In other words, hoping for a son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix is the common expectation of every parent. After the birth of the child, parents will not only work the child's name to give a beautiful meaning, but also carefully observe the child's appearance to see if the child has a rich and noble appearance. Generally speaking, children with physical characteristics such as a full heavenly court, a wide seal hall, an enlarged earlobe, a straight nose bridge, and a rounded chin will be considered rich and noble. Of course, in addition to the obvious appearance characteristics, in the eyes of some parents, palm prints, hand fingerprints, etc. are also the criteria for measuring whether a child is destined.
Take the bucket on the fingerprint of the hand, "bucket" refers to the "snail" on our fingerprint. The lines on our fingers are circle by circle, if it is a regular swirl, and a circle is formed in the middle, it is a bucket; if it is a disorganized flow pattern, there is no center, it is a dustpan.
It is rumored that the number of buckets on a person's fingers determines his fate, and the more fights, the better his life, is it true?
The more "buckets" on a child's fingerprints, the better his life?
One day, Xiao Hui's mother-in-law took the child in her arms, opened her eyes and looked at his fingers carefully, while looking at it, she still muttered: "One, two, three..." Xiao Hui curiously leaned up, it turned out that the mother-in-law had several buckets on the fingerprints of the child's hand. After counting out the child's hand fingerprints with nine buckets, the mother-in-law immediately said to Xiaohui happily: "As the saying goes, nine buckets and ten buckets enjoy qingfu, my grandson must be rich and noble, and he can live well without effort in the future!" ”
When Xiao Hui heard this, she was immediately unhappy and said to her mother-in-law with dissatisfaction: "Mom, it is not good for children to hear this kind of talk." What age is it now, look at the fingerprints of the hand there are several buckets, can you see the life of a person? Don't be too superstitious! Xiao Hui's mother-in-law was not willing to show weakness and firmly said that she could not be wrong. In this way, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law quarreled with each other.
However, whether a child is rich or not really depends on how many buckets there are in hand fingerprints?
On January 7, 2022, a study jointly published in the journal Cell by a research team from Fudan University and the Chinese Academy of Sciences found that genes related to human limb development play an important role in the formation of fingerprint pattern phenotypes.
The conventional wisdom is that fingerprint patterns are associated with skin development. However, the study subverted the previous understanding, pointing out that the fingerprint pattern is mainly formed by the fingerprint gene by regulating the development of the limb. That is to say, in the early stage of embryonic development, the appearance of the fingerprint pattern is determined, and it cannot be changed after birth. At the same time, researchers also found that there is a certain correlation between the fingerprint pattern and the length ratio of the finger, the more complex the fingerprint pattern, the more buckets, the longer the little finger, the shorter the palm length.
This study unlocks the genetic code of fingerprints, which has important guiding significance for the early stage of identifying and screening specific diseases through fingerprint phenotypes in the future, and is expected to achieve "hand-to-hand acquaintance of diseases".
The researchers said that the research team has found a close link between different skin pattern phenotypes and some congenital genetic diseases. For example, clinically, by looking at whether the newborn's skin pattern has a broken palm, a toe arched spherical pattern, etc., it can be judged whether it has Down syndrome, and the accuracy rate is as high as 98%.
So, you have to say that looking at a child's fingerprints has several buckets, you can know whether he is healthy or not, and maybe it is really possible to become a reality. However, it is a little ridiculous to say that the bucket on the fingerprint of the hand hides the password of wisdom and wealth! What's more, scientists have also found that most Asians have more buckets on their fingerprints, so it is not unusual to have nine buckets and ten buckets.
What is the real "rich life"?
Parents want their children to grow up to be well, but the reality is often not as good as people want. Some children, carrying all the expectations of their parents, end up living in a mess. At this time, some parents will hate iron and steel: "We are so good to you, spent so much money to cultivate you, you mixed into this?" There are also parents who, after accepting the reality that cannot be changed, will attribute their children's unhappy lives to "fate."
Is it really fate? In fact, for an ignorant child, what he looks like is inextricably linked to the parents' way of raising. A child who really has a "rich and noble life" may not have ten buckets of fingerprints, nor may he have large earlobes, but he must have a good pair of parents.
Good parents will appreciate their children's strengths and accept their children's shortcomings.
Good parents will share their children's happiness and listen to their children's troubles.
Good parents will communicate with their children on an equal footing, rather than condescending.
Good parents will accompany their children with high quality, rather than absent-mindedly perfunctory children.
Children who are educated in this way are difficult to think of being rich or not!
Rich and noble life is not a family fortune, nor is it superior, but has good quality. Rich is the heart, confident, optimistic, cheerful; expensive is the backbone, brave, independent, strong. For children, having the quality of "rich", no matter when the "life" will not be bad.
How can parents become "nobles" in their children's lives?
Three points are destined, seven points depend on hard work, and wealth is earned by talent, hard work and struggle. Parents who believe that "the more lives in the fight, the better", must change their minds, do not let their children lie flat, so as not to miss many precious opportunities in vain, resulting in children difficult to grow. What parents really have to do is not to see how much the child fights, but to exert wisdom and wisdom in parenting, become the "noble" in the child's life, and cultivate the child's "rich" quality.
First, accept your child with all your heart. If the child's academic performance is not good, but he is very good at drawing, parents should not hate iron and steel, but must set the goal of the child to be the first in the final exam age, but to respect the child's talent, tap the child's highlights, teach according to the aptitude, correctly understand the child, and also help the child to know the real self.
Second, let the child learn to take the initiative. All parents' worries about their children's studies, careers, and marriage stem from ignoring the intrinsic motivation that motivates their children. What should be the child to do, the parents themselves stand in the active position, let the child become a passive party, over time, the child will lose a lot of opportunities to exercise.
Third, let the child suffer a little. Children should be rich, but not infinitely materially satisfied. Now that the living conditions have become better, many parents are reluctant to suffer their children, but eating some hardships is good for the child's growth, which can exercise the child's ability to deal with problems, but also improve the child's ability to be frustrated, and what difficulties are encountered in the future, they can face it calmly and solve it with ease.
Write at the end:
Whether the child is rich or not is not to see how many fingers there are, nor to see the birth time, looks and figures and other things that cannot be changed, but to see whether the child has a "rich" mentality and quality, but also to see how the parents cultivate. If you believe in the so-called "seven buckets and eight buckets to do the official, nine buckets and ten buckets to enjoy the blessings" and wait for the fate of the arrangement, then in the end you may not get anything.