Born as a girl, from an early age, she was taught to listen to her parents, and after marriage, she had to honor her in-laws to take care of her husband's family, but few of the boys' parents taught their sons to be good to their in-laws, and filial piety to their parents-in-law depended entirely on their mood.
I didn't expect filial piety, as long as I don't have the age in my heart, I saw a video on the Internet, a 70-year-old man in Shandong bought a lot of New Year's gifts on the second day of the New Year, pushing a cart to send to the 90-year-old mother-in-law in the same village.
There are a lot of nutritional gifts in the trolley, there are drinks and drinks, the big red packaging box is with the New Year's celebration, the old man's body is not very straight, but pushing the gift of this cart, walking up still with the wind, focusing on the gift of the look is really worthy of respect.
Returning to his mother's house on the second day of the Chinese New Year, the old man pushed a small cart alone to give gifts to his mother-in-law, not knowing whether the woman behind him was okay? Is it that the legs and feet are not good enough to go back to the mother's house in person, or it is no longer alive, but it is worth it to marry such a man who attaches importance to his mother's family.
A man is good to your mother's family, do not forget to give gifts every New Year's Festival, this habit is maintained for forty or fifty years, can such a man not be good to his daughter-in-law?
He understands your dedication to his family, understands your hard work of filial piety to his in-laws and children, and knows how to do filial piety for your parents for you, such a man is worth learning from all men.
Shandong is a country of etiquette, coincidentally, an 80-year-old man in Shandong took the whole family to pay homage to his 100-year-old father-in-law, and his father-in-law also gave him a red envelope.
This 80-year-old man, who has a full house of children and grandchildren, needs others to respect the filial piety of the old man at home, but even if he is 80 years old, he needs to be supported when he walks, and he still kneels to worship his father-in-law, really carrying out filial piety to the end.
The 80-year-old man kneels, kneeling so warmly that people's hearts are warm, and kneeling makes people's tears flow out involuntarily.
Pay attention to the sense of ceremony, not in age, but in whether it is valued.
A boy in Hebei brought his girlfriend to give gifts to his parents-in-law's house before the Spring Festival, there were chickens, fish, ribs, and various boxes of gifts, full of a cart of gifts to envy others.
The girl's face is full of happy smiles, and what is surprising is that the girl and the boy are not engaged or married, and such a boyfriend is really rare.
When many people are still complaining about not being able to find a girlfriend, when many people are still spending money on their girlfriends, they want to think about how bad they are compared to their peers.
Girls who are not engaged or married, boyfriends are lucky to pay so much attention to themselves and their families, and the happiness of this life can be predicted now, but some girls are not so lucky.
A girl and her boyfriend broke up a year later and got back together, despite her parents' objections, she had to follow her boyfriend to his house for the New Year, after a long journey of more than a thousand miles, it was already the night except for the future in-laws' house, but the mother-in-law only prepared a plate of quick-frozen dumplings and two cooked pig's trotters for them.
Even if Chinese New Year's Eve rice is not hearty, it will not be eaten like this, right?
His son and girlfriend want to go home for the New Year, needless to say how generous the hospitality, how to get a few more dishes, or the family waiting for them to come home and eat together, is it not too much?
In fact, the reason why this girl is not valued, in fact, the main reason is not valued by the boyfriend, break up a year compound has not been married to go to the boyfriend's house for the New Year, such behavior is obviously inappropriate, they take the train sleeper, they sleep on the bunk, the boyfriend is not willing to give her a comfortable and convenient bottom bunk to her to see, this is a man who does not know how to empathize and does not know how to hurt his daughter-in-law.
Don't even value your boyfriend and expect his family to take you seriously?
Sure enough, after the girl arrived at her boyfriend's house, she was arranged by the mother-in-law to sleep in a room with her boyfriend at night, and the strange thing was that the girl did not refuse.
A girl on the Internet urgently sought online answers from netizens, she said: "The first time to go to her boyfriend's house, is this important?" The red envelope is 1 yuan, but after burning a large table of dishes, what is the meaning of giving 1 yuan? Or do you not look at me and put it casually? ”
This large table of delicious food, and the girlfriend of a dollar in stark contrast, this table of rice is so rich and colorful, how can it be regarded as a well-off family? And this family should be a very ceremonial family.
Such a family, if only gives the future daughter-in-law a red envelope, either does not like this girl, or wants to give her a dismount, so that she does not take herself too seriously.
In short, such a girl is not valued, such a family or early away, not to mention a daughter-in-law to the door, even if a three-year-old child to visit the New Year can not only give a dollar red envelope, right?
A daughter who is closely married can return to her mother's house at any time, and a daughter who is married far away is distressing.
A bride dressed in plain clothes, known by netizens as looking like Zhang Xiaofei, on the wedding day, watching her relatives who sent relatives are about to go home, leaving her alone in a foreign country, her eyes can't help but be rosy.
Yes, marrying far away is a big gamble, I hope she is happy in this life, and she is valued by her husband and in-laws!
A video of a pair of parents visiting their daughter who is far married during the Spring Festival has become popular on the Internet, the daughter is far married, the parents trekked through the mountains and waded to visit their girlfriends, and they held back tears when they bid farewell to their daughters, and the two tears of the husband and wife who just sat in the car could no longer be stopped.
The daughter who married far away is the thought of her parents forever, and from now on, we will see each other for a long time, whether you are good or bad, you must face it alone.
I hope that all men will not let their wives who are far away from marriage be wronged, she was also a treasure in the palm of her parents' hands, if she does not really love you, how can she be willing to give up all and form a small family with you?
Women, made of water, no matter how old they are, also hope to be valued, cherished, hope that all men understand this truth, do not let her lose in this life!
On February 6, a son-in-law in Ningbo took Moutai and a car of generous gifts to see her parents-in-law, and the details of the woman's home made netizens call out to be evenly matched.
A car of generous gifts expressed the importance attached to the in-laws' homes, and the large table full of dishes in the in-laws' homes was enough to express the welcome to the daughter and son-in-law.
As the saying goes, two good combinations are good, and both sides attach importance to each other in exchange for the happiness of the whole family.
Two-way rushing feelings, it's so good!
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