Li Shuangjiang is a famous Tenor singer in China and a vocal educator.
His second wife, Mengge, is a member of the Chinese Musicians Association and holds a master's degree in ethnic vocal music.
In 1990, the 24-year-old Mengge chose to marry Li Shuangjiang, who was 27 years older than him, despite his father's kneeling to stop him.
Five years later, the two sons were born and named Li Tianyi.
Perhaps since then, Li Tianyi has been destined to be as "rebellious" as his mother Mengge.
Both Li Shuangjiang and Mengge have high hopes for this hard-won child, hoping that he can inherit the mantle of his parents.
No matter what the son's requirements are, the two couples will do their best to meet them.
But this excessive "pampering" not only ruined the child's life, but also ruined the second half of the couple's life...
One
Liu Qingdi, now Mengge, was born in Shashi, Jingzhou, Hubei Province.
Dream Pigeon was born in an ordinary family, although the living conditions are difficult, but Dream Pigeon's mother has always loved to sing.
Dream Pigeon inherited her mother's singing talent very well, and her mother felt that she finally had the opportunity to inherit and carry forward her interest.
Therefore, Dream Pigeon has been educated and educated by his mother's art since he was a child, and has always maintained a love for singing.
When he grew up, dream pigeons also expressed great gratitude to their mothers for raising them from an early age, and if there was no enlightenment and teaching from their original mothers, there would be no later singing artist Dream Pigeons.
Mengge performed on stage when she was 8 years old, and she also vaguely looked like a big star when she stood on the stage.
But it seems to be a dream pigeon with a promising future, and in the following years, it has not had the opportunity to perform on stage.
Until 1979, the 13-year-old Dream Pigeon signed up for the recruitment of the Shashi Song and Dance Troupe and was admitted to become a member of the Shashi Song and Dance Troupe.
After hearing this news, Mengge's parents were very excited.
Dream Pigeon finally embarked on the road of singing, and her mother's cultivation for so many years was not in vain.
Life after entering the song and dance troupe was not as good as Dream Pigeon thought.
The few people who entered the Shashi Song and Dance Troupe were actually not organized, but just contract workers.
For this reason, the dream pigeon was troubled for a long time, and he also shook the idea of insisting on singing in his heart.
Fortunately, Mengge met wu Guosong, a famous singer at that time, and changed her life.
Wu Guosong felt that Mengge was a good seedling, so he invited her to Beijing to study and wanted to cultivate her seriously.
At this time, Dream Pigeon was only 18 years old, and it was also very difficult to leave his hometown and go to a strange city away from his parents.
After much deliberation, Mengge finally decided to go to Beijing for the sake of his dream.
Mengge came to Beijing alone and had to live in a remote suburban bungalow.
Fortunately, Dream Pigeon is not a pampered little girl, and the conditions of cold winter and hot summer have also been overcome with gritted teeth.
Because there is no income, Dream Pigeon's living expenses are sent to her by her parents and sister.
Dream Pigeon knew that he could only study harder and learn something to repay his family's efforts.
Two
In 1984, Mengge successfully became the apprentice of Jin Tielin and Zou Wenqin.
In the same year, Dream Pigeon entered the Conservatory of Music to study drama and released his first single "I Am the Pigeon of Your Dreams".
At this time, dream pigeon was officially debuted, but this song did not make any waves at that time.
Dream Pigeon is not only very talented in singing, but also very hard in studying and likes to study.
Such students are naturally very popular with teachers, and the teachers of the Conservatory of Music praise the professional level of Mengge.
Among these teachers was Li Shuangjiang.
At this time, Li Shuangjiang was already a very famous singer, and was transferred to Beijing as a soloist in the General Political Affairs Cultural and Labor Troupe, and also served as a teacher at the Conservatory of Music.
Dream Pigeon, who has loved singing since childhood, has naturally heard of Li Shuangjiang's famous name and admired this singer very much.
On a perfectly normal day in 1988, Li Shuangjiang took an open class at the academy.
