Speaking of Li Shuangjiang, everyone will think of his indisputable son Li Tianyi,
Many people do not know, in fact, Li Shuangjiang also has a son named Li He, who was born to him and his ex-wife Ding Ying.
Li He is a low-key, erudite and versatile person who was admitted to the Beijing General Political Affairs Song and Dance Troupe with his own efforts.
Looking at Li Tianyi, he was sentenced to 10 years in prison in 2013.
This storm made Li Shuangjiang, who should have enjoyed the joy of heaven, be insulted by the whole network.
At that time, everyone avoided Li Shuangjiang, and only he and his ex-wife's son Li He had been taking care of him at the hospital bedside.
And Li He's excellent low profile has also become the only salvation in Li Shuangjiang's heart.
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In 1939, Li Shuangjiang was born in an ordinary family in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, Li Shuangjiang showed a very outstanding singing talent from an early age, but his father told him from an early age that he would grow up and have a career to study medicine.
Later, Li Shuangjiang grew up, and his singing talent was praised by many teachers, so he decided to learn to sing when he grew up.
Such a dream was not recognized by his father, and he even talked to his father: "If you want to learn to sing again, I will break your leg!" ”
Because his father's opposition was too fierce, in the end Li Shuangjiang was sent to medical school to study medicine, and his father was very happy when he learned the news, but Li Shuangjiang was full of sorrow.
Because he still can't put down singing in his heart. At this time, the Ministry of Colleges and Universities issued a notice to the whole country that those with cultural and sports expertise could be admitted to art universities in Beijing.
When Li Shuangjiang heard the news, he felt that heaven was giving him a chance, so he immediately went to sign up.
But this news made his father angry, he picked up the bench and threw it at Li Shuangjiang's body, but Li Shuangjiang did not avoid it, he knew that he had failed his father's expectations.
It may be that heaven can't bear to bury such a talent as him, after a series of examinations, Li Shuangjiang was finally successfully admitted to the Central Conservatory of Music.
During his time in school, Li Shuangjiang also received praise from many teachers for his outstanding singing skills, and everyone felt that his future must be unlimited.
After graduation, Li Shuangjiang went to work in a cultural troupe in Beijing, but during his work, Li Shuangjiang had a slippery slope in his thinking, and eventually he was assigned to the Xinjiang Cultural and Labor Troupe as a soloist.
At this time, Li Shuangjiang met his ex-wife Ding Ying, a dancer in the literary troupe, and Li Shuangjiang was attracted by Ding Ying's graceful posture and beautiful dance.
Dan Ding Ying is a very sought-after woman in the literary troupe, because she is beautiful and can dance, so there are many suitors.
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At that time, Li Shuangjiang was also a very sought-after male singer in the literary troupe, and Ding Ying also liked him after watching Li Shuangjiang's singing, and finally the two hit it off and immediately went to get a certificate.
After marriage, Li Shuangjiang treated Ding Ying very well, no matter how Ding Ying played a small temper, Li Shuangjiang would never be angry and would coax Ding Ying.
Soon after, Ding Ying became pregnant with Li Shuangjiang's child and named him Li He.
When Li He was young, Li Shuangjiang would go home no matter how late he got off work or after rehearsals, and every time he came home, he would tease Li He to play, and he would even accompany Li He to play games.
In Li He's memory, it seems that his father only came home often at that time, and often bought him good food, and his parents' feelings at that time were also very good.
But I don't know when my father began to become busy, he said that he finally survived, he wanted to start making money, and he would definitely be able to give his mother and him a happy life in the future.
At that time, Li He could often see his father appear on TV, watching the magical father on TV, Li He only felt proud, and at the same time, he also decided in his heart that he still had to be as strong as his father.
Because his father often needs to perform, the time for father and son to see each other becomes very small, and then his mother will comfort him: "Your father is a very good singer, and the audience needs him, so we must understand father." ”
Hearing this, Li He, who seemed to understand something, only knew how to nod.
Once in Li He's class, a video of Li Shuangjiang singing a song was played, and the teacher asked the students to learn to sing this song, and little Li He suddenly became angry, and he wanted to tell the students loudly that this was the song my father sang.
But he couldn't say it, because his mother told him not to publicize his father's things everywhere, to learn to keep a low profile, and not to bring unnecessary trouble to his father.
When Li Shuangjiang was not at home, Ding Ying was busy with everything in the family, and Li He's homework was also tutored by her.
