"Young people don't lie flat". Who would have thought that this was what Fan Zhongyan, the author of "Yueyang Louji", said? His original words were, "Why is youth bitter and sick, and doesn't it mean to take birth?" ", from a family admonition he gave to Fan's children. Family training, family style, family history, these Chinese sages wisdom spring wind and rain, moisturizing things silent, passed down to this day, nourishing the present, but also become the "hidden main line" of this season's Baishi Mountain "Sven Jiangnan".
Fan Zhongyan's family training collection
"Unspoken Rules of the Workplace"
Fan Zhongyan's tutor was very successful, several sons had a good official reputation, and the second son, Fan Chunren, also became a famous minister.
In the latest broadcast of "Suzhou Caixue" in "Sven Jiangnan", Fan Zhongyan confessed many family rules to the younger generations, and the actor Li Guangfu performed the famous article "Telling the Sons and Nephews" for us, which is very contemporary and still applies today.
"He advised the younger generation not to 'lie flat.'" Li Guangfu said that Fan Zhongyan also talked about many "unspoken rules in the workplace", such as "don't talk about it outside, read more books, enrich yourself more, and be self-reliant." Those who are officials must be honest and just. Get along with colleagues, discuss things more, and 'don't make private profits'. ”
I didn't expect the ancient people's concept of education
So "ahead of its time"
Nowadays, the post-80s and post-90s have become the main force of Bao Dad and Bao Mom, and various educational concepts are like a number of family treasures, and "chicken babies" have become a common phenomenon. In fact, behavioral education and spiritual education are equally important. China's sages have long explained and thoroughly explained this truth.
"Sven Jiangnan" cultural guest Yu Dan extended from Fan Zhongyan's family training to the ancient godson "Seven No Responsibilities"——
The first "diet is not responsible", blame the child when eating, it is easy to cause the child's spleen and stomach weakness;
The second "twilight does not blame", do not blame the child before going to bed at night, otherwise he will not sleep at night, or nightmares;
The third "no responsibility to the public", in public, you have to give dignity to the child;
Fourth, "rejoicing without blame", if the child is suddenly blamed when he is happy, the meridians will immediately hold back, which is very harmful to the body;
Fifth, "sorrow does not blame", when the child cries, do not blame him;
Sixth, "remorse and no responsibility", if the child has already felt ashamed and regretted his own mistakes, do not blame him;
Seventh, "Do not blame the disease", do not blame the child when he is sick. Illness is the most vulnerable time for the human body, and children need the love and warmth of their parents more, which is more effective than any drug.
"Children can be educated, but give them dignity." Yu Dan further interpreted, "Behavior education is the best enlightenment education, give children less empty words, more from the behavior pattern to take him, if the teenager is natural, habits become natural." ”
From Wang Xizhi, the "sage of books" in Wei and Jin, Fan Zhongyan, the first minister of the Northern Song Dynasty, to Wang Yangming, the "master of the collection of mind studies" in the Ming Dynasty, and Lu Xun, the founder of modern literature... The family style is like a living river, flowing with family history and thousands of years of cultural context.
"The foundation of the world is at home", family training, family style, family history, has never been limited to a small family.
Only when "thousands of families have a good family style and children have a good education" can the entire social atmosphere have a good foundation; only if every family has a good family style can thousands of families "become an important base point for national development, national progress, and social harmony."
Xiang Yang, chief planner of "Sven Jiangnan", said that Chinese writing can achieve a gap across thousands of years, and so can thought and wisdom. When we read together, listen to the rural sounds of literature together, listen to the chinese context that has been vivid through ancient and modern thoughts.