Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
Text | The wind stops at night
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Interpersonal relationships are indispensable for us to survive in the world!
Between people, the boo-han greetings and warm people who meet use "friends" to cover up the phenomenon of equal exchange, which is a fact that people are not willing to admit to killing!
In addition to the value and interest, the relationship between people and people, there are only three words: it doesn't matter!
Some people, unwilling to admit this fact, always feel that they have "friends". Think that all your relationships are your greatest asset.
Yes, the like-minded "friends" picked out in relationships are indeed wealth. However, it can only be naked wealth!
At any time, under the benefit, friendship is worthless!
Between good friends, for the equivalent exchange, it is more important! If you are not careful, the love will be broken!
In real life, no matter who you have ever called a brother and a brother, inserted a knife in both ribs, and opened deeply, you will find:
In fact, you don't have a single friend!
In this life, people continue to experience and keep moving forward. Every stretch of road is a realization! When you are willing to admit the fact that you have no friends, you are really mature and grown.
Many people, proud of how many people they have met and how many friends they have made, but often feel that their inner loneliness cannot be expelled. In fact, it is because true friends, like betting, rely on self-investment to occasionally return.
Some people, all interpersonal relationships are very light, and only such people can live out real transparency.
In a lifetime, some people have only one friend, although there is nothing to talk about, you can also tacitly, but the balance of interests and losses also needs to be grasped at all times. If you are not careful, the number of friends is zero.
Some people, the only one who can be called a friend is themselves! No friends? normal! A hundred years of loneliness is life! People who are truly awake are able to endure loneliness and be alone.
People who can endure loneliness and enjoy loneliness are often not simple:
1: Spiritually independent people, no need to pin hopes with others
Most of those who shuttle through relationships in search of security and happiness are people who are not mentally independent enough.
If a person is not mentally independent enough, then he must not be able to endure loneliness and enjoy loneliness.
Friend, is it a wine and meat friend or a bond of interests? Come to think of it, only the parties themselves know best.
If, someone says, there is no mutual interest between them and their friends, they are pure friends. Then, spiritual comfort and mutual courtesy exchanges must be broken once the unbalanced relationship is broken.
Believe that no one in this world will really push your heart out with you except yourself. People, will have reservations.
If you don't know this reality, it only means that you are a person who is not mature enough. If you know this reality or are obsessed with interpersonal relationships with friends, you must be a person who does not know how to run yourself.
Only in the lonely silence can people achieve deep self-awareness, so as to plan goals and grow themselves! People who are in the hustle and bustle will not see where the real shortcomings of their lives are, and even if they do, they will not make up their minds to supplement it.
Compared with the joy of the so-called "friends" and various circles, compared with the management of oneself, "managing oneself" is the most important.
In the interpersonal relationship that everyone wants to avoid the wind and not to do the port, if you are not a powerful person, you do not have the ability to build a safe haven for others. Even so, the strength of your friend relationship is probably overestimated by you!
Too many non-work interpersonal relationships, in addition to changing meals is to change money to kill time, rather than so it is better to run yourself and take care of the people around you.
Only in this way, the regrets of life will not be so much!
2: A person's years can really be quiet
There are many people who can find happiness in the hustle and bustle, but they can't live as they want in the quiet of a person.
Being able to withdraw from the hustle and bustle of being one's own person is that he can avoid too much unnecessary consumption for himself without having to fully see human nature.
Only once in life, after improving yourself and managing yourself, is the most valuable wealth of fashion.
As for friends, it is just a "transaction" that does not necessarily exchange affection for love, and does not necessarily exchange truth for truth.
After all, it is up to the people who are compatible to talk a few more times, and the various words of righteousness in it will be listened to. People live, the focus of life is never how to exhaust the relationship with whom to manage, but how to make themselves a really powerful person from the inside out, whether spiritual or material, can do not rely on, do not depend.
A person's life, the best friend, the best reliance, always be themselves! Whether it is family affection, friendship or love, it cannot escape the reality that no one has a thousand days to spend and no hundred days.
When you get along with people and you have the value of existence, your relationship is continuous, and when the value of your existence disappears, the relationship that you use to maintain with all your strength is also a one-man show.
When a person is strong enough, he can live the way he wants, and who is close and distant is never a burden in his heart.
Everyone is a person who wears a mask and walks away. Shuttling through all kinds of interpersonal relationships, blindly communicating, blindly worrying about an unworthy relationship, and finally finding that his life has long been let down by himself!
The hardest thing in a person's life is not to turn around empty when you have something to do, but when you can clearly win everything on yourself, you put your hopes on others.
Life is destined to be a lonely journey. No one can accompany us to the end, and people should always leave a trace of themselves in this irrevocable world.
And the best trace is not left for posterity to comment on the good or bad, but the moment before the end of life, the solid and fulfilling intuitive feeling of looking back on the past.
For the rest of your life, don't overestimate your charm in relationships, but look forward to a relationship. Focusing on one's own life and being ashamed of one's heart is the most penetrating state of mind in this practice of life!
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Love is man's purgatory in the world. Love or friendship, the right time meets the right person to cultivate the right results!
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