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In 2006, Hebei produced a "loving mother" who touched China, who specially adopted abandoned orphans and gave these poor children a home.
Since 1996, she has adopted an orphan from Sichuan, by 2015, she has adopted 75 orphan abandoned babies, and by 2017, she has adopted a total of 118 orphan abandoned babies.
Her behavior has touched China, and it is precisely because of touching China that she has greater power in the local area.
In the whole country, she is a loving mother who touched the whole country, in the local area, people call her "hell" and "four Xiazi", and no one in the locals dares to mess with her.
"Loving Mother" has a set on the surface and a set on the back
Li Lijuan is a very business-minded person, in the nineties she made a fortune in the clothing business, became a local millionaire, and later because of her husband's bad habits, she finally sold her son to others at a low price, and later Li Lijuan bought her son back at a high price.
Beginning in 1996, she adopted her first orphan, feeling joy and regaining motivation from raising them.
She did have love.
Later, the influence of fame and fortune factors made her selfish, she used these children to extort and extort surrounding enterprises, and even let the children stand on the edge of the mine, the other party did not give money, ordered the children to jump down, in the face of the children's panic, she was indifferent.
A benevolent donor heard some gossip in the local area, stayed behind to witness all this, and later pretended to be a volunteer to witness all the more cruel things.
At night, she would "tame" the children with a very thick stick, and those who did not behave well during the day would be beaten by her.
In the local area, her reputation has long been stinky, but the locals dare not speak out, the government previously built a "love village" for her 50 acres of land, no one dared to approach, she is a bully in the local area, and even find someone to beat the local villagers.
By May 2018, Li Lijuan was detained with 45 accounts of various types, with RMB20,259,846.45 and USD 25,500 in deposits.
By 2018, another RMB1,130,000 and USD 34,000 in cash were seized.
In the end, a total of 16 people were arrested, one of whom was her good friend, and was called "Boss Xu".
How can the psychological damage suffered by these children be calmed?
Although in the end justice came, this group of demons got the punishment they deserved, and the children were properly placed, but how can this group of hurt children calm their injured psychology?
Their terrible experience became a scar in their lives and could never be completely gone.
Childhood experiences will accompany the child for a lifetime, and a person must spend a lifetime to make up for the harm caused by childhood.
Although the results have been ushered in, it is still resentful, sad and infuriating.
Why are there so many orphans and abandoned babies?
The circles we live in are quiet and beautiful, children have received great protection from their parents, and when we step out of our circle of life, we will know that even in this good era, there are still many unfortunate children.
A friend who works in UNICEF, since she first went to the children's welfare home, has repeatedly stressed to her friends: prepare for pregnancy, have a good maternity check during pregnancy, and don't abandon your child.
She said that after entering the welfare home, so many pairs of black eyes stared at you, so many innocent children sat there quietly, and there was only one emotion at this time, that is, depression, wanting to cry.
Where did these kids come from?
Some are disabled because they were born and abandoned by their parents, some came to this world by accident and were abandoned by ignorant parents, some were unfortunately deceased by their parents, and some were abandoned by their parents because their gender did not meet their parents' expectations...
Children who leave their parents will be lonely and miserable all their lives
These poor children, leaving the shelter of their parents, encountered demons, and had later experiences.
Children who leave their parents, life becomes indefinite, there is no protection from the most loved ones, and they are lonely.
Today Wrote another article about the little baby who sent the courier with his father 2 years ago, after reading that information, there is a warm current in his heart, even though life is poor, even if life is difficult, but with parents, children are happy.
But what about babies who have been abandoned by their parents? There are countless possibilities, and encountering demons is one of them.
I hope that all parents can remember one thing: don't expect your child to be better off without himself, and the child is happiest to follow his parents.
Either not be born, born to be responsible for the end
Children are truly the cutest "little ones" in the world, they fully trust the parents around them, and they give back to their families with their purest smiles.
If everyone can either not give birth, give birth to a child, and be responsible for the child to the end, we will not see these poor children again.
A little advice for young you:
1. When you are not ready to have children, protect yourself
If at this stage of life, we are not ready, do not let the child come into this world, protect themselves, and do a good job of contraception.
This is responsible for oneself and for the child.
2. Do a good job of obstetric examination after pregnancy, and follow the doctor's advice
After pregnancy, do a maternity check-up during pregnancy.
Now the medical technique is very developed, if the child has a congenital disease, basically in the pregnancy can be checked out, if the fetus is really found to have problems, follow the doctor's advice, stop loss in time.
3, believe that you are the one who loves the baby the most
After the child comes to this world, he must believe that he is the person who loves the child the most in this world, and do not retreat to the second place.
If you are forced by reality to entrust your children to people, you must also be responsible for helping your children find a happier family.
Parents who give their children life have an obligation to ensure their safety and health.