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Jiang Xun once said: "There are only two kinds of relationships between people and people, one is birth and separation, and the other is death. ”
Even the people closest to you, they can only accompany you on a journey.
No one can accompany you all the way, so "loneliness" has become a norm in life.
How to cope with loneliness is a compulsory course for us.
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Loneliness is the best precipitation in life
When Mr. Zhou Guoping first arrived in Beijing, he lived in the basement.
There are no relatives around, no friends, only a lonely self and cold walls.
Yet it was in this humble basement that he wrote his first essay.
Later, no matter where Mr. Zhou Guoping went, he could not forget the time when he lived in the basement.
He said, "It was a fulfilling joy. ”
Being alone is the most test of the thickness of a person's life.
The still water flows deeper, and the deeper the river, the more peaceful and calm it appears.
A shallow person cannot enjoy loneliness.
They like to join in the fun, and only when they are busy, they don't have to think about themselves.
Being able to enjoy loneliness is itself a sign of a great soul.
When Wang Yangming was relegated to the Dragon Field, he was still studying the Four Books and Five Classics.
When he became enlightened, he even confined himself to a sarcophagus, isolated from the world.
When the great scholar Su Shi was demoted to Huangzhou, he also wrote the Yi Chuan quietly alone in the Zen Temple.
For those who are rich in their hearts, loneliness is a banquet that must be attended.
They will be dressed up and will reap their glory.
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Loneliness is rediscovery
Talk to others when you are busy, and talk to yourself when you are lonely.
Only when we are alone can we truly meet ourselves.
There was a passage on the Internet:
After work, the young man sits in the car and smokes a cigarette.
Quietly enjoy your own happy time.
Be able to fade the cloak of career and family, and carefully observe your own state of mind.
In fact, everyone's heart is extremely easy to be obscured by external objects and begin to lose themselves.
Wang Yangming has a unique sutra of meditation: contemplation, introspection and restraint.
It means to let one's mind enter a state of emptiness, so that one's conscience will naturally emerge.
"Concentrate on meditation, reflect and exercise restraint", we know where our original intention is, why we start.
Loneliness is a journey of discovery, discovering your heart and discovering your true self.
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Loneliness is a kind of grinding
People who can't keep loneliness can't keep prosperity.
An old gentleman once instructed his disciples:
"You just need to calm down and study the knowledge, what does it matter if you have the title of professor or not?" If your kung fu arrives, even if you don't have a title, you will be respected; but if your kung fu is insufficient, then adding a title will be even more despised by others. ”
This is "if you want to wear the crown, you will bear its weight"!
If you want to get something, you must work hard to earn it little by little, and you must not be opportunistic.
In today's day and age, there are too many temptations that make people want to "get rich overnight."
There are many people who are clever, and very few are willing to collapse their hearts to do things.
People who take advantage of the scenery all the way are lively everywhere; people who do things are obscure, alone and lonely.
Loneliness is a kind of grind that can test a person's heart and character.
Wang Yangming's "determination to become holy" is a secret, and under the opposition of his father, he buried this goal in his heart.
After thirty years, he finally accumulated and became a generation of saints.
Zhuangzi said: "The husband is quiet and lonely, and he who does nothing is the origin of all things." ”
Loneliness is the root of all things, in loneliness, in order to better understand themselves, precipitate themselves, become themselves.
People who can withstand loneliness and can focus on their ideals will not give up halfway, and they will not complain about others.
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