Marriage is a bowl of beef noodles. The few slices of beef floating on it are just to make the oligarch swallow.
- "Wang Gui and Anna"
No matter how passionate love is, it is difficult to resist the erosion of chai rice oil and salt. Some people say, don't marry the person you love the most, because the best love only exists in the memory, once married, the shortcomings of both parties will be exposed, and love will no longer be beautiful.
Stills from the TV series "Wang Gui and Anna"
Married female classmates around, surrounded by children's and farts, where there is still energy to think about romance and love, if the man next to the pillow can take care of the baby, it is already difficult for people to call it directly.
There are also more realistic people who say that marriage is to find someone to live together, and those who wait for love are naïve and ridiculous. Sometimes the right thing is more important. Two people with the right door and a matching personality, even if there is no love, can live a stable life together, depending on whether this stability is what you are pursuing.
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In the TV series "Wang Gui and Anna", Wang Gui and Anna are a match in the eyes of relatives and friends, Wang Gui was born in the countryside, but the work is stable and decent; Anna is beautiful and loves literature and art, but the family composition is not good, and it is not high or low to find a partner.
Anna can't look at Wang Gui, who looks black and eats, Wang Gui actually can't accept the "Anna" of the big miss pie, Anna went to the matchmaker to say that the two were inappropriate, but was misinterpreted by the matchmaker, and thought that Anna liked Wang Gui very much, so the two yin and yang were wrong and came together.
When the two first got married, there were many different living habits, and there was no less quarrel and awkwardness, but fortunately, Wang Gui and Anna were both people with open personalities, communicating when there was a problem, and they didn't care much about how much they paid in marriage.
Wang Gui and Anna's small family, under the hard work of the two, the days are getting better and better, not only the children are complete, the economic level is increasing day by day, more importantly, this couple who have no love has realized the old age.
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But such a marriage, in addition to a stable home, has brought Anna earth-shaking changes.
Before marriage, Anna, who liked foreign literature, wanted to go to college, wanted romantic love, had cleanliness, some mannerisms and willfulness; such Anna was immature, flawed, but frank and cute, with her own unique temperament.
After marriage, Anna had to give up those illusory things, once clean, she learned to step on pickles with her feet, accepted the untrimmed relatives of the rural in-laws, lost the opportunity to re-enter the university in order to have a second child, circled around her husband and children every day, and even when she quarreled with Wang Gui, she didn't even have a place to go when she left the house.
Even if she saw Wang Gui and her female colleagues holding hands, Anna did not make a big fuss, she accepted all this calmly, and did not even have the courage to mention divorce.
Everyone has a beautiful dream when they are young, many people fall down in the middle, and only persistent people can succeed! The road to success is full of floating corpses, and you and the like are stepping on my corpse!
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Marriage without love is always a pity for Anna, so when her first love boyfriend Liu Bo returned, her heart was shaken.
Liu Persian is handsome, highly educated, and Anna is a young lover, the two once met together to enter the university, Liu Bo can give Anna, not only has material security, but also spiritual resonance.
Liu Bo proposed to take Anna abroad, and he was willing to accept Anna's two children, but Anna still could not make up her mind to divorce, and finally could only watch Liu Bo disappear from her sight.
Anna often has a sense of guilt recently, in front of Wang Gui is also very gentle, afraid of her own little secrets will be penetrated, there have been several nights, Wang Gui made a peaceful snoring sound around her, and she held hands with Liu Bo in her dreams, Anna's imagination can only extend to holding hands, and after that, she will dream that she is a mother, and the two children are walking in front.
Annas who watch their love gradually "die" but dare not divorce, they may only dare to have "non-divisional thoughts" about other men for a short time, but the responsibilities of the family will eventually "trap" them.
Anna said she couldn't get out of the circle in the neighborhood anymore, and when she quarreled with her husband, she had to walk to the door because she was afraid that the children would be left unattended.
As said in the play "Wang Gui and Anna": "Marriage is actually a shackle, willing or unwilling, once it is put on, it will take the initiative to disarm and give up freedom because of the existing commitments, and even the final private area such as the dream is also monitored by invisible fences." ”