The third child is released, and the experts are urging you to have a baby again. A few days ago, an expert said that the country should not expect the post-90s and post-00s to have children, and should invest in the post-75-85 generation. Many people after 75 and 80 listened, and it is estimated that they will have nightmares at night, the second child has just been born, and they are pregnant with a third child, and they are scared to wake up.
The three children have been released, and a lot of news about the fertility benefits has also been one after another, some places have children directly subsidized cash, and some places have extended women's maternity leave, but it seems that there is no practical significance, and people have little interest in giving birth to three children.
The fertility rate is already very low, which is no longer because of which part of the population is unwilling to have children, but the whole group in the reproductive period, they are not willing to have children, what is the reason?
No money, single, how to have children?
In a street interview, a reporter asked a young boy in his twenties: "What do you think about having a third child?" The boy laughed and said, "I don't deserve to talk about this issue with a salary of three thousand a month." No money, no house, no girlfriend, letting go of a few litters has nothing to do with me! ”
In real life, this is the case, the state can give birth to two children, three children many preferential policies, but can the state assign them objects? Many young men say it is becoming harder and harder to find a partner. A girl with a monthly salary of three thousand, the standard for finding a partner is already the same, the height is one meter eight, and the monthly income is more than 10,000. Things are scarce and expensive, more men and fewer women, doomed to marry, high threshold, have children or wait until you find the object first!
Rich young people are reluctant to have children because of their freedom
No money, no object, of course, can not have children. All along, having more children has been a game that rich people like to play, but now they don't seem to want to buy it. Isn't it true that great wealth and great wealth should be matched with many children and many blessings? Those couples who have money and wives, they can't say they can't have children without having children.
Having money and not wanting to have children is really what many families really think. For example, many celebrities have particularly high incomes, and raising ten or eight children is not a problem, and they are stunned that none of them will be born. What do they think?
Da Zhang Wei is a famous singer who has also been married and has a family. He mentioned the birth of a child in a show, saying: "The child is the only one in the world that cannot be returned, and when he is born, he cannot regret it, and it is impossible to return him." It is terrible to think about it with children, one or two years old is too noisy, five or six years old is difficult to bring, seven or eight years old dog suspicion, fourteen, fifteen rebellious, this time you have to wait until the child is nineteen years old, you can understand things. ”
You see, the meaning of this is already obvious, and it also represents the voice of many young people. Life is short and beautiful, and they are not willing to affect their freedom, ideals, and quality of life for the arrival of their children.
Some people say that people who don't have children are selfish. But they just admit that they are selfish, selfish for the life they like, what's wrong with that? As if there is nothing wrong with that.
After the 70s and 80s, they have tasted the pain of raising children and are unwilling to try again.
Experts said that it is recommended to put the hope of having children on the post-75s and post-85s, and after seeing this news, I laughed. After 75, after 85, most of them are already the parents of one child and two children, what is it like to raise children, do they not know? It's not so good to encourage having children.
In some places, in order to encourage childbirth, maternity leave has been extended, there are birth allowances, and many post-75s and post-85s have heard such news and said: "Am I missing maternity leave?" Do I want money? "What I want is to address the fact that now the care of these two children has affected my promotion.
What I want to solve is the need for a tutor teacher to solve their learning problems, and a father who often accompanies them to play, develop a good character for the children, and lack a large four-bedroom house that can raise three children. This is not a problem that can be solved by extending maternity leave and maternity allowances.
Women's high education is also a barrier to childbearing.
A study published in the European Journal of Population, which explored the relationship between women's educational attainment and childbearing, found that highly educated American women generally delayed childbearing and affected fertility rates to some extent.
This is the case in the United States, and there are many of these phenomena around us. The more educated women are, the more independent they are, the less intense their desire for marriage is, and the greater their rejection of having children. Because there will always be a contradiction between one's personal ideals and the birth and raising of children.
And these intellectual women, their thinking is avant-garde, there is no concept of raising children and preventing old age, the necessity of having children depends only on whether they like children, whether they are willing to sacrifice time and energy in order to have children.
Being single is for happiness, marriage is for happiness, and having children is for happiness.