Some time ago, Sun Haiyang and Sun Zhuo's father and son frequently appeared on the online media, causing a lot of heat. Sun Haiyang is the character archetype of Han Dezhong in the movie "Dear", and in 2007, his son Sun Zhuo was abducted. After 14 years of long searching for a son, Sun Haiyang finally recognized Sun Zhuo at the end of last year, and the ending was very happy.
For a family, the most painful thing is that the child is abducted. Sun Haiyang is unfortunate, but fortunate, no matter how many years of suffering, his children finally return to their side. However, there are still many parents whose children have been abducted, and they are still on the road to find their children.
The Voice of China's "Yangguang Night News" once released a set of data that about 200,000 children go missing on the mainland every year, of which only 0.1% are recovered.
Children are abducted, and traffickers and buyers are naturally guilty. However, parents also have certain responsibilities. Many cases of children being abducted in real life are because parents are careless and do not take good care of their children. In addition, there is also a certain relationship with the lack of safety education for children, the vigilance of strangers is not strong, can not withstand the temptation, for a lollipop, a toy car with people.
The safety of children cannot be ignored, parents must pay attention to it, do a good job in safety education, and improve children's awareness of prevention.
The 3-year-old girl went missing from the mall for help, and the next scene was lively
Previously, some netizens shared a funny and wanted to spit story, a 3-year-old girl and her father went missing in the mall. Fortunately, she remembered that her father had told her before that she had difficulty finding a police uncle. Seeing the uniformed uncle of the security guard, the girl regarded him as a policeman and quickly walked up to ask for help.
So the security guard took the girl to the radio room of the mall and asked her what her father's name was. Usually at home, the girl has been listening to her mother calling her father "big pig trotters", so she told the security guard that her father's name was "big pig trotters".
The security guard smiled and asked several times, but the little girl still firmly said that it was "big pig's trotters". In desperation, the staff had to turn on the broadcast: "Mr. Big Pig Trotter, Mr. Big Pig Trotter, your daughter is waiting for you in the radio room..."
When the people in the whole mall heard the broadcast, they were momentarily quiet, and then they exploded a few seconds later, and everyone laughed and leaned forward and backward. Fortunately, the girl's father also realized that the "big pig's trotter" gentleman quickly rushed to the radio room and took his daughter.
Cases of parents going out and losing their children abound, such as a hot search in Gucun Park in Shanghai last year. During the Cherry Blossom Festival last year, many parents brought their babies to Gucun Park to enjoy the cherry blossoms. At this point, the police can be busy, 25 days received a total of 50 times of missing children for help, the most day there are 8 dolls missing. Some parents are still unaware, and the police call to know that the baby is lost.
The police also found that there are not many children who know the names and phone numbers of their parents and mothers, and many children aged 5-8 can only say their names and do not know anything about their parents.
Parents should fulfill their care responsibilities and improve their children's awareness of prevention
The child does not know the name of his parents? Can't say Mom and Dad's phone number? Don't know where your home address is? If it is a younger child, this still makes sense, but children aged 5-8 can already remember this information. If you don't know it yet, it's the responsibility of the parents.
Not knowing this key information will add to the trouble if the child is lost. While the child was crying to find his parents, his parents were also anxious. If you meet a policeman or a well-meaning person, it's just a matter of taking more time. In case of encountering a bad person, the child will not even have the opportunity to call for help.
Therefore, the child does not understand things, and the parents can not be Ma Daha. Especially in places with large traffic, it is even more important to improve safety awareness, look after children, and try not to keep children away from their own line of sight. Don't think that now there is surveillance everywhere, and the child can be found in minutes when he is lost. Even if the child does not encounter the bad guys, it is easy to walk into the lane of traffic, or accidentally fall into dangerous places such as ponds. Otherwise, if there is a danger, you will regret it.
In addition, do not leave the child to the care of strangers, when looking for an aunt or babysitter to take care of the child, be sure to verify the identity of the other party, and try not to go to a remote place when taking the child alone.
In addition to doing a good job of prevention, parents should also carry out effective safety education for their children.
1. Let your child remember some key information related to safety
Including their own name and school, mom and dad's name and phone number, home address, etc., in case they get lost, you can provide effective information to the helper. There are also signs of police stations, post offices, banks and other common places, and children should also be taught to identify, and tell children that if they are lost or in danger, they can go to these places to find people in uniform to help.
2. Scene simulation can be carried out usually
Do not let the child be afraid of the police, some parents in order to scare the child, at every turn to say "disobedience to the police uncle will come to arrest you", this will only make the child fear of the police, resulting in danger, do not dare to ask the police for help. Usually take the child out, see the police, security guards, etc., to encourage the child to take the initiative to say hello. When you need help, you can let your child ask for help from strangers, exercise your child's courage, and cultivate your child's resilience. You can also conduct scene training, find friends that the child does not know to play the bad guy, try to abduct the child, and see the child's reaction. If the child is doing it right, reward it in time to let the child know that his behavior is correct. If the child does something wrong, clearly point out the mistake and tell the child what the consequences will be if he is abducted by a bad person, so as to improve the child's vigilance.
3. Equip children with anti-loss equipment
Now there are a lot of anti-loss equipment, such as when losing school bags, anti-lost watches, anti-loss bracelets, etc., parents can arrange for their children according to the situation, so as to check the location of their children at any time. In case your child encounters danger, you can also press the help button and call for help in time to fight for more rescue time.
Write at the end:
Near the Spring Festival, many parents may take their children to relatives, travel, etc., to places with many eyes, and pay more attention to looking after their children, so as not to lose their children and encounter danger. Of course, the most important thing is to improve the child's own awareness of prevention, repeatedly instill the child with the corresponding safety education, do not be troublesome, and do not be afraid of the child's boredom. Not afraid of ten thousand, just in case, only by doing sufficient precautions can we reduce risks and ensure the safety of children.
With the rise of Sun Haiyang's search for children, parents have successively found abducted children. Not long ago, Li Fang, a mother looking for relatives, also ushered in good news, and her son Zhang Yangyang (pseudonym), who had been abducted for 24 years, finally found it! According to media reports, the mother and son have recently confessed. Finally, I hope that the world is free, and every child can grow up healthy and happy around his parents!