According to 2021 data, families spend about 5262 yuan per month on the upbringing and education of their children, accounting for about 30% of the entire family income.
Every child, what is the amount of pocket money every year? If one day you find that your child has spent nearly 10,000 yuan on his own initiative, how will you feel?
Recently, the incident of a 10-year-old boy buying a card was on the hot search, and in just 10 days, he spent as much as 9800 yuan in a stationery store. The boy's mother was very helpless and had to ask the outside world for an explanation.
The boy spent nearly 10,000 yuan to buy an "Ultraman Card", and it is difficult to refund now
During the New Year, this Duan lady encountered a bad situation, she found that the money prepared for the elderly was 9800 yuan less, not stolen but taken by the 10-year-old son of the family to consume. The cost of nearly 10,000 yuan is not a small amount, and what is even more infuriating is that the money is only exchanged for a pocket of Ultraman cards.
Ms. Duan feels that it is very unreasonable for the boss to let a 10-year-old child spend in his shop like this, but the sale has been reached, and now it is difficult to get back the 9800 yuan.
Some people don't understand, what cards can attract children to buy like crazy? After hearing the boy's explanation, he could not help but question that he was "induced to consume" by the stationery store owner.
The boy explained that when he went to buy snacks, the boss persuaded him to buy cards worth more than 300 yuan, claiming that these cards could be sold for money. How many boys can resist Ultraman's temptations? In this way, the boy continued to buy many sets of cards in the stationery store, and if he was not found by his mother, he might not be able to stop.
9800 yuan is very important to the boy's family, and the boss's words caused controversy when negotiating a refund, and netizens also took sides for a while.
The boss's attitude has caused controversy, netizens: I don't believe in the light anymore
The owner of the stationery store said that he could not accept the demand for a refund, and in his eyes it was normal for children to spend hundreds of yuan to buy cards every time they came to the store, and more than one child spent it here. As for the child's behavior of spending nearly 10,000 yuan at home, the boss said: his own children can't see it, and they can't blame the business.
Although the money came out of Ms. Duan's house, this remark still angered the people who watched the hilarity, thinking that the boss was just pitting the child. Some netizens joked that the boy may not have thought that he would one day be "pit money" by the favorite Ultraman, and I would no longer believe in the light.
Many parents share their children's experience of buying cards, usually spending about 100 yuan to be discovered, and some parents are successful in refunding. The reasons why children buy cards are very similar, they are all moved by the boss after being persuaded, and the parents who have experienced being pit angrily criticize this boss for being too unconscionable.
But there are also passers-by who said that things are sold to children there, and 10-year-old children should also understand things, and he himself is also at fault, why ask the boss for a refund.
Nearly 10,000 yuan in exchange for a bunch of cards, who should pay for it?
The stationery store owner and the boy's parents have their own opinions, and the final result has not yet been discussed, the 9800 yuan is not only a problem of money, the boy's experience has triggered a series of chain reactions, and who should pay the bill has also become a topic of discussion.
First of all, the child, we do not use the word "steal" to define his behavior, just sigh, if he spends money to buy things can tell parents how much money to take, what to buy, it will not cost nearly ten thousand yuan to be found, and it is difficult to recover.
Speaking of parents, whether it is money or cash in the bank card, it should indeed be done with a good idea. The card bought by the child has been unsealed, and then he wants to find the boss for a refund, and the money spent is not reasonable.
Finally, the boss, the boss who lets his children spend money in the store in life, is not the majority. The supermarket owner whom Sugar Mom knows generally does not sell tobacco and alcohol to her children easily. Children go to the store alone to buy more than 20 yuan, they will find a way to find a way to confirm it with their parents.
Netizens also mentioned in the comments that some bosses saw children taking a hundred yuan to consume willfully, and simply did not sell goods. Even if the child does not understand things, the boss does not stop it, at least can not guide the child to buy more expensive goods.
Letting this kind of card stop selling will not solve the problem, the child may buy other items without buying the card, do not want this situation to occur again, requires a multi-faceted effort.
You can't require every business to have a "conscience," and parents may wish to do so
Not every boss can do "money without earning", as a consumer, we can't ask every boss to do things according to conscience, so that children learn to watch the wallet is more important.
Guide your child to establish a sense of money as early as possible
From the age of 3, parents should let him know the meaning of money, around the age of 6 in primary school, let the child understand the price and value of goods, which money should be spent and what money is not necessary to spend.
Sometimes the child spends a lot of money, not necessarily generous, nor is the family very rich, but he does not understand the difference between a hundred yuan and ten thousand yuan, only thinking that he can get the items he likes, so to cultivate the child's concept of money, to start from an early age.
Keeping your own belongings is the most reliable
If it is really the child who takes the initiative to consume, and the item can no longer be sold, it is indeed difficult to return. Sugar mom wants to say that without discussing this matter, who is right and who is wrong, her own belongings are the most reliable in her own hands, and she can't expect the boss to take the initiative to refuse the child to consume in the store every time.
Families with children, the cash in the home should be counted, and the mobile phone payment should be set up with a good password not to let the child know, so as to avoid unnecessary losses, and it is difficult to succeed in recovering.
Candy Mom has something to say:
Don't be afraid if the child is really induced to consume, we can take up the weapon of the law to chase the money back. However, compared with recovering money, it is more important for children to remember the lessons and not take the initiative to make mistakes and not be induced.
【Today's topic】Will the store owners around you guide their children to buy things?