"Post-90s" actresses suddenly officially announced the birth of a child, and live broadcast the production process, mothers: women are too difficult
The greatest noun in the world is "Mommy"
Please love your mom, be kind to her, and cherish every day she is by your side
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Speaking of female star Sun Iridium, many people's impression of her is still stuck in "White Deer Plain"
The pure and lively girl Bai Ling
However, just a few days ago, this "post-90s" female star suddenly announced that she was a mother!
Subsequently, she boldly disclosed her entire production process
It has attracted widespread attention online and resonates with many moms
And learned the truth behind it
Seeing the hardships and twists and turns that Sun Iridium experienced before giving birth as a mother
as well as accidents and hazards in production
We also understand the main reason why she is afraid, joyful, and decided to share
Nothing else, just because she's a great "mom"
Let's take a look at Sun Iridium's experience
I hope to inspire all families, especially children and dads!
01
For the mother is just
There is an old Chinese saying called "Mother is Gang"
People who haven't experienced it really can't empathize, so we often hear some people in life
I always like to stand and talk without waist pain, and say something cool
"Isn't it just to have a child, don't women all have children?"
"It's just so hard to have a baby?"
The truth is that it is difficult, and many times mothers are hovering on the edge of life and death
And Sun Iridium is one of them
On January 7, 2022, this night, Sun Iridium, who had a big belly, suddenly felt that he was going to give birth
So her husband immediately drove her to the hospital
The lively and cute female star in the picture also pretends to be relaxed, and the tone is full of expectation and joy
Although her heart was already very scared and nervous
Even when he mentioned that he had told his grandmother, he had obviously shed tears
But she was also worried that her performance would distract her husband who was driving, so she kept putting up with it
Depressed
And Sun Iridium's performance at this time has also aroused the empathy of many female netizens
They left messages one after another, saying that they had similar experiences when they were producing
Some even left messages
"Seeing you cry like this, I remember my own nervousness and fear that day, and I cry now."
"It's too real to see crying"
In this way, Sun Iridium followed her husband to the hospital while broadcasting live
After entering the hospital, she was in constant pain, already drenched in sweat, and the pain on her face was obvious
But she still braced herself and kept smiling in the video
She waited wholeheartedly for her child to come into this world safely
Endured the heart-rending pain of contractions again and again
Then the induction injection, continue to endure the contractions, helplessly waiting for delivery on the delivery bed, to meet the delivery
Everything seems to be going smoothly
However, the day did not go according to people's wishes, after a long period of torture and waiting
What Sun Iridium was waiting for was his own postpartum hemorrhage
And her child was also notified of her critical illness
Video shooting is then interrupted
02
The deepest concern
Sun Iridium, who could not leave the country, remained awake at this time
The voice of her monologue in the video is even clearer in the ear, poking the hearts of countless netizens
She said she had run out of strength and just wanted to sleep now
But the doctor kept calling out to her, Sun Iridium, Sun Iridium, don't sleep now
She said she suddenly remembered a lot of people, her own family, her husband, and all the people who cared about her
But she was most worried about her own child, she hadn't seen him yet, she hadn't hugged him, she hadn't kissed him
Most importantly, the child is in danger now, and she must be well enough to protect him
So she told herself to hold on, to be strong, to be sober
Even in the moment when his life was in danger, in the heart of "Mother"
The most worrying thing is the safety of their children
Also as a mother, Sun Iridium's every word seemed to be spoken in my heart
Yeah, life is really tiring sometimes
Moms also have times when they are tired, when they are afraid, when they want to give up
But when I think of my own children, I still grit my teeth and persevere
Fight again, for the sake of the kids
And Sun Iridium, who chose to be strong, finally survived the danger
A few days later, she and her child Doumiao were safely discharged from the hospital, and happiness and happiness were waiting for them
03
The bravest decision
For female celebrities, image is very important
Most female celebrities do not like to show their awkward appearance to the public
Not to mention making public the whole process of your own production
In fact, even ordinary mothers are not willing to make such a moment public
And Sun Iridium did
She was generous and did not hide anything
She shares the joy of love, the happiness of marriage, and also the excitement of pregnancy and the caution after pregnancy
Finally, she also shared the whole process of giving birth to her child
Is this a good decision? I don't know, but it must have been the bravest decision ever made
It was this decision of hers that made countless mothers known
It is her decision that has also made countless mothers bravely say their nervousness and fear, and their hearts are aggrieved
At this time, she was no longer a woman with a full aura
Just an ordinary mother who loves her son deeply
And in the world, the most touching thing is that I understand what you have experienced
Because I've experienced it too
04
David and Jonathan's Friendship
Some people say: Every mother and son are friends of life and death
Indeed, production is a process between life and death, during which danger and terror are no less than an explosion, an earthquake, and a tsunami
All surviving mothers are "lucky ones" chosen by fate
There are many mothers in the documentary "Shengmen"
In the process of production, they can be said to be nine deaths
Among them, 33-year-old Xia Jinju was bleeding heavily after childbirth in order to fight for 3 births, and her heart stopped beating twice
And such stories, in obstetrics, are played out almost every day
Pain has also been graded, with the pain of childbirth directly belonging to the twelfth grade
However, for a woman, to be a mother
It is not only the dangers and torments of the production process that have been experienced, but also the countless sacrifices and pains before and after childbirth
Some mothers vomited throughout their pregnancy and could only be hospitalized for infusions
Some mothers may even experience shortness of breath, difficulty breathing, and prenatal haemorrhage
There are also some mothers who may have been safe all the way
But they seem to have suddenly become old, and their bodies have suffered from various diseases
Some people even turned white overnight
And after having a child, the problems are also endless
Some mothers have since suffered from unspeakable gynecological diseases
Hemorrhoids, leakage of urine is not uncommon
Diseases such as low back pain, back pain, eye pain and so on are not uncommon
People always say that a child is a piece of meat that falls from a mother's body
But it's that simple
The real truth is that having a child will almost cost a woman half a life
The various mental injuries that mothers encounter during pregnancy and childbirth are equally unattractive
There are husbands who cheat, there are in-laws who are abusive, and there are people who fall into depression themselves
No wonder some people say
"To destroy a woman, all you need to do is marry her home." And if you want to destroy her completely, give her another child."
We have to admit that Mom is undoubtedly the greatest and most selfless in the world
If you are a dad, please love your wife
If you are a child, please be kind to your mother
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