Report the overturning of New Oriental Internet celebrities with goods, why everyone stands in line to "make up classes"

Text|Ning Ma Wuyu

The Internet celebrity Tie Tou reported Hangzhou New Oriental make-up classes, which led to the complete suspension of make-up classes, and he gained a lot of popularity. Unexpectedly, a few days after the incident, the iron head actually began to live broadcast the goods. But the effect of bringing the goods was not as good as he expected, but it was overturned.

There are only more than 4,000 people in the live broadcast room, and the comment area can't be watched, comments such as "support New Oriental", "dare to collect money after selling goods now", "bought two copies, one returned, one sent for inspection" floated all over the screen, and the live broadcast was interrupted after an hour.

Many businesses were also questioned by netizens, apologizing one after another, saying that they would no longer cooperate with Tietou. Unexpectedly, taking advantage of the popularity of the Internet celebrity to bring goods was eaten back, which was also unexpected.

Why do everyone stand in line to "make up lessons"?

It is the Internet celebrity's own behavior that exposes his true purpose.

Under the banner of "for the good of children", but in a hurry to bring goods, it turns out that the end of the report is to bring goods, but the report is actually for their own selfish interests rather than for the public interest, and the report is regarded as business rather than justice.

Bringing goods is an afterword, he also stated that he will not make up classes if he has children, my children have not made up for it, and you cannot infringe on my rights and interests.

If you don't get it, you will be destroyed, so if you can't drink milk, you have to report the milk factory? This brain circuit is very strange.

The reporting behavior ushered in a wave of support and fans, but the later operation made people see the truth.

Make-up classes are highly controversial and there are policies on it, but it depends more on the wishes of parents and children.

I used to have a negative opinion about make-up classes, and my child was in the third year of high school, but he only made up for 2 months in the second year of junior high school. The effect in the first month was not bad, the advantage in the second month was not obvious, and then the child did not want to make up for it, so it stopped. Since then, I no longer hope for make-up classes, thinking that make-up classes take up more time and are useless, that is, IQ tax.

However, after the child went to high school, he saw one thing after another, and found that he should look at the problem of make-up classes dialectically, and he should not make judgments. I think that make-up classes are useless, but I haven't seen make-up classes useful.

Every family and every child has its own different situation, and the more comprehensive the understanding, the more objective the phenomenon of make-up classes can be viewed.

Not attending cram school does not mean "no cram class"

We often hear parents of top students share that their children have not attended cram schools since they were young, they follow the progress of the school, and good grades are the result of good teaching by teachers + their own efforts.

It is true that some children do not attend cram school, but he has strong self-learning ability.

Jia Hongyi, who has just been admitted to Tsinghua, has done a lot of Olympiad and thinking training problems since primary school, and his math results have always been very good. Before entering junior high school, he taught himself English phonetic transcription. After entering junior high school, I studied high school English in advance, and my grades have always been among the top few in the school.

How many children can improve their grades by doing questions without going through on-demand? How many children can last for more than ten years of self-study? I am afraid that few parents have this confidence.

Some children do not attend cram school outside, but they make up for it at school!

Now many key high schools will pinch the tip in advance and carry out key training.

Generally, dozens or hundreds of the best children are selected through examinations after the second year of junior high school, and these children need to go to high school during holidays and weekends to study the third year and high school courses. The teachers who teach are the backbone of the various schools, and the quality of teaching is guaranteed and there is no charge.

If the results in the high school entrance examination meet the standard, they will be placed in a key class, equipped with teachers who are also elite soldiers of the school, and the courses they study are many diverse and advanced, and university courses are involved.

A good learning atmosphere, top teachers, coupled with its own high-quality foundation, can basically be admitted to 211 and 985 schools.

These two forms are actually make-up classes in disguise, but they have nothing to do with tutoring institutions.

Fewer tuition institutions do not mean fewer tutoring classes

After the double reduction, the number of tutoring institutions has been greatly reduced, and from the bright side, it seems that the number of make-up classes has also decreased, but in fact, it is not, but it has shifted from the bright place to the dark place.

Financially strong parents hire expensive one-on-one personal tutors for their children.

There was a hot spot of "burning money" of 50,000 or 60,000 yuan in 40 days during the summer vacation, the protagonist in the article was in Beijing, her daughter was in the third year of junior high school, and when it came to the critical period of further education, she enrolled her daughter in a one-on-one subject tuition class, and the physics class was 800 yuan a session. May feel that it is too expensive, mathematics choose to go back to the hometown to make up classes, 200 yuan per class. The cost of make-up classes for a holiday is 14,800.

