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Blind dates are inevitable, a channel for reaching a certain age to meet a member of the opposite sex and develop a good feeling.
But is not so good to love each other, a series of factors, he can't look at her, she can't look at him.
I don't like blind dates, or it is better to talk about it myself, and the blind date will be less emotional.
And most of the blind dates are rational, and they all look at looks and salary and family, and I feel that blind dates and marriages are a bit like a transaction
I have a girl I know in my hometown
I heard that I have never gone out to work, have been playing at home, and never go out.
Even when she goes to work, she follows her father, and where her father works, she works.
Her father hoped that she would marry out sooner, so that she would not worry, but she did not go out to work and stayed in the room every day.
Then there were people around who introduced objects, and they were all people with conditions, but these people didn't look up to her, first, she was too emaciated and her face was not good-looking, and second, I heard that he never went out to work.
Therefore, again and again blind dates, they are facing failures.
Finally there was a man, in good condition, unmarried, not picky, the only thing was a little deaf.
I heard that I didn't have a girlfriend yet, and then someone acquaintance introduced the man to her.
However, she couldn't look at it, and felt that he was deaf and disgusted.
Therefore, it is not that she can't find an object, but some people can't look up to her, but some men who don't ask for it, she can't look at it.
For this reason I feel speechless, why not go out to work, stay in the countryside every day, life is boring, there are no young people, so that you can find a partner?
But she was like that, just not going out, just staying in the room every day, and I wondered how she had money.
So this situation, I feel very helpless, this year is 22 years, she is still at home.
People around are talking about it, and it is very likely that they will not find a partner and will not get married.
Hearing the people around me talking, I also fell into meditation, thinking that it would be difficult to find an object for the time being.
Unless she goes out to work, has a social circle, meets a group of friends, and is exposed to new things outside, it is easier to meet love.
Otherwise, it is very likely, as people around you say, that you may not be able to find a partner and not get married.
I would like to say that if a person really wants to find a partner, he will go out of the house, contact new things outside, contact different people, maybe he can meet true love?
Instead of retreating and practicing every day, staying at home every day has no meaning, and I don't know what to do.
Day after day, year after year, in this way, life is monotonous and boring, and it will also affect your own happiness.
There must be many reasons for failing a blind date. The better others can't climb themselves, and the bad ones can't look up to them.
Then at this time, you should strive to improve yourself, you can choose yourself, rather than being chosen.
I don't always get talked about, saying that I can't find an object, I don't have the ability, and I hate this and that.
As mentioned at the beginning of the article, blind dates cannot be avoided. The only thing we can do is to give ourselves the confidence not to be rejected by others.
What about blind dates, I have the confidence myself, I can choose by myself, rather than being chosen by others.
It is not like this girl I said, without any confidence, never going out to work, and still looking like a high-minded person who hates this and that.
Otherwise, it will cause many people to look at each other differently, talk about it, and it will not be good for themselves.
Besides, when a girl has enough work ability and cognition.
Come back on a blind date, this time it is the other party who envies your salary, not you envy the other party.
What I want to say is that you must have a job, at least when you are on a blind date, you will not be looked down upon by the other party, and never become the focus of many people because of the blind date, and the object of discussion.