Mengge specially got up early to occupy the seat, looking at Li Shuangjiang, who was talking on the podium, she secretly thought that she must ask the teacher for advice after class.
After the class, the dream pigeon quickly ran to Li Shuangjiang, and after Li Shuangjiang agreed, he sang a short section on the spot.
Li Shuangjiang was also slightly shocked by the song of the dream pigeon:
"You sing so well, why don't you have the courage to sing?"
Li Shuangjiang immediately decided to teach Dream Pigeon to sing.
Of course, this is what Dream Pigeon dreamed of, and she excitedly said that she must study it seriously.
Li Shuangjiang also took good care of this "proud protégé", not only often privately guiding some professional issues, but also recommending Dream Pigeon to participate in the competition many times.
Over time, the relationship between the two slowly became ambiguous.
Three
Whether it is study or life, Li Shuangjiang takes good care of dream pigeons.
The dream pigeon, which has been wandering outside for many years, feels the warmth of this long absence, and some inexplicable feelings slowly breed in his heart.
Mengge began to open her heart to Li Shuangjiang, and wanted to share things with him, big and small.
Li Shuangjiang's feelings for Mengge are also increasing, and they are no longer limited to mutual appreciation between teachers and students.
Mengge and Li Shuangjiang are both in love with each other, and regardless of the age difference and the identity of teachers and students, they have become lovers.
After graduation, Mengge took her boyfriend back to her hometown in Hubei to meet her parents.
Knowing that their daughter has a boyfriend and plans to get married, Dream Pigeon's parents are happy.
But after seeing Mengge's boyfriend Li Shuangjiang, his parents couldn't believe it.
Repeatedly confirmed to Dream Pigeon that this old man who was the same age as his father was a boyfriend?
Dream Pigeon nodded affirmatively and said: This is the man I want to marry.
I believe that all parents will not accept a "son-in-law" who is a full 27 years older than their daughter.
Dream Pigeon's parents are also extremely opposed to this relationship, and constantly persuade Dream Pigeon to break up with him.
However, Mengge had already made up her mind to marry Li Shuangjiang, and her parents did everything to dissuade her.
In desperation, Mengge's father could only go to the place where his daughter worked, and even rushed to his knees, asking the leader to intervene to stop the relationship.
But he was told that "there is no way, the relationship between the two is already very deep."
The father had no choice but to compromise and agreed to let Mengge marry Li Shuangjiang.
In 1990, Mengge and Li Shuangjiang held a wedding.
At the wedding, the faces of Dream Pigeon's parents were not very good, but fortunately, after marriage, Li Shuangjiang also spoiled Dream Pigeon as always.
Mengge's parents also slowly accepted the son-in-law of the same age as them.
Four
Although Mengge insisted on marrying Li Shuangjiang despite her parents' objections, she always hoped to be blessed by her parents in her heart.
After marriage, seeing her parents' attitude towards Li Shuangjiang slowly change, Mengge was also grateful for her parents' understanding and acceptance.
She was even more determined to break out of the world and repay her parents.
Mengge has repeatedly appeared on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala with Li Shuangjiang, and has also entered the General Political Affairs Song and Dance Troupe through his own efforts.
Careers have progressed by leaps and bounds, and the fame of the two couples has also become higher and higher.
At this time, Mengge suddenly proposed to give Birth to Li Shuangjiang.
Mengge knew that Li Shuangjiang and his ex-wife had a son, and now the child was raised by his ex-wife.
Mengge's idea at this time is also very simple, to have a child that belongs to himself and Li Shuangjiang, and then to cultivate him well.
Not only can it make up for the gap in Li Shuangjiang's heart, but also let his parents get more comfort in the next generation.
Fortunately, in 1995, Dream Pigeon got his wish and gave birth to a son.
At this time, Mengge was 29 years old, and Li Shuangjiang was already 56 years old.
Li Shuangjiang, who was old and had a son, valued this son very much and named him Li Tianyi, which means the unique proud son of heaven.
Li Tianyi was born prematurely, so after birth, the two couples took extra careful care of their son.