Li He remembers that his mother always taught him to be as good as his father, but to learn to be humble and low-key. You can't feel better than others just because your dad is a singer.
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In fact, promises are empty talk in many cases, and as Li Shuangjiang's fame grows, he begins to return home every long time, and when he returns home, he does not want to be as warm and considerate to his wife and children as before.
Ding Ying asked Li Shuangjiang to talk about the recent situation, and Li Shuangjiang only said perfunctorily: "I don't want to say it, and you don't understand it." ”
This sentence stabbed Ding Ying's heart fiercely, she was originally a "white swan" that everyone praised and envied, but because she was pregnant with a child and took care of the family, she had to suspend her work and return to the family as a full-time wife.
But now Li Shuangjiang said such a thing to her, she was angry but there was nothing she could do.
Later, Li Shuangjiang was hired by the Central Conservatory of Music to be a music teacher in the school, and then he began not to return home for a long time.
Ding Ying called him, and he always said that he was busy. At this time, Ding Ying knew that the relationship between the two people was almost over here.
One day after school, Li He saw that his father had finally returned home, but there was no smile on his mother's face. When it was time to eat, Li He found that his parents hardly spoke, and the scene of laughter and laughter in the past seemed to have really never returned.
In the end, Ding Ying and Li Shuangjiang still divorced, Ding Ying did not have any requirements, but said that he would keep the children for himself, and Li Shuangjiang only needed to pay the corresponding maintenance fees every month.
Without quarrels and tears, Li Shuangjiang and Ding Ying divorced.
Before leaving, Li Shuangjiang instructed Li He: "In the future, we must take good care of our mother, take care of ourselves, and grow up to be a man who stands tall in the sky." ”
In the face of such an instruction, Li He only felt uneasy, but he still did not know what happened between his parents, and asked his mother, and her mother only said: "You will know when you grow up." ”
Time passed day by day, Li He had never seen Li Shuangjiang since then, at first he would ask his mother why, he would be angry, and then he would not ask again, because he knew that his father did not want them.
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After the divorce, Ding Ying returned to work in the literary troupe, because she had to take care of the children, she had to take on the responsibility of the family. And Li He also secretly vowed that in the future, he must make a name for himself and give his mother a better life.
Since the divorce, Li Shuangjiang has not asked his son Li He about it, as if he and the child are strangers. And his only connection to the child was "maintenance."
In the process of Li He's growth, Ding Ying's earnest teachings had a great impact on him, and she told him not to resent his father Li Shuangjiang, as long as their mother and son worked hard to live their own lives.
In the year of graduation from high school, Li He was guaranteed to study abroad because of his excellent grades. In those years abroad, he has always been a work-study, because he is honest and low-key, so the classmates and teachers around him are very fond of him.
After graduating from college, Li He worried about his mother at home and decided to return home for employment, and then he was admitted to the Beijing General Political Affairs Song and Dance Troupe with his own efforts.
This is also the song and dance troupe where Li Shuangjiang once stayed.
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On the other hand, Li Shuangjiang's life has not changed much after the divorce, and when he attends classes at the Central Conservatory of Music, he is often overcrowded, and everyone wants to see the style of this famous singer.
In 1988, Li Shuangjiang met his second wife, Mengge, in his music class.
Dream Pigeon has learned to sing since she was a child, is a talented student in singing, and she has also published her own record "Dream Pigeon".
Such a talented woman has always regarded Li Shuangjiang as her idol and role model, and she hopes that she can one day be on a bigger and better stage like Li Shuangjiang.
On this day, the students had to pull the dream pigeon to listen to Li Shuangjiang's music lesson, when they went in, Li Shuangjiang was singing a song on the podium, and the dream pigeon was overwhelmed by his majestic tenor.
Then Li Shuangjiang asked, "Who's going to demonstrate the way I just spoke?" ”
Without hesitation, Dream Pigeon raised his hand and said, "I'll try it." ”
Then Mengge sang a song "Bye Da Nian" for everyone, and after she sang Li Shuangjiang took the lead and began to applaud, her mouth kept saying: "Good, very good, very good!" ”
After that, Mengge often went to Li Shuangjiang to discuss the problem of singing songs, and the two people had feelings for each other, but because of the identity of teachers and students, they did not break through this layer of window paper.
