A body injured, a debt, half a life, still alive, hidden in the heart of exhaustion and grievances, but still continue to please life, this is our life, human nature.
Know how to be silent and learn to move forward alone
The world is not too impetuous, we must learn to be silent, know how to be silent, and leave ourselves a chance to breathe. It is said that loneliness is a person's carnival, and we never want a person to be isolated by the world, because you have seen this society very thoroughly, and the ordinary is an antidote to you. Just like we are now, QQ does not ring, the game is tired of playing, WeChat messages ring and do not rush to see, go out to play and do not know where to go, every day open short videos to watch other people's stories, the corners of the mouth rise, as if that is once their own, so real, so worth recalling. In fact, we have been learning to be silent, and we have been moving toward silence, we have been adapting to silence, the jackal will always report to the group, tabby will always go alone, why should we care whether others are excellent or not.
Learn to persevere, talk less, do more
How others treat me is my cause and effect, and how I treat others is my practice. A few days ago there was a high school classmate with me to complain, I and colleagues casually chatted about wanting to go back to their hometown, at night there were leaders who asked themselves whether they wanted to leave their jobs, less than half a day of kung fu, a sentence was passed into two meanings, others are pleasing to the leader, you are because of more mouths and people have been caught in the loophole, so ah, we have to talk less in work and life. As a person, there should be achievements that do not have to be in me, success must have my responsibility and responsibility, you participate in it do not care about the results, because you have worked hard, no one will say that you are not motivated, as long as you are doing there will always be results, do not be afraid to do useless work, as long as you pay, there will be returns.
When I was in high school, I studied a little poorly with a good buddy, it was the bottom of the class, maybe I went home and saw the expectant eyes of my parents, I woke up, I swore I wanted to go to college, I studied day by day, little by little progress, and my good buddies also laughed at me at that time, a countdown so hard, what is the significance, and finally I was admitted to a fairly ok university, somehow, I and my high school buddies are like strangers, so far there is no connection, but I think I did the right thing.
Restrain your desires and learn to let go
All your stress is because you want it too much, all your pain is because you are too real, and sometimes you have difficulties, not to say how difficult it is, but to kindly remind you that it is time to turn. No one in this world can be satisfied, because desire also grows up with your ability, post-70s parents they want to eat and wear warm, but with the development of society, they also want to have a car, small high-rise; when we were young, we thought about having a toy, and when we grew up, we no longer liked toys, but wanted to get other things, other things, more things, this is a variable, always changing, there is no end. We must know how to choose, learn to give up, I cherish him what I have, I do not force him if I do not have.
We care too much, the more constraints, the greater the pressure, the more difficult life, learn to look down on human feelings, learn to understand the warmth of human feelings, life is actually very long, but also very short, relieved, it is not so tired.
Life, take your time, you are not bad.