Li Tianyi began to receive artistic training from an early age.
Li Shuangjiang sent his son to an aristocratic school, hoping that he would receive the best education.
Li Tianyi began to learn piano at the age of 4, began practicing calligraphy at the age of 8, and was sent to learn ice hockey at the age of 10.
When Li Shuangjiang was 15 years old, he held a concert for his son to let everyone see Li Tianyi's musical talent.
With such good genes as Dream Pigeon and Li Shuangjiang, he also received a high-quality education in the process of growing up.
Li Tianyi's life should be bright, even if he can't stand on a high place and shine, at least he should be famous.
But Li Tianyi's "fame" does not come from his talent.
Five
Although Li Shuangjiang has always given Li Tianyi the best external education, he is lacking in family education.
At home, Li Shuangjiang always did his best to meet all the requirements of his son.
Even after Li Tianyi made a mistake, Li Shuangjiang was reluctant to scold, but only said
"He's just a kid, and no kid can make a mistake."
This is simply the mantra of all the parents of bear children today.
Growing up under such a family education, Li Tianyi's personality will only be more bearish than that of a bear child.
After Li Tianyi grew up a little, he had no heart to study at all, and often caused trouble in school, becoming the kind of student who gave the teacher a headache.
And every time Li Tianyi got into trouble, Li Shuangjiang felt that it was no big deal, and he let things pass with some money and some relationships.
Dream Pigeon also turns a blind eye to these things and will not interfere more.
Over time, Li Tianyi became more and more blind, and often made some excessive demands.
In 2011, Li Tianyi suddenly said that he wanted to buy a luxury car and drive out to play.
Even though he knew that Li Tianyi was not yet an adult, Li Shuangjiang still promised his son and taught him how to drive.
Li Tianyi drove out alone to find friends to play, and beat a couple who were driving seriously on the way home at night.
Li Tianyi was sentenced to detention for intentionally injuring people and for driving unlicensed minors.
Even if Mengge and Li Shuangjiang looked around for a relationship, they could not save their son.
Fortunately, Li Tianyi was a minor, so he only locked up for a year before he came out.
I thought that after this incident, the family would be able to learn a lesson.
But Mengge and Li Shuangjiang still did not change the way they educated Li Tianyi.
In fact, at this time, even if he no longer spoiled Li Shuangjiang, his indispensable personality would be difficult to change.
Six
When Li Tianyi was 17 years old, he had another accident.
This time, Li Tianyi committed a very serious crime, even if he was a minor, he was sentenced to 10 years.
At this time, Li Shuangjiang was 74 years old, and it is said that he was gassed into the hospital after the accident, and he did not speak out again after that.
At this time, Mengge resolutely stood up and defended Li Tianyi in public, completely disregarding his celebrity status.
Li Tianyi made an unforgivable mistake, and Mengge also asked the best lawyer to defend him, saying that Li Tianyi was a simple and kind child and would definitely not do such a thing.
As a mother, there is nothing wrong with doing everything possible to protect her son.
But this obvious act of shielding of the dream pigeon has caused public dissatisfaction.
Other people's children also have mothers, and Dream Pigeon shields her son like this, so how should the victim's mother feel?
If Li Tianyi is not wrong, then who should the victim seek justice from? Should the victims have to endure all this in vain?
Netizens began to question and criticize Mengge's disregardless behavior.
Li Tianyi's guilt could not be completely washed away.
In the end, Dream Pigeon could only give up the struggle and accept this unchangeable fact.
Mengge originally wanted to give birth to a son, nothing more than for Li Shuangjiang and his parents.
But I didn't expect that this deformed love that he and Li Shuangjiang gave to his son ruined his son's life.
Now Dream Pigeon has basically withdrawn from the singing world, and in various activities, You can still see Li Shuangjiang's figure.
After so many years, the impact of Li Tianyi's affair on Mengge and Li Shuangjiang has gradually decreased.
In the following days, the couple should be more likely to wait for their son to come home.
I hope that Li Tianyi can change after he comes out and be reborn in the fire!