conditions created by parents for students, so for many students, the relationship between them and teachers is not so deep.
Therefore, whether it is a bully or a scum, there are such students, and the relationship between themselves and the teacher is relatively general, and they all perform their duties, so they rarely take the initiative to return to the school to visit the teacher, and many times even the party is not intended to participate, and the students with good grades are often more willing to look forward and rarely look back on their past.
★ The development of students is not particularly good
The main reason why some students do not choose to go back to school to see the teacher is actually for my own face, the development of the former school bully is not necessarily better than that of ordinary students, many of the students in the class will realize their ordinary after college, and the work after graduation is also very general, so for the sake of face, some students may choose to stay away from their previous classmates.
Not all teachers can be called the "teacher" of their students, and teachers should also lead by example
Some students like to go back to school to see the teacher, mainly because they have recognized the teacher's efforts, but if the teacher does not set a good example for the students and makes the students hate the teacher very much, then neither the bully nor the poor student will return to the school to visit the teacher.
This type of teacher has a common characteristic, either too eccentric, or with a utilitarian spirit to educate students, they will never take care of the students' feelings, there is no little benevolence to the students, many students not only will not go back to school to visit the teacher, but also talk about the teacher behind their backs.
And the teachers who can really be loved by students, they will not only treat every student with their hearts, but also will not have any shelf in the process of getting along with students, and students also like to take the initiative to communicate with teachers during school, and the relationship between such teachers and students has exceeded that of teachers and students.
Therefore, the main reason why students do not put the teacher in their eyes is actually very much related to the teacher, but gratitude should also be a beautiful quality that everyone should learn.
Today's Topic: Do you like to go back to school to see your teachers?