More than enough is too much. Confucius said that in terms of moral cultivation, too much is the same as inadequacy.
Confucius, as the most holy teacher of China, had great achievements in moral cultivation and in dealing with people and things. Throughout his life, Confucius devoted himself to promoting the concept of "governing the country with benevolence and righteousness" and advocating the promotion of social harmony and progress through the cultivation of individuals. Confucius's words and deeds are an example and an example worthy of eternal study by my Chinese descendants.
Confucius said that it was too late. This phrase is from the Analects of Advanced, and the context is that the disciple Zigong asked Confucius: "Zixia or Zizhang, who is more virtuous?" Confucius said, "ZiXia is insufficient, zi zhang is too much." Zi Gong continued to ask: Then can it be said that Zi Zhang is more virtuous? Confucius said, "Too much is the same as being insufficient." ”
In our daily work life, being too keen on interpersonal interactions is the same as not being good at interpersonal communication. Seeing that everyone is a hot face called a brother, how to distinguish between the most basic relatives and closeness? Therefore, in any interpersonal situation, the right is the most important, "the tension is open, the relaxation is relaxed", which is the best way to treat people and things.
As the most holy teacher of the Chinese nation, the Confucian doctrines created by Confucius himself and his disciples provided a rich ideological accumulation for the social governance and civilization progress of later generations. The ancients said, "Heaven does not give birth to Zhongni, and eternity is like a long night", this saying is not deceitful!