Until one time the two of them were invited to serve as judges of a competition, and they met to climb the mountain during the break, and on the way to the mountain, Li Shuangjiang expressed his intentions.
Mengge agreed without hesitation, she said that this was the scene in her dream, and she didn't expect it to come true!
Determined the dream pigeon's intentions, Li Shuangjiang happily shouted the words that had been hidden in his heart on the mountain: "I want to marry the dream pigeon as my wife!" ”
At this time, Mengge was 23 years old and Li Shuangjiang was 50 years old.
In 1990, Mengge graduated from university, and Li Shuangjiang married Mengge under pressure from many parties.
After marriage, Dream Pigeon had two accidental miscarriages, and just when the couple was not holding out hope, Dream Pigeon was pregnant with a third child, which was Li Tianyi.
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Because of the experience of the first two miscarriages, the couple treated this fetus very seriously and nervously, and ten months later, the child was born smoothly.
It may be that this child is not easy to come by, so Li Shuangjiang and Mengge treat Li Tianyi with special pampering, and can even be said to be spoiled.
When Li Tianyi was young, no matter what he wanted, Li Shuangjiang always tried everything to satisfy him, even if Li Tianyi behaved very unreasonablely, Li Shuangjiang was not willing to scold him, let alone beat him.
Li Shuangjiang plays the image of a loving father at home, but Mengge does not play Yan Mother, because this is her and Li Shuangjiang's first child, and the premature death of the first two children has caused her a lot of harm.
So now she wants to give all her love to her son Li Tianyi.
It is precisely because of his parents' excessive pampering that Li Tianyi feels that no matter what he does, his parents will forgive himself.
So Li Tianyi bullied the children around him from the beginning of the kindergarten, and the teacher called to tell Mengge that she only apologized with her mouth, but she would not educate Li Tianyi that this was wrong.
Li Shuangjiang only pays attention to the development of his son's talent, and he relies on his personal connections to hire a calligraphy teacher from Tsinghua University to teach him calligraphy, a famous piano master to teach him to learn piano, and himself to teach him to learn to sing in his spare time.
Such a growing atmosphere made Li Tian lawless at first, and he felt that even if he did something wrong, his parents would not blame him.
In fact, it is because of the failure of Li Shuangjiang and Mengge's education that it will lead to the tragedy of the future.
Because Li Tianyi always bullied his classmates at school, the teacher's phone began to call home one after another, but Li Shuangjiang only verbally criticized his son every time, and there was no substantive punishment.
Because Li Tianyi likes to play ice hockey, but there are no good teaching conditions in China, they decided to send Li Tianyi abroad to learn ice hockey.
Who knew that after returning to China, Li Tianyi clamored for his father to buy him a car, on the grounds that his foreign classmates were 14 years old and already had their own cars, and he couldn't do without them.
Unable to screw his son, Li Shuangjiang bought him a BMW, the car arrived, and the accident happened quickly.
Because of the driving reason, Li Tianyi started a verbal altercation with others and also moved his hands, which made a lot of noise.
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The matter was blown up on the Internet, and Li Shuangjiang had to personally go to the door to apologize to the Audi driver and also lost a lot of medical expenses.
Because he was a minor, Li Tianyi was also detained in a correctional center for a year.
I thought that Li Tianyi would restrain himself on this, but unexpectedly, in 2013, he made another big mistake and was sentenced to 10 years in prison.
After the accident, Li Shuangjiang and his wife were chased and scolded by the whole network, and Li Shuangjiang's reputation accumulated for a lifetime was wiped clean by his son. Li Shuangjiang, who should have enjoyed the joy of heaven, was also gassed into the hospital.
After being hospitalized, only he and his ex-wife's son Li He took care of him in the hospital, and when something like this happened, everyone was afraid to avoid it, and Mengge was also busy running for Li Tianyi, and it was too late to take care of him.
Li Shuangjiang looked at his eldest son, Li He, who was well educated by his mother Ding Ying, modest and low-key, and excellent in character and learning.
Thinking of his youngest son Li Tianyi, Li Shuangjiang couldn't help but feel sad, and it was only now that he realized that everything was his and Mengge's pampering that led to today's situation. But what's the point of talking about that now?
Li Shuangjiang's two sons, in different educational environments, have come up with completely different results.
Everyone shouts and fights, and one person sees people love.
It can be seen that everything must have a degree, and blindly spoiling the child will only harm him.