Li Tianyi was imprisoned for 10 years, the eldest son has a successful career, and the gap between Li Shuangjiang and his ex-wife's baby is too big

November 27, 2013 is a day that singers Li Shuangjiang and Mengge will never forget.

On this day, the First People's Court of Beijing Municipality publicly pronounced the verdict: the first-instance judgment of the Haidian District People's Court was upheld. Their only son, 17-year-old Li Tianyi, was sentenced to 10 years in prison for rape.

Li Shuangjiang, who was 74 years old at the time, was a Chinese tenor singer, vocal educator, and a national first-class actor. The old artist, known as "Virtue and Art Shuangxin", turned out to be one of the "Four Famous Fathers" in China because of his son's late birthday.

In fact, looking back at Li Tianyi's growth path, it is not difficult to see that he is arbitrary and has no one in sight, and Li Shuangjiang and Mengge are hard to blame.

After the incident, Li Shuangjiang's family received great attention, and his last marriage was also pulled out.

His ex-wife Ding Ying is a dancer, and the eldest son, Li He, also has a successful career. But the two barely made an appearance on public platforms.

Li He, who is also Li Shuangjiang's child, is obscure and has hardly been paid attention to by Li Shuangjiang, and dumped the "prodigy" Li Tian for hundreds of streets.

The same father, a different mother, has raised two very different children.

In the matter of raising children, Ding Ying, Li Shuangjiang, and Mengge made a judgment from a high level.

01.

Li Shuangjiang is a "phoenix flying out of the chicken nest".

He was born in 1939 in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, when Harbin was a "city at night."

Li Shuangjiang's parents have given birth to 13 children, and the family is overstretched, if nothing else, just eating is several bowls more than other families.

In that era, filling the stomach was the right thing to do, but Li Shuangjiang had an "unorthodox" hobby: singing.

When Li Shuangjiang came into contact with singing, he was about seven or eight years old, when there was an army stationed near his home, and the uncle of the army taught him a song called "Song of The Sheep Mountain.".

He sang well at a young age and was taken to the studio to record the sound. It can be said that Li Shuangjiang at that time was also born as a "child star".

According to the policy at that time, students who studied well in middle school could be guaranteed to be sent to the university, and Li Shuangjiang was insured to the medical department of the medical school.

After studying for less than half a year, the Ministry of Higher Education issued a notice: Fresh high school students or first-year university students with cultural and sports expertise can be admitted to the Central Conservatory of Music or the Beijing Sports Academy.

This news made Li Shuangjiang's heart flutter, but his father resolutely opposed it.

Dad was very satisfied with Li Shuangjiang's admission to medical school, and he said to Li Shuangjiang: "It is good to study medicine." Our family is not rich, there are many old people and children, and in the future, there will be a disease and a disaster, and we will not ask for people. ”

He also said to Li Shuangjiang: "You want to learn music, I will break your leg!" ”

But Li Shuangjiang's mother is his biggest supporter of learning music.

In order for her children to learn music, mothers and fathers quarreled many times. She said to her husband, "You don't have to do this all the time, you dead brain!" What does the son like, with this skill, you let him do something, why force him? ”

Father couldn't listen to these words at all, or the same sentence: Learn music, I will break your leg.

For this reason, Li Shuangjiang and his mother shed a lot of tears together.

One is a dream, the other is his father's opposition, Li Shuangjiang was still a teenager at that time, and he did not have the courage and ability to resist his father.

But his mother said to him, "Don't listen to him, we just study hard and practice well." ”

Li Shuangjiang quietly signed up, and his mother specially made a Lenin suit for him.

During the examination, with the accompaniment of pianist Liu Shikun, Li Shuangjiang performed particularly well, and Yu Yixuan, a professor at the Central Conservatory of Music, was particularly impressed by him. The teacher who interviewed made a decision at that time and set Li Shuangjiang.

When he left home, Li Shuangjiang did not even have a decent quilt for the bed, and his mother cut a quilt for his own, grandparents, grandparents, brothers, and sisters, and made a small quilt for Li Shuangjiang.

Before leaving, his mother also gave him the 5 yuan he had saved up hard. At that time, the 5 dollars were mom's living expenses for many months.

