Text/Zhang Xiaonuan
Although the Zhongqin Earl's Palace was just a lonely lord's family, HuaLan's marriage in the past also took a lot of effort, after all, Sheng Shao at that time was only a six-pin petty official, so Hualan's marriage belonged to the "climbing branches".
Marrying low and high, and then meeting an evil mother-in-law, Hua Lan's life is really like walking on thin ice.
There is no mother-in-law in the world who is not troublesome, but this matter depends on the husband. Your eldest brother-in-law did not understand it, and your eldest sister suffered a lot. Fortunately, Hua'er endured for many years, the water drops were worn, and your eldest brother-in-law gradually turned the corner, and now he is willing to help his daughter-in-law everywhere.
Hua Lan was married for 10 years, only in exchange for Yuan Wenshao and his own heart, during this period, he could rely on a "forbearance" word, he could come over, there was a foolish husband inside, there was a vicious mother-in-law outside, there was no calculation, how to live in this big mansion, and how to pull her husband's heart together.
Wooing husbands
Old Lady Sheng once said a little bit before Hualan left the cabinet: This woman must use her brain to live a life, and she cannot be bullied in a vague way, nor can she make a temper tantrum, put angry, and gamble with her heart.
The eldest lady had never learned this skill in her life, and Hua Lan was much stronger than her mother.
Yuan Wenshao's mother's heart has long been biased into the stomach, because the eldest son married his niece, he went everywhere to the eldest son's family, snubbing the second son Yuan Wenshao's family, not only that, she often remembered the dowry that HuaLan brought with her when she got married.
Within a few years of the new marriage, the silver in Hua Lan's dowry was rightfully collected by this evil mother-in-law. As the saying goes, eating people's mouths is soft, taking people's hands is short, since hualan's silver is used, it is more or less good for hualan, but this mother-in-law is not a normal person, using Hualan's silver money, but also everywhere to make it difficult for Hualan.
In fact, Hua Lan's mother-in-law, but looking at Hua Lan's mother's family is now on the slope, Hua Lan has been liked by her father-in-law, and now Yuan Wenshao has also begun to face Hua Lan, and her heart is unhappy.
As Keigo Higashino said, the greatest evil of human nature is that it is not good to see others.
At the beginning, in the face of her mother-in-law's difficulties, Hua Lan just blindly endured, thinking that some silver money on credit could keep herself and her children safe, but in the end, the silver credited a lot, but it did not come in exchange for a stable life, and the mother-in-law had to make inches.
Seeing that after looting Hua Lan's silver money, and the mother-in-law was worried about a good Zhuangzi of several hundred hectares in Hua Lan's dowry, Hua Lan thought to herself, since she could not seek a "full" word for grievances, she would start to fight back. After all, offense is the best defense.
Hua Lan reported this matter to his father-in-law, Old Uncle Yuan, a grand family with a lord, actually worried about the dowry of his daughter-in-law, and also spent a lot of dowry on his daughter-in-law, such a thing, if it is passed out, it is going to be laughed off by the dignitaries in the capital, in the eyes of Old Uncle Yuan, Lady Yuan's behavior is extremely dirty and insulting to the family, and then rewarded Lady Yuan with a slap, and reprimanded: Mother once said in front of the eldest sister and you and me, Yuan Clan can restore the knighthood is really not easy, there must be no flaws, if you are difficult to carve, if you are difficult to carve, Affecting the door of the house, you can leave the door as much as possible.
In the few days when her mother-in-law was punished, Hua Lan did not have the slightest color of joy, but instead acted extremely pitiful, wearing old clothes from several years ago.
When Yuan Wenshao looked at Hua Lan's old clothes now, and remembered the box full of new clothes and silk silk when Hua Lan first married, he felt a pang of guilt in his heart, and he knew in his heart that his mother had plundered Hua Lan's dowry, which caused Hua Lan's life to be stretched, and he was reluctant to buy even a new dress.
When Hua Lan sensed Yuan Wenshao's guilty look, he did not go forward to comfort or accuse, but instead cried out with rain: I just want to ask, when is this day a head? The silver I came with to marry has long gone, and the good materials and good objects in the box have also been looted by my mother, and now she wants to rob my Zhuangzi, what does she really want?
Looking at Yuan Wenshao's increasingly guilty look, Hua Lan simply hit the iron while it was hot and moved the child out.
