【Kowloon Cup】Flowers all the way

According to the Qujing Intermediate People's Court:

Home is the harbor, home is the destination, maintaining the stability and harmony of the family is the responsibility of every family member.

There is such a family of six: two sons grow up healthy and happy, in-laws help take care of the housework, and the husband and wife are diligent in their respective jobs. They are the most ordinary households in the world, interpreting the most true happiness and enjoying the most comfortable life with their diligence, simplicity, tolerance and love. They worked together to create a harmonious family with heart, affection and love.

Cherish tolerance and make progress together

Eight years of marriage, from acquaintance to acquaintance, from understanding and understanding is a beautiful and difficult process. From the beginning of the glue-like lacquer to the later chai rice oil and salt, I don't know how many ups and downs have been experienced in the middle. Fortunately, they have not abandoned, cherished and tolerated, so that the relationship can be maintained and continued, and gradually embarked on the road of happiness. After eight years of marriage, having two sons, after the birth of the child, they really realized the responsibility of parenthood, although they had in-laws to help take care of the children, but they did everything themselves. When giving birth to the second treasure, the wife because of the postoperative bleeding caused by poor health, especially easy to get tired, that time the husband as long as at home, housework is basically all inclusive, before going to bed to help Dabao wash, in the morning to the second treasure to dress, brew milk powder, wait for Dabao to get up. The arrival of The Second Treasure not only did not affect their marital feelings, but made them more understanding and tolerance.

In addition to taking care of each other and trusting each other in life, husband and wife also understand and support each other in their work. The nature of their work is very different, he works as a doctor, she is a judge, he is good at logical thinking, she is good at language. It seems that there is no intersection, but in fact, they all use their professional knowledge, prescribe the right medicine, and do practical things for the masses.

2021 has a special meaning for this family. One day in mid-May, the husband returned home from work as usual, but what was different was that he told his parents and wife at the dinner table that because of the severe situation of epidemic prevention and control at the border, he would go to the border line to support the fight against the epidemic for two months and leave at the end of the month. On the morning of May 27, 300 militiamen, including their husbands, embarked on a journey to Xishuangbanna, and finally arrived at their destination after a long drive of two days and one night. During the two months at the border, through remote video, the family learned that they were guarding the deep mountains on the border line, and a tent and two chairs were a guard post; there, in addition to facing stowaways who might have the new crown virus, their enemies were poisonous snakes, poisonous frogs, poisonous insects, drug dealers, as well as yellow, gambling, poison, private, special (service), and AIDS (AIDS) that were often seen through reports; from the camp, it took 6 days to run through 23 sentry points. As early as the outbreak of the new crown epidemic in 2020, her husband, who was a doctor, did not think too much about it, and resolutely decided to sign the petition and sign up for the support team. As a party member, the wife fully supports her husband's cause, and when the husband is away to save lives and help the injured, he wholeheartedly takes care of the whole family.

After her husband returned from the border to support him in two months, he embarked on the road to study in Chongqing. His wife knows that as a doctor, only by constantly learning and constantly improving his medical skills can more sick people be free from disease. At this time, after a year of examination, examination, and interview, the wife became a judge as she wished, but with it came a change in job position. The family's large and small chores, the heavy responsibility of taking care of two young children, are all pressed on the two elderly people. They understand and support, and often say that for the sake of the national interests and the people, you only care about going to your respective careers, and the affairs in the family are assured that we are there.

Respect for the elderly, filial piety, family and beauty

After marriage, the husband and wife have been living with their in-laws and mother-in-law, getting along with the elderly, to understand their preferences, obey their wishes, and honor the elderly, not necessarily all reflected in the economy, usually have to be pleasant to them.

Every New Year's Festival, they will organize family gatherings, cooking, washing, stir-frying, washing dishes... The family is together and happy. In-laws, fathers-in-law and mother-in-law get along very harmoniously together, often listen to my wife said" my mother came to my house, the child wants to sleep I will take the child to sleep first, it is the mother-in-law to accompany my mother to chat and chat until very late", "My mother came to my house again today, and my mother-in-law and my mother-in-law went shopping together"...

Teach by example and attach importance to moral education

It is said that parents are a mirror of their children. In terms of educating their children, the couple pays special attention to their own words and deeds, and attaches great importance to the education of children's conduct. Since Dabao went to kindergarten, in order not to let the child be obsessed with electronic products, it was agreed that after arriving home, there would be no special circumstances not to look at the mobile phone in front of the child and accompany the child wholeheartedly. Both husband and wife are volunteers who create civilized cities across the country, paying special attention to the cultivation of children's civilized habits, and the garbage that children throw away will definitely let them pick up immediately and put them in the place where they should be put, demonstrate that children abide by traffic rules when they go out, be courteous to others, and wear helmets on electric vehicles.

The two-child family, they also try to deal with the contradiction between the two children, do not let Dabao have a sense of loss because of the arrival of his brother, and do a good job in the child's psychological education. Usually, he will also pay attention to improving Dabao's sense of responsibility, so that he can do some work that he can and have a sense of accomplishment, such as washing bottles for his brother and helping his brother find a piece of clothing. The younger brother now also knows that there are delicious foods to share with the older brother.

Helping others and harmony among neighbors

A family's harmony is not only to be good to one's own family, but also to deal with neighborhood relations. When the neighbors encounter difficulties, as long as they are free, everyone will help. For children, it is also to teach them to be friendly and neighborly, and every birthday or good food, they will let the children send something to the neighbor's children to share his happiness.

Some people say that sincere enthusiasm for people is the premise of neighborhood harmony, mutual understanding is the foundation of family harmony, and mutual respect and love are the source of family happiness. A happy, happy and harmonious family requires the joint efforts of every family member, and only when everyone's family is happy can our social family be happy for a long time.