Fortunately, Li Shuangjiang received a state bursary of 13 yuan, which allowed him to continue his studies from a poor family.

Therefore, Li Shuangjiang has always said that it is the people who have cultivated themselves.

In 1963, after graduation, Li Shuangjiang was assigned to distant Xinjiang.

At that time, Xinjiang was far from being as fertile as it is now, and there is a saying that describes it: there are no birds in the sky, no grass on the ground, the wind blows stones to run, oxygen is not enough, and cotton jackets are worn in all seasons.

As a high-achieving student who graduated from a central music cadet, Li Shuangjiang spent 5 of his 10 years in Xinjiang in the barracks.

He himself once recalled that once when he was too hungry to stand guard, he went to the kitchen of the cooking class to dig up a few pieces of lard to eat, and was discovered by the company commander.

The company commander hugged him and apologized: "You are a college student, I did not take good care of you." ”

It was also in Xinjiang that he met his first wife, Ding Ying.

When he was young, Li Shuangjiang was tall and handsome, and he had a good voice, just looking at his appearance, which was what many girls would like.

But Li Shuangjiang's family background is complicated, a large family of brothers and sisters, his monthly salary is sent home more, leaving less in his own hands.

Ding Ying is two years older than Li Shuangjiang and is also in the Cultural and Labor Corps of the Xinjiang Military Region. She is not outstanding in appearance and has average business ability, but she is kind and very gentle.

Two young men of marriageable age, brokered by an intermediary, came together and became a family after a simple wedding.

Perhaps, at that time, Li Shuangjiang did not have much yearning for "love", because in his heart, engaging in career was the most important thing.

Li Shuangjiang has strong business ability, and when he first took the Central Conservatory of Music, he got a blue eye from the teacher. The famous female singer Jiang Ying was his teacher.

Let Li Shuangjiang stay in Xinjiang for the rest of his life, he is not willing.

Therefore, after marriage, Li Shuangjiang has also been running around and devoting himself to his work with full affection.

This also means that he and Ding Yingju are less and more, in the family, Li Shuangjiang has hardly fulfilled his responsibilities as a husband, and Ding Ying is almost alone to support this family.

In 1968, Ding Ying gave birth to a son Li He.

The husband is not at home, the in-laws are thousands of miles away, Ding Ying can only resign, and he is taking the child himself.

The combination of Li Shuangjiang and Ding Ying did not have much feelings to speak of, and the long-term separation also caused the two to have no small differences and estrangement.

1969 was the year of Li Shuangjiang's "transshipment".

Prince Sihanouk of Myanmar visited Xinjiang, and Li Shuangjiang sang 3 songs in succession, leaving a deep impression on Prince Sihanouk.

After returning to Beijing, Prince Sihanouk repeatedly praised Li Shuangjiang's performance to Premier Zhou, and his name finally spread back to Beijing from the far northwest.

In 1973, Li Shuangjiang was transferred from Xinjiang back to the Beijing General Political Affairs Song and Dance Troupe and became a soloist.

That year, the red movie "Shining Red Star" was filmed, and Li Shuangjiang sang the theme song "Red Star Shines on Me to Fight".

This song is not easy to come by, it is a temporary addition of the song, the director on the spot to find Li Shuangjiang.

Li Shuangjiang's singing is high-pitched and bright, and his feelings are abundant. After the release of "Shining Red Star", "Red Star Illuminates Me to Fight" has also become a popular song.

At the time, it also set a staggering 3.5 million copies of the single.

Li Shuangjiang became famous in one fell swoop.

After that, he opened his golden age, sang several golden songs, and also received the title of "King of Songs".

In 1981, Li Shuangjiang gave a solo concert in Beijing.

When Li Shuangjiang's career was going well, his marriage to Ding Ying lit up with a red light.

After gaining a foothold in Beijing, Ding Ying was also taken to Beijing by Li Shuangjiang. Originally, I thought that after the separation, the relationship between the two could be stabilized a little, and Li Shuangjiang could also give the child a little attention.

But the intersection of Li Shuangjiang and Li He may only be the living expenses called every month.

Li He once told his classmates that his father was Li Shuangjiang, and the songs his classmates sang were sung by his father. However, he was ridiculed by his classmates, thinking that he was bragging.