Hua Lan cried: If I were the only one, I could live with you if I ate chaff vegetables, but the children were still young, what would they do? Last time my mother came to look at the old clothes on my body and became suspicious, I coaxed her to say that pregnant women wore old clothes comfortably, but the clothes on the child's body could not deceive people, and my mother sent two big red brocades back. The grandmother sent something to the grandfather and grandson, and said that if there were some side, it would not be a slap in the face of the Yuan family.
Speaking of the face of the Yuan family, Yuan Wenshao immediately became vigilant and hurriedly said: In the future, everything will follow your mother, and if she looks for you, you will tell me, and I will support you.
In fact, the most important thing for the noble family of the high-gate is the face, what is the infighting in the house, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, men will not pay too much attention to it, but once the matter involves the face and future of the family, they are like trained police dogs, and immediately play very spirited, after all, this is their core interest.
And Hua Lan, also a woman who grew up in the mansion, knows this well.
Under the good temptation of Hua Lan's affection and Xiao Zhiyi's reasoning, Yuan Wenshao finally began to demonstrate against her mother, and that night he stuffed her mother into the concubine room in his room and sold them all.
After the initial victory, Hua Lan was able to retake a city. What will be the result of fighting again?
Elbow mother-in-law
Hua Lan originally thought that the father-in-law's intimidation would allow the mother-in-law to settle down for some days, but who knows, it was not long before the mother-in-law began to pick quarrels and provoke trouble again.
Usually, there is nothing to find, but when Hua lan was pregnant, he deliberately teased Hua Lan. This time, Minglan stepped forward and gave Hualan a plan.
When Hua Lan was pregnant with her third child, her mother-in-law pretended to be ill and invited a Taoist priest, deliberately saying that only by raising Brother Shi in her own house could this disease be cured as soon as possible.
If Hua Lan and Yuan Wenshao do not obey, it is "no filial piety", and this crime is big. Moreover, Yuan Wenshao already had the "root of the disease" of foolish filial piety, and Hua Lan could not just watch his son being robbed by the evil mother-in-law.
Since the day Shi Ge left Hualan, Hualan could not eat and sleep well, afraid that his mother-in-law would abuse his son, and he would be awakened by nightmares when he slept at night.
Once, Hua Lan's mother-in-law left Shi Brother alone in the house, the child accidentally overturned the smoker, charcoal fire fell sporadically on Shi Brother's body, Sister Zhuang heard her brother's crying, and quickly turned the charcoal fire on her brother aside, and her hands were burned everywhere.
When Minglan learned of this, she hugged Sister Zhuang, and the tears fell down, saying: Good child, you can share your mother's worries, you can save your brother, you are a good daughter, a good sister, and the sixth aunt is very happy for you. Don't be afraid of bullying difficulties, you are the eldest daughter of the Yuan family, the eldest granddaughter of the Sheng family, see which dares to bully you!
After saying these words, Minglan decided that he would make decisions for HuaLan and his nieces, and he could no longer let their mothers and daughters be bullied by the evil mother-in-law.
Although Hua Lan is clever and clever, and he can speak clearly, although he also grew up in the courtyard of the mansion, in the end he is the eldest daughter of the Sheng family, who is honorable and decent, who is loved by an old lady, who is blessed by a big lady, and who has been fighting in the house, although he has seen a lot, but he has not personally experienced it, and if the theory has no practical support, it is out of touch with reality.
But Minglan is different, she has survived in the cracks since she was a child, and when she grows up, she has to fight with Mo Lan and even Lin QiGe from time to time, so the means of fighting in the house, Minglan has more or less actual combat experience.
Minglan leaned over to Hua Lan's ear and said: It's not without a method, but it's just a bit "dirty".
When Hua Lan heard that there was a way to cure her mother-in-law, her eyes lit up, and she grabbed Minglan and said: Speak quickly, speak quickly.
The trick that Minglan thought of was nothing more than "treating his body in the way of a man", since the mother-in-law can plug the concubine room in the son's house, then we will find an elder of the mother-in-law and send a concubine room to the father-in-law, and it is a beautiful concubine room, a concubine room that listens to Hualan's words, and a concubine room that can give birth.
Why can Minglan think of this?
First, Old Uncle Yuan could not have really retired Lady Yuan, after all, Lady Yuan gave birth to children to the Yuan family, there is merit, if hughed, the reputation of the Yuan family is good; Yuan Wenshao can not leave Hualan, after all, the current power of the Sheng family is also well-known, and Yuan Wenshao is also reluctant to Hualan.
