Hello everyone, I take the time out of my busy schedule today to bring you the following article, welcome to taste it together!
With the development of the times, many people see the prospects of the Internet, and more and more people are involved in it, and then become what modern people call "internet celebrities".
The first step to becoming an "internet celebrity" is to publish your life or some inspirational stories on the Internet to attract more fans. After the "fire" is over, you can start to live stream the goods or transfer the account to others, which is a very common operation method.
There is such an Internet celebrity, who has attracted our attention through her own inspirational story, she is Zhang Manru, which is what everyone calls "Xiao Xiaoru".
22-year-old female Internet celebrity disguised as "rich"
She was first known as wearing a bear doll when she was handing out flyers, and she was pure and lovely in the video, which made people pity.
But before long, she reappeared and was no longer a little sister who handed out flyers, her identity became the chairman, and she was so good at a young age that everyone admired.
Zhang Manru's family has a total of seven people, such a family economic pressure is very large, so she left school early to go out to work, but the money for part-time work is not very much, so Zhang Manru is not satisfied with the status quo.
Now it is "fake" by netizens: the micro-business version of "Versailles"
In 2015, it was the era of the rise of the Internet, and she took the morning train of the "net red economy" and started a micro-business.
She began to attract more fans with "the youngest chairman of the whole network", "7.8 billion net worth", "Guangzhou 7 suites" and so on.
However, soon her lies were also recognized by everyone, and the cosmetics she sold caused many people who used them to have side effects, so some people began to complain, and the last scandal surfaced, which was "faked" by netizens, and could really be made up.
Nowadays, everything that is fictional at the age of 22 has also been exposed, and when facing reality again, people still have to move forward on the ground, so that they are most at ease, and too much emphasis on fame and fortune is not conducive to personal development.
What is the impact of too much emphasis on fame and fortune on life?
★ It's hard to be happy
Taking fame and fortune very seriously, it seems that other aspects of things are not important, in fact, it is difficult for such people to get happiness, because they think that in addition to fame and fortune, everything else is secondary.
★ It will become calculated
Every day, big and small things happen, and if you care about everything, then you will become a person who can't put anything down, so you will become a person who is more and more calculating.
★ The gains outweigh the losses
In life, there is a law that the more you care about something, the more you will spend time on it, but the result may not go along with your wishes, and may affect the final result because of the anxiety you desperately want to get, becoming more than worth the loss.
Therefore, people should have a broad mind, do not pay too much attention to these things, a person with a pattern, will be treated sincerely by others, and take things too seriously, which will hinder the vision and pace.
So in terms of educating children, how should parents let their children establish the correct "three views"?
How do parents cultivate their children's "three views"?
Set an example for your children
In the process of children's growth, the influence of parents on children is very large, children will imitate, learn, so parents should do a good job, improve their personality, correct their words and deeds, give children the correct words and deeds, is conducive to cultivating children's "three views".
Let the child establish a correct view of right and wrong
In learning and life, parents should let children learn to judge right and wrong, let children know what concepts are right and what concepts are wrong, clarify the boundaries of right and wrong, and use this to guide children to observe personnel and comment on gains and losses.
▲▼▲?Let children make "friends"
Let children make friends with people with correct outlook on life, values, and worldviews.
In the process of growing up, friends are indispensable, and children without friends will also be affected by his psychology. Only making the right friends can help children on the road to success.
summary
Children's education is a problem that parents must take seriously, in this regard, parents can not be perfunctory, otherwise, it is difficult for children to grow better, parents will regret it at that time.