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With the improvement of living standards, today's parents pay great attention to maintenance, so there are many frozen age parents on the Internet, which is not recently, there is a "frozen age father" quickly caught fire. Mr. Chen was very handsome when he was young, and his requirements for appearance have always been relatively high, so even though he is now in his 40s, he still looks like a young man in his 20s, and he and his daughter are more like lovers on the street.
On this day, Mr. Chen's family of three decided to travel to a nearby city, and after coming to the scenic spots, the family was quickly attracted by the beautiful scenery. Like Mr. Chen, the daughter is also very smelly and beautiful, and after coming to the scenic spot, she constantly asks her mother to take pictures of herself and her father. After taking the photo, Bao Mom saw that her husband was tall and handsome, her daughter Washig, and the two people standing together did not look like father and daughter at all, but like lovers, so she put the photo on the Internet.
Without exception, netizens have offered sincere wishes, thinking that the two people in the photo are lovers, and the child immediately clarified after seeing it: This is really my father. From the photos, we can see that if we don't say that the man is the father of the little girl, the vast majority of people think that they must be lovers. Dad is very well maintained, not only high appearance, but also dressed very fashionably, not at all lost to the current small fresh meat, and the daughter also inherited her father's perfect appearance, and her figure is also very tall.
This father is not only good-looking and young-looking, but also from the interaction with his daughter, the relationship between father and daughter is also very good, and the father will also have a great influence on the growth of his daughter.
01What impact will dads have on their daughter's growth?
First, affect personality
In most families, mothers assume a gentle and kind role, and when educating children, mothers are more inclined to nagging verbal education, which shows that the influence of mothers on children is mostly at the level of life. But fathers involved in parenting, can affect the daughter's personality, in general, the image of men will be more serious, they are not nagging like mothers, more attention to the expression of action. Therefore, under the education of the father, the daughter's personality will not be afraid and shrink, but will be more confident, and they are willing to try various challenges to the personality.
Second, it affects the concept of mate selection
Most girls' criteria for choosing a mate have a lot to do with their fathers, and the first person of the opposite sex that a daughter comes into contact with is her father from birth to their growth. And children will encounter many things on the road to future growth, and the influence of their fathers will not only change their personalities greatly, but also change their cognition of the opposite sex because of the role of the father. Of course, this perception is good or bad, all depending on whether the father's influence on the daughter is positive or negative.
But now in the growth of children, the role of father and mother is equally important, if you are the following two kinds of fathers, then the children who are cultivated will definitely be better.
02What two?
1. Accompany the father of the child with heart
There are many men who feel that it is very hard to make money outside, and that it is natural for their mothers to take care of the family and care for their children, so they ignore their role in the family. And a qualified father, no matter how hard and tired life is, they will take time to accompany their children.
2. Fathers who play an exemplary role
Dads ask children to study hard every day, not to watch TV and play games, while they are next to them all day brushing their mobile phones, which is obviously not right. Responsible fathers must lead by example, they practice what they preach, in a subtle way, to influence all the positive forces to the children, to tell the children how to become better people, than to blindly preach, the father's words and deeds can affect the children more.
Fathers have a profound impact on their daughters in all aspects, and if fathers have a young face, have a healthy and upward mentality, and there will be no generation gap when getting along with their children, the impact will definitely be greater. Therefore, if you want to become a qualified father, Bao Dad must usually take more time to accompany the child, communicate with the child more, and use his own body to influence the child and make them more excellent.