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It is said that habitual sons are like "killing children", and loving mothers are more defeated.
Li He, who is also Li Shuangjiang's son, has embarked on a completely different path from his younger brother Li Tianyi.
One was doted on as a child, went astray, and was sentenced to ten years; The other grew up in an environment without father's love, but he chose to be filial piety in front of the bed regardless of his previous suspicions.
He and his younger brother have the same father, but they have never received love from their father since they were young, and they are not well known to everyone.
Perhaps since birth, the lives of the two have long been destined.
Habitual son is like a killer
When it comes to Li Shuangjiang, everyone will respect him very much, and his son Li Tianyi is also well-known to everyone because of that catastrophe.
For a time, the phrase "habitual sons are like "killing children", and loving mothers are more defeated" was deeply engraved on the old artist Li Shuangjiang.
Back then, Li Shuangjiang, as a well-known singer, had outstanding artistic achievements and a happy family.
In the love marriage between Li Shuangjiang and Mengge that spans ages, they ushered in a precious gift in their later years - their youngest son Li Tianyi, who naturally became the pearl of the family.
Living in the spotlight since childhood, enjoying superior material conditions and endless love and attention, Li Tianyi seems to have the whole world, but this excessive doting has quietly buried hidden dangers.
As the successor of an artistic family, Li Tianyi has been pinned on high hopes since he was a child, but under this high hope, there is more unconditional satisfaction and connivance.
When adolescent rebellion and impulsiveness meet an unrestrained environment, a tragedy brews.
As he grew older, Li Tianyi gradually developed a self-centered and lawless personality in his doting, enjoying the convenience of privilege, but never really learning to respect the rules of others and society.
Finally, impulsive and arrogant behaviors pushed him into the abyss of crime.
They may not have expected that the excessive doting will eventually become the driving force that pushes the child into the abyss.
The arrogance of beating others and the evil act of gang raping women, these shocking criminal facts not only discredited Li Tianyi, but also plunged the entire family into an unprecedented crisis.
In the courtroom, the evidence was ironclad, and Li Tianyi was finally sentenced to ten years in prison, which was like a thunderbolt from the sky, shattering the expectations and dreams of Li Shuangjiang and Mengge.
"A habitual son is like a murderer", this sentence has been most painfully verified in Li Tianyi's story. Li Shuangjiang and Mengge's joy of having a child in their later years eventually turned into endless regret and tears.
Everyone says that Li Shuangjiang has no way to teach his son, but on the other hand, his eldest son Li He is two completely different lives.
Source of information in this paragraph: People's Daily Online: 2013.2.3 Li Tianyi was accused of playing with post-90s women and was nicknamed "Haidian Silver Gun Little Overlord"
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The lack of fatherly love but sensible is distressing
Li Shuangjiang actually had a marriage before marrying Mengge, and his first wife was named Ding Ying, a dancer.
When the two got married, Li Shuangjiang was just an ordinary young man, and when the two got married, they were also very simple.
Also when his eldest son Li He was born, Li Shuangjiang was still struggling on the road to fame.
After the two got married, it can be said that Li Shuangjiang's career went all the way up, and Ding Ying began to work hard to be the woman behind Li Shuangjiang.
Career and family can't have both, and on the way to work hard for his career, his care and concern for his family has become very rare.
And the young Li He, compared with his younger brother Li Tianyi, he has never appeared in public frequently under the care of his father like his younger brother, and enjoys the treatment of the public.
Instead, he is more of a bystander, quietly watching everything about the family.
"Dad, when can you play with me for a while?" This is the most common sentence asked by Li He when he was a child, but it is often only exchanged for his father's busy figure and a gentle "next time".
Li Shuangjiang's artistic career is busy and intense, he has devoted all his enthusiasm and energy to his singing career, and he is unable to take care of his family, especially the company of his children.
For Li He, his father's absence has become a lingering shadow in his childhood memories.
It wasn't until Li Shuangjiang got ahead that their family went to live in Beijing with their father, thinking that they could finally live a life of fatherly love, but they didn't expect that everything did not go as Li He wished.
After coming to Beijing, Li He heard his parents quarreling most often, and their marriage became fragmented in one quarrel after another.
The marriage eventually came to an end.
Source: Baidu Encyclopedia Li Shuangjiang
Diametrically opposed lives
After the two divorced, Li He did not go down the wrong path because of this, but relied on his own hard work and work-study, and was admitted to a good school.
At that time, Li Tianyi's incident not only caused Li Tianyi to fall into the whirlpool of public opinion, but also put the whole family under tremendous pressure. In this context, Li He became the only "safe haven" in his family.
He silently supported his family and guarded this stormy family in his own way.
Faced with the changes in the family and the lack of father's love, Li He did not choose to sink or complain. Instead, he took on the responsibility of taking care of his father.
Although he did not have the same illustrious background and talent as his younger brother, he used his diligence and talent to win the admiration and respect of those around him.
As time passed, Li Shuangjiang gradually realized his neglect and indebtedness to his eldest son Li He. He began to try to make up for this lack of fatherly love, and understood and accepted Li He with a warmer and more tolerant attitude.
He saw Li He's growth and changes, and saw him guarding the family in his own way, and his heart was full of satisfaction and pride.
And Li He also felt the long-lost family affection and warmth in his father's efforts, he learned to forgive and let go, and began to try to establish a more intimate relationship with his father.
They share the bits and pieces of life together, and face the challenges and difficulties of the future together.
In this process, they not only regained their lost family affection, but also gained a deeper understanding and trust of each other.
It's a pity that Li Shuangjiang can only make the mistakes of his youngest son and fall to the point of making money by singing on the street.
Parents are their children's first teachers
In the long and complex journey of education, the role of parents is undoubtedly the most crucial.
When it comes to the story of Li Shuangjiang's education of his son, we can't help but think deeply that no matter whether a child is gifted or ordinary, education is by no means just the responsibility of the school or teacher, it is deeply rooted in the soil of the family and cannot be separated from the companionship and guidance of parents.
Li Shuangjiang, as an outstanding artist, has made remarkable achievements in his professional field. But when it comes to educating his son, the father may also have unspeakable regrets.
Li Tianyi, a teenager who should have thrived under the care of his parents, but deviated from the right track for various reasons, which can't help but make people sigh that the lack of education often begins in the family.
Parents are their children's first teachers and the most important guides on their life path.
In the process of children's growth, parents' words and deeds, love and companionship are indispensable nutrients.
The story of Li Shuangjiang and Li Tianyi is both a warning and a revelation. It tells us that no matter how busy your career is, no matter how hard life is, parents should not neglect the education of their children.
The future of children is the future of the family and the future of society. Only when we work together to pass on love and wisdom to the next generation can we make them go further and more steadily on the road of life.
Therefore, let us go hand in hand, on this journey of education, to give children more love, understanding and support, education is inseparable from the company of parents, but also inseparable from that deep and great love.
One final word
In this world full of uncertainties and challenges, everyone is looking for their own love and belonging.
For Li He, he may have grown up in an environment without father's love, but he won his own sky with his tenacity and hard work.
For Li Shuangjiang, he is also constantly learning and growing, and has learned how to be a better father.
Text/Editor: Zhao Cai Xiaofen
Information source: Nanhai Net: Beijing Times, 2011.Li Shuangjiang's 15-year-old son drove a BMW and hit people, shouting who dares to hit 110 (picture)