The one-on-one in our junior high school is a subject of 500 yuan per class, which is taken every week. If you take 40 weeks a year, you need to consume 20,000 yuan, and if you have to make up classes for multiple subjects, double it.

High school make-up fees are higher, there is a classmate Zhao, the second year of high school only scored more than 400 points, in order to go to a good university, the third year of high school spent 98,000 yuan, equivalent to the income of an ordinary family for one or two years.

Capable parents will make up lessons for their children themselves.

The gap between parents will also open the gap between children, many parents themselves are very capable, especially will guide their children, so that the children in some aspects to reach a level far beyond their peers.

There is a little boy named Peipei, who began to learn mathematics at the age of 3, and in just a few months he will do Olympiad chicken and rabbit cage, and at the age of 5, he will understand junior high school algebra.

It turns out that his math was taught by his father, who was the winner of the first Alibaba Global Mathematics Competition Excellence Award, was an Olympiad teacher, and had the experience of taking students to participate in the Mathematics Olympiad, and had a very good set of cultivation of children's mathematical ability.

I know a friend who is an English teacher at a secondary school, and her son can tell stories in English when he is more than 3 years old and is very fluent, which is not comparable to ordinary families.

However, most parents have average economic conditions, and there is no way to guide their children by themselves, and they hope that their children can have a better platform, and they have the desire to let their children go to cram schools.

So some parents cried and said: our education level is not high, our daughter is in the 5th grade of primary school, there are already many problems that cannot be taught, and mathematics even failed the test. I won't, my children won't, and I have to be reported when I go to cram school, can my child only be a bad student for the rest of his life?

If you want your child to cross the hierarchy, the difficulty is really unwilling!

Initiatives such as the one mentioned above by high schools to focus on training top students have now spread to primary schools. I have seen high schools recruiting top mathematics students, and many children in the fifth and sixth grades have registered for exams. Parents want to seize this opportunity to let their children enter a good school in advance, and sign up their children for Olympiad classes early, hoping that their children can be admitted.

Although the final elementary school was not selected, the results also made people see the horror of involution. The final admission of high school is less than 200 people, and there are more than 3,000 children who took the exam in the first and second years of junior high school, which shows how many people are tutoring!

Going to cram school doesn't mean just "learning knowledge"

There are many people who are opposed to going to cram school for two reasons.

On the one hand, it feels unfair, those who have money let their children go ahead of school, and those who have no money can only do it in a hurry, so that many powerful children do not have the opportunity to enter higher schools, and there seems to be a trend of class solidification.

On the one hand, because parents have to enroll their children in classes under the influence of the theater effect, so that children lose the joy of childhood.

I used to think the same way, and I never advocated that parents use cram school as a lifesaver.

It wasn't until he saw Dong Yuhui's endless output that his thoughts changed. It turns out that when a child meets a good teacher, he not only learns knowledge, question methods, and examination skills, but also changes the direction of his life.

There is a child who has never dared to think of taking an English test of 130 or more, and the goal is only to be able to take one test, but as a result, he took Dong Yuhui's class and the goal became 985.

There is a 211 college student from Zunyi, Guizhou. By chance, he took Dong Yuhui's English class and found that English turned out to be very interesting, and learning English can be very happy. Under the guidance of the teacher, he became more confident and wanted to learn well from the bottom of his heart, and finally he scored more than 130 points in English, which is very grateful.

In fact, many children are not unintelligent, not unable to learn well, but do not know why to learn, resulting in insufficient motivation to learn, do not put their minds on learning, academic performance does not go.

If you can meet a good teacher who understands children, can follow the good advice, let the child ignite the fighting spirit of learning, and begin to focus on learning, the grades will naturally improve.

Therefore, if the cram school you choose has a teacher with a very positive view and strong ability, it may make a big turn in the child's life.

Write at the end

Report that New Oriental Internet celebrities have been eaten back, why do people stand in line to "make up classes"? Because there are more and more people who keep clear heads.

Whether to choose to make up lessons for children is the personal will of parents and children, not forced, and there is no need for moral kidnapping.

If you have the ability to guide the child, you can make up for it yourself, and if the child himself is excellent, there is a school rushing to make up for it. If the child misses a good time and suddenly realizes that he wants to improve his grades, he can also find a teacher to make up the lessons. As long as you do not follow the trend, make up classes on demand, and combine work and rest are reasonable choices.

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