Now parents are more personality and like to play some terriers. In this case, this generation of children, from their names to their upbringings, is not the same as when we were young. For example, in the past, children's names were more formal and had certain connotations. Now many children's names are following the trend.
10 years ago, the name Ziyi was rare, and now, typical "idol drama" names such as Zi Rui and ZhiQing are particularly popular. After this idol-like name was on fire for a while, the "pseudo-compound surname" quietly caught fire again. These names are the unforgettable meanings of many post-90s parents secretly reading novels in junior high school.
"Pseudo-compound surname" has become a trend of naming, parents feel very trendy, but let the child be very embarrassed
Perhaps deeply influenced by various film and television works and romance novels, many people feel that Ouyang, Dongfang, Shangguan and other compound surnames are very "noble". Those who have a compound surname in film and television works are either noble male protagonists or unforgettable male partners.
Perhaps in order to pursue the difficulty in their hearts, many people, even if they are not a compound surname, want to "use their imagination" on the child's name and make a duplicate surname. Among them, the most common practice of self-made surname is to combine the names of father and mother to form a new surname, and then let the child's name have four words.
Names are given by our parents and should be accepted with confidence. But ask yourself, in the process of growing up, is the post-90s generation more or less disgusted because of the words "Cui, Ying, Jian, And Zhu" in their names, or the names of "Rich, Cuihua, Meilan, and Yuxiang", which are very rural when they hear it?
Once the name follows some less connotative trends, it is difficult to avoid becoming synonymous with "no connotation, rotten street" after ten or twenty years. Now those homemade compound surnames look interesting, but they can't stand the precipitation of time. Once this trend of naming passes, years later, it may become a new distress.
"Pseudo-compound surname" is not terrible, what is terrible is the sensational "pseudo-compound surname"
In fact, the flexible use of children's names now just proves the progressiveness of our thinking. If the name is particularly charming, "pseudo-compound surname" is also very distinctive. However, some parents are not in order to pursue an open mind and give their children names with their hearts, but are blindly sensationalizing.
For example, some parents surnamed Wang simply gave their children a name of "glory of the king" and gave the child the compound surname of "king", so that the surname of the offspring can look domineering. But this superficial name will only make children more than a decade later mention their names, and they will have to helplessly explain to the public.
Every parent has experienced childhood, and they know how ignorant, childlike, and outspoken children are. Giving a child a sensational compound surname + name is not only used to ridicule parents, but also most likely to be used as a laughing stock by playmates.
When I was a child, it was hard enough to be nicknamed by everyone together. If your name is used by your parents and other classmates as an object of ridicule, the little child will not think it is a funny thing, but will only think that it is a very uncomfortable thing.
Name your child and learn to avoid these problems
Nowadays, in order to highlight the "cultural" nature of their children's names, many parents will deliberately use strange characters in their children's names. Unfamiliar words that do not know the connotation and use them at will not increase the cultural sense of the name at all, but will bring a lot of trouble to children.
For example, in the process of learning the pronunciation and writing of their own names, children are easily very irritable by the complex pronunciation and strokes of strange words, thus giving birth to the psychology of resisting the learning of names. When they grow up, children have to correct the pronunciation of their names on various occasions, and in the end, they will only be full of helplessness.
Chinese culture is broad and profound, and the names you give your children may be the words of harmonic sounds in a certain field. When I was in junior high school, there was a girl named "Gao Shu". When it came time for junior high school students to learn about sex, she was inevitably given an embarrassing nickname by some ignorant little boys.
Therefore, in the process of naming their children, parents can give their children's names to relatives and friends in different fields and with rich experience, or directly check the Internet to avoid some indecent harmonics to the greatest extent.
Some children's names are all three words with a lot of strokes, and even if this word is not difficult to recognize, it will make the child very distressed. For example, when children in elementary school learn their own names, they will always be half a beat slower than others.
This frustration brought to children by learning slow half a beat is not small, there are so many Chinese characters, there is no need to use those few strokes of the word.
Now "pseudo-compound surname" is really popular, but the most taboo thing about naming is to follow the trend. After all, names are decades or even things, and really good names must be able to withstand the polishing and test of the years.
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