That is to say, neither Hua Lan nor Lady Yuan will leave the Zhongqin Bo Mansion, or will continue to be a mother-in-law.
Second, since you still want to be a mother-in-law and don't want to be constrained by your mother-in-law, you should find a way to restrain your mother-in-law. Find a concubine room for the old uncle and let the mother-in-law turn her attention to her own man, who is naturally jealous.
Third, where there are men who do not covet beauty, the old uncle is no exception.
Listening to Minglan's "bad idea", Hua Lan thought about it again and again and felt that it was feasible. Under the guidance of Minglan, Hualan went to find the old lady of Shoushan, that is, Yuan Wenshao's aunt and the old uncle's sister, and Hualan told her aunt the ins and outs of the matter.
Old Lady Shoushan knew very well in her heart that this sister-in-law was not worthy of the position, and if she did not come forward to restrain this sister-in-law, her family would be ruined in the future. At the same time, she also knew that the Yuan family was currently only a motivated child, and in the future, she still had to rely on Yuan Wenshao to support the family, and there was a powerful mother's family, which was a patron for women, so the old lady of Shoushan bo agreed to Hualan's request without saying a word.
As the eldest sister, Lady Shoushan, on the grounds that Lady Yuan was too weak and sick to take care of her brother normally, justifiably gave the old uncle a beautiful concubine.
At this moment, Lady Yuan jumped to her feet in anger, and she no longer had time to pick up Hua Lan's affairs everywhere.
And this aunt Zhang was also carefully selected by Hua Lan and the old lady of Shoushan. The family is poor, but he has also read books, there is no bad thought, but there are also eyes and wrists, and it is more than enough to deal with the greedy and ignorant Lady Yuan. Most importantly, Aunt Zhang knew in her heart that Hua Lan was her backer, after all, the Yuan family would still have to rely on Yuan Wenshao in the future.
This is called multi-line injustice, but imagine, when you force a person to the edge of a cliff, will he jump? No, he will fight you to the death, and at that time, you will be in a greater danger of death.
Therefore, do not do everything, leave three points of leeway for others, and leave some residual virtue for yourself.
Husband and wife
Minglan once commented on Hua Lan's situation in marriage: A word of "forbearance" is very rare, and it is not easy for the eldest sister to be a strong person.
In the original work, Hua Lan endured for ten years before he could keep the clouds open and see the moon, and only then did he regain the same heart as his husband. But a woman's life, there are several decades.
Hua Lan finally waited for Yuan Wenshao's clear heart, and Yuan Wenshao decided to take Hua Lan and the children out to live, so as not to make Hua Lan suffer from this filthy atmosphere at home again.
Yuan Wenshao took a fancy to a Zhuangzi on the outskirts of Beijing, but he was still close to selling his beloved BMW. How much Yuan Wenshao loved his horse, the original book wrote:
He cherished it like life, and no one would let him touch it on weekdays, but this time he gritted his teeth and sold it.
Hua Lan looked in his eyes and was touched in his heart, it seems that Yuan Wenshao really figured it out, in this world, the only one who is really good to him and can accompany him to his old age is his wife Hua Lan.
In order to rush to his new life, Hua Lan also did not hesitate to exchange many of his gold and silver jewelry for silver money, and the two bought their own small homes on the outskirts of Beijing.
In the past, Hua Lan was not really unable to afford new clothes, no gold and silver jewelry to wear, but just to be wary of his mother-in-law, and then to play pitiful in front of her husband, after all, Yuan Wenshao at that time was still an overwhelmed "foolish filial piety man", Hua Lan had to plan more for himself and his children.
And now, Yuan Wenshao had already figured it out, and tied his heart to Hua Lan and the child, and only then did Hua Lan dare to take out his own gold and silver treasures to pay for the small family.
As the old lady said: But how about looking at the aunt? If your uncle is a heartless person, you will collect the money and take more care of yourself; if your uncle has a conscience and feels sorry for you, you will think about him and do not skimp on anything.
I sometimes wonder, is it worth it for a woman to use ten years to regain a true feeling?
Boating on Pinghu Lake is a ride, the horse green onion is also a ride, the heart is a love, and the love of whiteheads is also love. And this journey after journey of "love affair" is just a choice. Life is in the sea, life is decades, living according to their own wishes, only asking whether the place of return is warm, not asking how many bumps there are in the road.
Author: Zhang Xiaonuan, may you and I meet not too late in the warm and comfortable text, and grow together
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