Because Li Shuangjiang never went to school to pick up Li He.

The father's love that he lacked when he was a teenager became a gap in the hearts of Li Shuangjiang and his son.

After Li Shuangjiang's father had died, the filial Piety Li Shuangjiang took his mother to Beijing. Ding Ying not only had to take care of her son, but also her elderly mother-in-law.

Ding Ying and her mother-in-law got along very well, and Li Shuangjiang's mother was also very satisfied with Ding Ying. The old man's life experience allowed her to quickly discover the faltering feelings between her son and daughter-in-law.

She also tried to advise her son to treat her daughter-in-law well and maintain the family.

This time, the filial piety of Li Shuangjiang did not listen to his mother's words.

The maintenance of a relationship is far from enough to rely on one person, but it will breed resentment.

Ding Ying did not warm Li Shuangjiang's heart, and in the mid-80s, they finally ended the marriage relationship, and the son Li He was sentenced to be raised by his mother Ding Ying.

Ding Ying did not say bad things about Li Shuangjiang because of the divorce, but let his son remember gratitude, remember that his father provided him with a good material life, and remember his grandmother's love for him.

It is precisely because of a mother like Ding Ying that Li He grew up to be an upright and kind person in the absence of his father.

He is low-key and calm, and has never appeared in public as "Li Shuangjiang's son", nor has he used this identity to obtain a little dividend.

After Li Tianyi's accident, Li Shuangjiang fell ill, and Li He did not care about his previous suspicions and took care of Li Shuangjiang's bedside without leaving.

02.

After divorcing Ding Ying, Li Shuangjiang did not stop moving forward.

In 1987, he sang "I Love Five Finger Mountain, I Love Wanquan River" on CCTV Spring Festival Gala. In 1988, he sang the song "Chinese Dragon" again at the Spring Festival Gala.

This year, there was also a newcomer to the CCTV Spring Festival Gala, although she only participated in the song singing, but this was the first time she appeared on the Spring Festival Gala in the 4 years since her debut.

Her name is Mengge, and her original name is Liu Qingdi. Inspired by his mother since childhood, Dream Pigeon began singing at the age of 4 and performed on stage at the age of 8.

In 1984, Mengge went to Beijing to study, and a few years later met Li Shuangjiang.

The first time they met, Mengge left a deep impression on Li Shuangjiang, and many years later, he can still recall that when he first met Mengge, Mengge was wearing a red down jacket with a high ponytail, which was very beautiful.

The dream pigeon sings well, really as smart and sweet as a pigeon. Li Shuangjiang was very satisfied with this female student, not only introduced her to participate in the youth song competition, but also introduced her to participate in the CCTV Spring Festival Gala performance.

In 1989, Dream Pigeon sang "Happiness Song" on stage at the Spring Festival Gala.

The relationship between Li Shuangjiang and Mengge gradually ceased to be just a teacher-student relationship. Li Shuangjiang also developed a different kind of affection for Mengge.

But the 27-year-old age difference hindered the footsteps of the two, you know, the dream pigeon is only two years older than Li He.

In 1989, Li Shuangjiang and Mengge went to Qingdao together to serve as a judge for a competition, and when climbing Laoshan Mountain after the race, Li Shuangjiang suddenly shouted at the blue sky: "God testify, I want to marry Mengge!" ”

Dream Pigeon only thought he was particularly cute, but did not say yes.

Until later, they traveled to Jiuzhaigou together, but unfortunately encountered mudslides. Li Shuangjiang held Mengge's hand tightly and did not let go for a moment.

After experiencing life and death, the two really determined the relationship.

In 1990, 51-year-old Li Shuangjiang and 24-year-old Mengge were happily married.

After two miscarriages, the 30-year-old Dream Pigeon finally gave birth to a son, Li Tianyi, in 1996. This year, Li Shuangjiang was 57 years old.

After Li Tianyi was born, he stayed in the incubator for 3 days, which made Li Shuangjiang feel even more distressed.

In the year of the Mandate of Heaven, Li Shuangjiang treated Li Tianyi with fear of flying in the palm of his hand, and he was afraid of melting in his mouth. The requirements for treating his son were fully satisfied, and at the age of 60, he still knelt on the ground to ride his son as a horse.

