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A sigh: From the "son of the singer" to the prisoner, who strangled Li Tianyi?
In February 2013, it was cold and windy in Beijing.
A piece of news exploded in public opinion like a bomb: Li Tianyi, the son of the famous singer Li Shuangjiang, was criminally detained by the police on suspicion of gang rape.
As soon as the news came out, public opinion was in an uproar, and people were discussing: What kind of family education will raise such a lawless "second generation of stars"?
The label of "son of the singer" now seems more like a cruel joke played by fate.
1. One of the "Four Famous Fathers": Li Shuangjiang's educational tragedy
Li Shuangjiang has an important place in the history of Chinese music.
His singing voice is high-pitched and loud, singing the style of an era, and has won the respect and love of countless people.
"On the Songhua River" and "Red Star Follow Me to Fight", these classic songs carry the collective memory of a generation, and also make Li Shuangjiang a well-deserved "evergreen" in the Chinese music scene.
However, fate always likes to joke.
When Li Shuangjiang's career was booming, an accident happened quietly.
In 2013, his son, Li Tianyi, was sentenced to 10 years in prison on suspicion of involvement in gang rape.
This case not only put Li Tianyi in prison, but also made Li Shuangjiang the focus of everyone's discussion.
For a while, all kinds of accusations and doubts came overwhelmingly, and people began to re-examine the family education of this "singer".
And Li Shuangjiang has also changed from an artist admired by tens of thousands of people to one of the "four famous fathers" in the mouth of netizens.
In fact, long before Li Tianyi's crime, rumors about his parents doting on their children were not uncommon.
Li Tianyi is the son of Li Shuangjiang and Mengge, and Mengge is Li Shuangjiang's second wife.
Mengge is 27 years younger than Li Shuangjiang, and when the two got married, Li Shuangjiang was 51 years old.
Li Shuangjiang only had this son when he was old, so he was very fond of him, and he would almost agree to whatever his son wanted.
It is said that Li Tianyi wanted to learn piano when he was 4 years old, so Li Shuangjiang invited a world-class piano master to teach one-on-one at home; At the age of 8, Li Tianyi became obsessed with calligraphy again, and Li Shuangjiang invited a well-known domestic calligrapher for him to guide him carefully.
Material satisfaction is not a problem.
Li Shuangjiang and his wife love their son very much, as long as their son likes something, whether it is a luxury car or a famous watch, they will buy him without saying a word.
In the eyes of Li Shuangjiang and his wife, their son is their most beloved person, and they are willing to give everything just to make their son's life better.
However, this unprincipled doting became the catalyst for Li Tianyi to go astray.
Since he was a child, Li Tianyi has hardly been restrained, no matter what mistakes he makes, his parents will settle it for him.
At school, Li Tianyi was a notoriously troublemaker.
He often bullied his classmates and even hit people.
Once, Li Tianyi quarreled with his classmates, and as a result, he actually broke the other party's arm.
However, instead of blaming their son, Li Shuangjiang and his wife ran to the school, apologized and lost money, and finally turned the big thing into a small thing and a small thing.
Li Tianyi not only makes trouble at school, but also often causes trouble outside.
When he was 15 years old, Li Tianyi hit someone because he was driving without a driver's license.
Afterwards, Li Shuangjiang and his wife came forward again, apologized and compensated, and finally calmed down the situation.
However, Li Shuangjiang and his wife's "calming things down" did not let Li Tianyi learn a lesson, but made him more unscrupulous.
With their connivance again and again, Li Tianyi gradually turned into a lawless "demon king of the world".
Finally, on that night in 2013, Li Tianyi made an unforgivable mistake.
And this time, no matter how hard Li Shuangjiang and his wife work, they can no longer shelter their son from the wind and rain.
"If the children are not educated well, the parents have to be responsible." This sentence is particularly evident in Li Shuangjiang.
He used the glory of his life to pay for his son's mistakes.
2. The Cost of Missing Education: The Tragedy of Li Tianyi's Life
Li Tianyi was born into a loving family, and his parents were both nationally renowned artists.
However, this excessive love eventually pushed him to the abyss.
Li Tianyi has lived an almost isolated life under the pampering of Li Shuangjiang and his wife since he was a child.
He has always enjoyed the treatment of being held by others, and he can do whatever he wants, but he has never really understood what the rules and responsibilities are.
When he was in elementary school, Li Tianyi injured his classmates because of a conflict.
