Some people say that most only children don't know how to share, and if this is the case, it is not the fault of only children, because no one shares with them. But with XiaoBao, everything will change a lot.
When there is a baby in the family, his consciousness is particularly strong, everything is "mine", and occasionally says to him: "Do you like little brothers and little sisters?" In the future, if you have a little brother and little sister, you will love him! Some babies will say they like it and are happy to accept that there are new members of the family, while others will have a strong uneasiness and "protest".
Psychologically disturbed and not very welcoming to the baby of younger siblings, when there is a small treasure in the family, he will definitely have a "psychological adjustment period". Therefore, before preparing to ask Xiaobao, you must communicate with him like an adult, tell him that Xiaobao can share happiness with him, and as an older brother and sister, you must love him and take care of him like your parents.
If you have confirmed pregnancy, pregnant mother can tell Dabao, the mother now has a small treasure in the belly, in 9 months he will look very healthy, come to our happy home, you are now the little brother (little sister), now the mother also needs your care, you have to be obedient, accompany the mother, see the mother's belly change day by day, is it good?
As a mother, during the period of conceiving Xiaobao, she let Dabao participate, took him to listen to Xiaobao's fetal heart, felt Xiaobao's fetal movement, and let him also look forward to the arrival of Xiaobao. Show him your ultrasound, tell him the results of the examination, and let him know that Xiaobao is very healthy.
After Xiaobao is born, we must pay as much attention to Dabao as possible, especially at the beginning stage, and do not ignore Dabao's feelings. Let Dabao also talk to Xiaobao with you every day, let him tell Xiaobao stories and listen to them, and make simple games.
"I hope that both Dabao and Xiaobao will like each other."
Perfect father-to-be training camp: there will be a second baby soon, pregnant mothers are very hard now, you have to take more children, let him go to the supermarket with you, buy things for your mother. At night, you come to tell stories to pregnant mothers, big treasures, and little treasures, and coax them to sleep. This kind of prenatal education and early education are done together, how perfect.
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