Speaking of Liu Xiaoqing, her legendary life is talked about, and a woman who lives to the extreme is probably like her.
She has a tenacious vitality that transcends gender, and many women worship her.
On January 22, Liu Xiaoqing and her husband Wang Xiaoyu appeared in the same frame.
In the photo, Liu Xiaoqing looks much younger than her husband and is expensive.
It is said that she is not simple, has 5 relationships and 4 marriages in her life, and can still marry a rich man at the age of 61.
Although life is stable now, Liu Xiaoqing's life, whether it is career or feelings, is full of twists and turns.
The first marriage was with Wang Li, a violinist in the opera troupe of the General Political Department of the People's Liberation Army, who liked Liu Xiaoqing very much.
There are rumors that Liu Xiaoqing and Wang Li obtained the certificate for the Purpose of The Beijing Hukou.
After getting married, Liu Xiaoqing filmed a drama and left Wang Liju less.
In the fourth year of marriage to Wang Li, Liu Xiaoqing filmed "The Depths of the Soul" and director Chen Guojun had a mutual affection.
At that time, both were married, and Liu Xiaoqing turned around and divorced Wang Li.
But Liu Guojun's wife did not agree, so she risked the name of Xiao San and lived with Liu Guojun for 3 years.
Three years later, Chen Guojun's wife had no choice but to let go, and Liu Xiaoqingcai and Chen Guojun got married as they wished.
Being with Chen Guojun is the peak of Liu Xiaoqing's career.
At that time, she shot films such as "Furong Town" and "Look at that Family", and won the award, and it became Liu Xiaoqing's era at that time.
But the good times did not last long, and her relationship with Liu Guojun did not last long, and this man's domestic violence broke out.
However, Liu Guojun also said that because Jiang Wen intervened, he later wrote a book "The Story That Liu Xiaoqing and I Have to Tell" to accuse Liu Xiaoqing of what he did, and for a time she was infamous.
After divorcing Liu Guojun, she and Jiang Wen could not come together.
Perhaps frustrated in the love field, the battlefield is proud, Liu Xiaoqing began to go to the sea to do business, involving various fields, film and television, advertising, food, cosmetics and so on.
Mixed up, it also entered the Forbes rich list.
Later, a "Wu Zetian" made her famous, and Liu Xiaoqing was proud of the spring breeze during this time.
However, life is often not all the way high-pitched, in 2002, Liu Xiaoqing was reported to have evaded taxes and slipped to the bottom.
Not only was the business that had been operated for many years emptied, but it was also in debt and imprisoned.
But such an experience did not stop her admirers from pursuing her.
Two months after being released from prison in 2003, she got married again, this time by an actress, Ah Feng.
No one knows about this person, and the public is curious about how to fall in love in prison.
Maybe it was just to wait for her to get out of prison, a momentary touch!
This Ah Feng graduated from junior high school and divorced his original partner in order to be with Liu Xiaoqing.
There is nothing to do in the career, it seems that Liu Xiaoqing can not control Liu Xiaoqing, and he divorced again in just 3 years.
Later, she met the rich Wang Xiaoyu at the age of 61, which was the fourth marriage.
Wang Xiaoyu has long admired her, and although his children have always opposed her, he has always insisted on marrying Liu Xiaoqing.
After getting married, he also transferred the houses in Hong Kong and the United States to her.
Wang Xiaoyu said: "Xiaoqing has experienced so many hardships and setbacks in this life, but when you look at her, she is so transparent from the inside out.
No complaining, no self-pity, living so actively and happily, this is not something that ordinary people can do, and it is worth my admiration and waiting. ”
Liu Xiaoqing can still get the favor of men in her later years, not by appearance, but by her accumulated wisdom and personality charm.
In her, there are very valuable qualities as a person.
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The spirit of not fearing difficulties
Liu Xiaoqing grew up without a father, his childhood was not happy, and he was raised by his mother alone.
Therefore, when I was a child, I was particularly independent, could endure hardships, and always loved art very much.
He first studied music and enrolled in the Affiliated High School of Sichuan Conservatory of Music at the age of 11.
After graduation, he did not engage in related work, but was assigned to the countryside as a young man.
However, she did not give up her pursuit of art, and later was attracted by performance, and in order to get ahead, she resolutely left Sichuan to go to Beijing.
At the age of 21, he was selected as an actor by Bayi Studio to shoot his first film" "The Great Wall of the South China Sea".
When starring in this movie, she put a lot of energy into figuring out the role, going to the beach to experience the life of fishermen, and polishing her acting skills.
