The recent frequent incidents of hurting girls all illustrate a problem: in modern society, the growth process of girls is really dangerous.
As a girl's parents, whether you are afraid or insomnia and anxiety, you can't change this fact. What should we do to protect our daughters to the greatest extent possible, so that they can avoid danger as much as possible, and life can be safe and smooth?
In the process of growing up in a girl, parents have great responsibilities and must be cautious at every step. Girls' mothers, because of their gender advantages, have a particularly great influence on girls' education.
It is not so easy to be a good mother of a girl, and a little negligence will cause irreparable and tragic consequences to the child's life.
Recently, the news of a president sexually assaulting a 14-year-old girl caused a sensation on the Internet, and when people hated the demon president with a straight face, the most questioned was the girl's mother.
News reports said that the girl's mother gave the president as her adopted daughter in order to ward off evil spirits.
A large number of netizens speculated that the girl's mother had other plans, and this matter is by no means so simple.
There are also news reports that the mother has been running with the girl after the accident, hoping to get justice for her daughter. Once sad wanted to commit suicide.
Opinions vary, and there is no consensus.
There has not been a result of this matter so far, but for whatever reason, the current outcome is that the girl has been violated by demons and her mind and body have been severely damaged, which is definitely something that the mother does not want to see.
The mother's act of handing the child over to a stranger reveals her ignorance and ignorance.
If we have a daughter, we may not need her to be proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, but we all hope that they will be safe and happy.
Since you have become a mother, since you have given birth to a daughter, you should have a strong awareness: your thinking, your IQ and mind, all do not affect your decisions. And every decision you make is crucial to your daughter, and if you are not careful, you will do something extremely unfavorable to your daughter and regret it for the rest of your life.
As a mother of a girl, from the day her daughter is born, she must do the following two things:
1. Protect your daughter and don't trust others casually.
I have a cousin from a rural family who did not choose to go to high school when she was sixteen years old and worked as a farmer at home. An aunt in the same village told her cousin that she knew a boss in Shenzhen who was recruiting workers, and just went back to her hometown to do business, she could introduce her cousin to work there, just to leave with the boss.
My cousin's mother, my cousin, heard the news, and she was not at ease, so she asked someone to inquire about the boss's factory and learned that there was no recruitment there.
The cousin politely refused the aunt's kindness and did not agree to her daughter going to work alone. The aunt was still very dissatisfied, and ridiculed her cousin for not knowing good villains.
But we all think that my cousin did the right thing, and that she did not send her daughter into a dangerous environment in order to make money, which is the greatest protection for her daughter.
Mothers must build a barrier for their children, be cautious, and children can avoid many tragedies.
2. Be your child's friend, communicate with your child from time to time, and let your child choose to trust you at the first time.
I have a classmate who is usually more strict with her daughter and does not communicate with her often, and her daughter is more afraid of her. In her eyes, her daughter is a well-behaved girl who listens to her, and she is very proud of it.
One day after her daughter was in her third year of college, she suddenly received a call from the school counselor saying that something was wrong with her daughter and asking her to go to school. She was anxious to call her daughter's mobile phone, and it was her classmates who answered the phone, telling her that her daughter was in the hospital and had an abortion.
When she heard the news, it was like thunder, and the well-behaved woman in her eyes actually did such a thing, which made her feel sad and angry.
After she went to school, she learned that her daughter had a boyfriend in her sophomore year, the two stole the forbidden fruit, and the daughter informed her boyfriend after she found out that she was pregnant, but she did not expect that her boyfriend immediately forced her to beat the fetus, and then unilaterally announced that she had broken up.
The daughter took miscarriage medicine in a sad and angry manner, and after taking the medicine, she bled non-stop and was sent to the hospital by her classmates for surgery.
When she went to the hospital to see her daughter's haggard face, she shed tears. She regrets the lack of communication with her daughter, preaching more in front of her daughter and caring less.
At a critical moment in her daughter's life, she did not fulfill her duties as a mother, and she felt guilty.
Mothers and daughters are both women, and they have the unique advantage of emotional intimacy. The mother seizes this advantage and establishes a friend-sister relationship with her daughter during her adolescence, building a bridge of trust. Let your daughter tell you her emotional confusion and dangers in time.
Gorky once said: Loving her children is something that even a hen would do, but educating children well is indeed an art.
Mastering this art requires mothers to read more and think more.
The advantages of a mother learning more are that she is a good example for her child, and the other is to give herself the ability to protect her, at least to give the right guidance and help at the critical moment of her life path.
As a mother of a girl, you must work hard to improve yourself. We have a long way to go to escort our daughter at an important stage of her life and make her safe and happy.
Your mind is closed and you don't know how to grow, and there will be many obstacles on the child's growth path.
Don't be a confused mother who harms her own children. Don't let your children pay for their own confusion.
Every girl deserves our good care.
Being a wise and brainy mother is the best love for your child.
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