Dream Pigeon is also very attentive to the child's education, and the child begins prenatal education when he is in the stomach.

When Li Tianyi was 4 years old, Li Shuangjiang asked professor Han Jianming, a famous pianist, to teach him to play the piano. This year, Li Tianyi also became the image ambassador of China's early childhood Olympic bid.

At the age of 8, Li Tianyi studied calligraphy with Professor Fang Zhiwen of Tsinghua University.

At the age of 10, Li Tianyi joined the Chinese ice hockey team and participated in many children's ice hockey competitions at home and abroad.

To his son, Li Shuangjiang is full of pride, hate can not tell the world, his child is a prodigy.

When the family participated in the interview program, Dream Pigeon talked about his parenting experience. The two hosts are also very face-saving, constantly praising their husband and wife for their good godson.

But the way Li Shuangjiang educates his children is to "spoil."

He once said that he was reluctant to beat the child, and before he could beat him, his tears fell first. Just scare it, you can't get your hands on it at all.

He also took the initiative to explain for the child: "You can't ask the child to be good, don't offend the child, the child is to have a personality and edges, you can't ask him to obey." ”

At this time, Li Tianyi's stubbornness and willfulness had already been revealed.

Participating in the program, Li Shuangjiang stood and sat with him, properly "the stars arching the moon".

Li Shuangjiang said he stood out from 500 students, and he immediately interrupted his father: It was 1,000.

Li Tianyi was accidentally interrupted by the host when he was speaking, and Li Shuangjiang immediately stopped the host from speaking and let Li Tianyi finish speaking first.

He also said with a spoiled face that he could not offend his son.

I don't know how the audience watching the show and the hosts present feel, but now it seems that Li Shuangjiang has treated Li Tianyi to the point of being humble.

This also sowed a seed for Li Tian to make a heinous mistake one day later.

In 2011, 15-year-old Li Tianyi drove a luxury car without a license and beat a couple.

At that time, Li Tianyi had no fear and shouted, "Who dares to hit 110?" ”

This year, Li Shuangjiang was 72 years old, and after receiving the news, he immediately rushed to the hospital to visit the injured, and said bitterly: I would rather you beat me back with a stick.

At this time, Li Shuangjiang did not have a singer's shelf, and shook the hand of the injured person and kept apologizing: "I'm sorry, let you suffer!" I didn't discipline the children well, I have a responsibility, I am willing to take all the responsibility and compensate for all the losses. ”

This time, Li Shuangjiang was the bottom of his son's pocket and did not let his son reform.

In February 2013, he was once again in a catastrophe – taking turns with four friends to forcibly have sex with a girl.

The incident was exposed, and the whole network was in an uproar.

74-year-old Li Shuangjiang was hit by this, seriously ill and bedridden, the eldest son Li He drove to pick him up, taking care of everything.

The wife Dream Pigeon trusts contacts and looks for relationships, hoping to find a "way of life" for her son.

She published a "confession letter" written by Li Tianyi to herself, hoping to prove to the public that the child had been reformed.

Seeing that it was not effective, she wanted to pour dirty water on the victim, she said: "My son already has sexual ability, in the face of a flower-like girl, to let my son who is in adolescence and has experienced this aspect, completely disregard the temptation, this is impossible, and it is inhuman." ”

In order to excuse her son, Mengge ignored the pain of the same woman, and this move also made her and Li Shuangjiang's reputation plummet, triggering the anger of netizens.

The godson has no way to go first, and the exonerating of the child is in the back.

Even if the dream pigeon has the ability to reach the heavens, it will not be able to make up for the disaster of the son who broke the heavens.

Li Tianyi has been in prison for 9 years. Li Shuangjiang, 83 years old, has not yet retired and often takes on some commercial performances.

Some people feel sorry that the hall artists do not sing in the concert hall, but "sell their art" on the simple stage.

Some people also feel that Li Shuangjiang does not retire because he wants to wait until his son is released from prison and then do his part for his son.

Although it is "the heart of poor parents in the world", Li Shuangjiang and Mengge and his wife's wrong education methods have made Li Tianyi young and imprisoned.

I don't know if the disaster of these 10 years of imprisonment can wash away the sins on Li Tianyi's body and make him a man again.