Striving to put every movement and eye look in place, he constantly communicates with the fishermen in the village and strives to restore the character characteristics.
When she was in prison, she was also different from others, with regular work and rest, exercise, and a lot of reading.
She felt that as long as she didn't die, there would always be a comeback.
After being released from prison, she continued to shoot with her remaining connections, accepting lines no matter how big or small the characters were.
The seriousness and indifference in her bones have run through her life.
Later, watching her rise up and see her collapse, her attitude towards life has always been admirable.
That is, this woman can toss and turn, and is still very optimistic, which is rare.
A person has a strong vitality, no matter how big the blow, it is okay for her, this is the charm.
Such a person, no matter what the environment, can attract others.
With such qualities, it is often possible to gain the respect and favor of others.
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Bold and righteous
Liu Xiaoqing is a strong woman, but she also has male boldness and righteousness.
After she was released from prison, many friends tried to help her, but she refused, believing that she could start all over again on her own.
Jiang Wen had a movie role at the time and wanted her to star, but she refused when she saw that it was inappropriate, although she knew that Jiang Wen wanted to help herself.
At the beginning, Jiang Wen had not yet become famous, and without Liu Xiaoqing's help, he would not have been able to achieve later achievements.
Liu Xiaoqing and Jiang Wen first met because of filming, Jiang Wen was the director, filming "Sunny Day".
Due to lack of funds, she went around pulling sponsorships and fully supporting him.
Later, Jiang Wen won the Golden Horse Best Director Award for this film.
When asked in an interview many years later why she funded Jiang Wen, she said she just thought Jiang Wen was a genius.
Their transformation from lovers to handout friends is also enviable.
We all know that after Liu Xiaoqing was imprisoned, it was Jiang Wen who went around and asked a lawyer to bail her out, which was an uncommon friendship.
Later, an interview also confirmed Liu Xiaoqing's wisdom in life.
The reporter asked: "I think your emotional intelligence and IQ are of course high."
I heard that you and your former boyfriend, sir, are said to be good friends now, how did you do it? ”
Liu Xiaoqing: "Unfortunately, everyone has a very beautiful moment together, and I am proud that they all love me very much."
In addition to Jiang Wen, there is also chen Guojun, the ex-husband who was full of storms in the city, and finally reconciled with a hug in the show, and the two people also have their own lives.
Chen Guojun also said in an interview that Liu Xiaoqing is a remarkable woman, emotional entanglement is one thing, and appreciating Liu Xiaoqing is another thing.
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Women with ego abundance are more likely to be loved
After experiencing many ups and downs, he is still calm, calm, never complains, and does not have the common female victim thinking.
She armed herself with knowledge and enriched herself with experience.
In old age, attracting others is no longer by skin, but by having a free and powerful heart.
Would she worry about which man would dump her?
It seems that in several relationships, she said goodbye to each other first.
In her experience, she also did not accuse men as a victim woman, so it can be seen that she has a strong control over her own life.
The reason why Liu Xiaoqing's life presents a strong state is because she is self-disciplined and has requirements for herself.
This point is indeed worth pondering for women, because when we face the scum and persecution of men, we will only feel that our lives are full of passivity and helplessness.
But it is inseparable from a man, a relationship.
But this situation is the opposite in Liu Xiaoqing, she has always been dumping men, in other words, it is a "scumbag".
However, I think it is her energy that is too strong for the average man to control at all.
She is not a woman who passively waits for love, can't get up when she is hurt, delays her career, and is decadent.
So even if she is not born very well, she has become a relatively self-complete woman by relying on self-strength, continuous learning and improvement.
It is precisely because of this that she has the confidence to say that her predecessors love her more.
People with vitality always live a wonderful life, only around their own lives, rather than following others, such a woman is destined to be followed.
So sometimes it's really not the environment that blames the environment, but whether a woman has the courage to dare to leave the other party.
As soon as the kernel is weak, it becomes the humble one, only the part that is abandoned.
Liu Xiaoqing's life has been admired and appreciated by many women, and she has lived a state that most women cannot reach.
I also think that no matter what encounters and experiences in this life, it is just a growth ladder, and the most important thing is how we face the dilemma with what attitude.
First live out a paradigm like a "person", be able to be self-responsible, and then talk about responsibility.
Do not passively wait for redemption and being loved, such a life is not too bad.
Author | Fei Yu A person who likes to explore himself, with growth as the goal, experience as the road, sincerity as the heart, and live a life of maximum freedom.