However, Li Shuangjiang and his wife did not harshly criticize and educate their son, but were worried that their son's hands hurt after beating someone.
This kind of behavior of "protecting the calf" not only did not make Li Tianyi realize his mistake, but made him more fearless.
When he was 15 years old, Li Tianyi drove a luxury car without a license, got into a collision with others, and beat each other.
This time, Li Shuangjiang and his wife still did not effectively discipline their son, but chose to settle everything with money and relationships.
However, the connivance again and again did not make Li Tianyi lose his way, but made him go further and further on the road of crime.
In 2013, 17-year-old Li Tian and others took a girl drunk to a hotel and gang-raped her.
As soon as this case was exposed, it caused quite a stir in society.
When everyone criticized Li Tianyi's bad behavior, they also put the blame on his parents.
Many people believe that the reason why Li Tianyi has become what he is today is inextricably linked to the doting education of Li Shuangjiang and his wife.
They gave their son good material conditions, but they didn't pay much attention to his spiritual world.
Li Shuangjiang once admitted frankly on the show that he was reluctant to beat his son, and even the thought of beating his son made tears fall down.
However, this image of a "loving father" cannot hide his failure in education.
True love is not unconditional doting and pampering, but to help children learn to distinguish between right and wrong and take responsibility.
The tragedy of Li Tianyi's life has sounded the alarm for all parents.
As children grow up, parental love and education are crucial.
Excessive spoiling will only make children lose their way and eventually harm others and themselves.
3. Looking at "star education" from Li Shuangjiang's experience
Li Tianyi's incident has made the education of celebrities' children the focus of heated discussions.
People can't help but ask: Why do some star families with dazzling halos cultivate problematic "second generation stars"?
Celebrities are the focus of public attention, and their lives are always magnified in the public eye.
Their children receive more attention and resources than the average person from birth, but at the same time face greater pressures and temptations.
Many celebrity parents usually choose to protect their children from outside interference in order to protect their children.
However, this kind of "overprotection" deprives children of the opportunity to contact society and experience life, and it is easy for them to develop a "self-centered" personality and lack independence and social responsibility.
There are also some celebrity parents, in order to satisfy their vanity, push their children into the public eye prematurely, let them participate in various programs and endorse various products.
However, this kind of "overexposure" will bring a lot of psychological pressure to children, making them lose their way in Vanity Fair and find it difficult to establish correct values and outlook on life.
Li Shuangjiang and Mengge are undoubtedly typical representatives of "star parents".
They poured all their love into their son, but neglected to guide him in correct values and cultivate an independent personality.
They paved the way for their son, but forgot to teach him how to walk; They gave their son the best material conditions, but they forgot to teach him how to behave.
The Li Tianyi incident sounded the alarm for all celebrity parents: the aura of a star cannot hide the lack of education; Material abundance cannot make up for spiritual emptiness.
The essence of education is that parents accompany their children to grow up and guide them to become independent, kind and responsible people.
Fourth, a sigh
Now, Li Tianyi has been released from prison.
The invincible "second generation of stars" has now changed his name and surname and gone overseas.
85-year-old Li Shuangjiang is still busy in various cities, and continues to add color to life with his singing.
On the stage, he is still in good spirits, and his singing voice is still loud, but the wrinkles at the corners of his eyes and his slightly faltering steps silently tell the ruthlessness of the years and the tricks of fate.
Seeing the current Li Shuangjiang, everyone really has mixed feelings in their hearts.
Some people sympathized with him, thinking that he had paid the price for his son's wrong education because of his bleak old age; Some people also condemned him, thinking that he was to blame, that he doted on his son and ruined himself.
In any case, the matter of Li Shuangjiang and Li Tianyi has taught us an important lesson.
The love of parents is the most selfless and greatest emotion in the world, but the way of love determines the direction of the child's future.
May all parents take this as a warning, love their children in the right way, and guide them on the right path in life.
Information sources:
People's Daily Online-Yang Hongji talks about Li Tian's case: Li Shuangjiang knows that his tutoring has failed
Beijing Times - Li Shuangjiang's 15-year-old son drove a BMW and hit people, shouting who dares to shout
Image Network-Li Tianyi exposed a family photo for the first time after being released from prison, and he wore a 100-yuan dress and was a lot more low-key
Observer.com - The court responded to Li Tianyi's sentence of 10 years, saying that he had been given a lenient punishment
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