Money is not a panacea, but for everyone, no money is impossible.
Food, clothing, shelter, food, and drink, and without money, it will not work.
However, not everyone can have enough money to live, and a day without money is indeed an ordeal. So for many people, working hard to make money and living a thrifty life is a norm.
But it is not easy to make money, and it is also a science to spend money, otherwise even if you are given a mountain of gold, you may sit on the mountain and eat the air.
As the saying goes, look at a person's pattern from the perspective of spending money.
People who can spend money know that good steel is used on the blade of the knife, the province of the province, even if the province should not be saved, even if it is poor, it will not be saved.
People with patterns understand that in this life, no matter how poor people are, they cannot save these four kinds of money, and the more they save, the more sad they are.
01 Money for educating children
I heard a story that a reporter came to a rural village and saw a doll herding sheep. So he asked, "Why herd the sheep?" The doll replied, "Save money and grow up to marry your daughter-in-law." ”
The reporter asked again: "What did you do when you married your daughter-in-law?" Answer: "Baby." Then he asked, "What are you going to let baby do in the future?" Answer: "Herding sheep." ”
Even if the story has been laughed at, it brings us a lot of thought. If a person is unwilling to invest in educating their children, they may be poor in a cyclical cycle for generations to come.
Teachers in school often say that if you don't study hard, no one will want you to farm. In the future, sheep herding may use satellite positioning, and there is no need for you to run all over the mountain.
No matter how poor they are, they cannot be poor in education, and far-sighted parents will not cut off their children's path to education because they do not have money on hand.
The money used for children's learning may not see any results in a short period of time, but it will certainly lay a good foundation for his life path.
02 Boost your own money
My life also has an end, and knowledge has no end. Learning is endless, in order to find its own place in society.
In this era of fierce competition, at any time, there must be a sense of knowledge crisis.
When you are eliminated by the times, no one will notify you in advance.
Often, some people, once they leave the campus, are no longer willing to touch the learning things, and they feel headaches when they think about it. However, science and technology are changing with each passing day, and it is difficult to stand in an invincible position without continuous learning.
Today you are in a high position, he will be taken over by the latecomers, and at that time, one is too old, the learning ability is poor, and the other is not easy to find a job again.
And you are middle-aged, there are old and young, it is the most stressful time in life, and you need to spend money everywhere. Living without money will make you feel miserable every day.
Poor think about change, where does change come from? It is only through study, precautions, continuous efforts, and enriching one's brain that it is possible to keep up with the pace of the times and get rid of the status quo of poverty.
03 Honor your parents' money
In this life, the most important thing people should be thankful for is to give birth to their parents.
In this world, the only people who can be good to you for no reason are your parents. They expend all their energy and effort to raise you as an adult and see you live your own life.
You are happy, they laugh with you; you are unhappy, they cry for you behind your back, trying to help you.
No matter where you go, even if there are thousands of mountains and rivers, their hearts are always connected to you.
However, when you grow up, your parents are old. Once the father of the mountain, the back is bent and hunched, the mother's dark hair is gray, and you have become their biggest reliance.
When you see when your parents start to look at your face, it means that they are old, and it is time for you to reciprocate.
Parents are getting older, their bodies are no longer healthy, their ears are back, and their eyes are spent, but they are afraid that their children will dislike their uselessness.
Accompany your parents more and take them to the hospital regularly for physical examinations to ensure that physical diseases are found in time.
Give them glasses and hearing aids, and don't let them feel eliminated and abandoned.
When you have time, visit them more, eat, wear, and use them, and prepare them when they are inconvenient to move, so as not to let their lives be too good.
After a lifetime of hard work, I have worked hard for my children, and in my old age, I have honored my parents well.
Don't be reluctant to spend money and cause a lifetime of regrets. After all, parents grow old day by day, and when the son wants to raise and the relatives are not there, what is the use of regret.
And a person who is unwilling to honor his parents is doomed to succeed in his lifetime.
04 Money spent on health
It is said that the body is the capital of the revolution.
Having a good body makes it possible to achieve a lot of things. If you are sick all day long, even if you have a deposit in your hand, you will eventually be tortured.
Develop a good habit of exercising, regularly do physical examinations for the body, treat the disease in time, and do not drag the small illness into a major illness.
The neighbor's aunt was reluctant to spend money on medical treatment after getting sick, and the result became more and more serious, and finally she did not survive the past life.
In fact, her attending doctor said that after discovering the condition, timely surgery and then chemotherapy, according to the usual practice, basically will not affect the normal work.
Look at those in the hospital who are tormented by diseases but try to live, the hope of life, just gave up, in fact, it is not worth the loss. As soon as the man left, there was nothing left, including hope, let alone money.
What is the pursuit of people in this life?
In fact, if you think about it, it is nothing more than living and working in peace and contentment, family harmony, and health and smoothness.
How can these goals be achieved? It's really not that complicated.
To make money is to live a better life. After all, the taste of lack of money is really torturous.
But without money, we should also understand that not all money should be saved, and not all money can be saved.
Learning to spend money is true wisdom. The money that should be spent must be spent where it is spent.
Only in this way can you go farther and farther on the road of life, and go more and more smoothly.
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