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There is a kind of woman in life who likes to explain herself at every turn, likes to explain herself at every turn, and the responsibility that belongs to herself is shirked on others.
Such a woman, her life is not good, because she put all her expectations on others.
A woman who is really doing well never has time to explain herself, because she does not spend her time on understanding the outside world.
If a woman, always eager for the people around her, can understand herself, in the end she will only live as an ordinary person, hope.
Truly intelligent women will understand that the purpose of our whole life is to get rid of the expectations of others and live like we like.
The most important thing for a woman is to follow her heart and live a unique light of her own.
A woman, no matter how good and how hard she tries, will have her own opinions and opinions in the eyes of others.
If a woman marries a rich husband, others will feel that a woman's success and excellence stem from her husband's support, not her own efforts.
If the woman's family conditions are very good, her parents give the woman a lot of love and nourishment, the woman's future success, others feel that the woman's today depends on the family factor, not the woman's own persistence.
In a word, women's success and self-discipline depend on others, anyway, not themselves, in their eyes, women are ordinary should be, women are excellent is to borrow the power of the outside world.
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The more people around women, the more they are doomed to be difficult to reconcile.
When a woman always has to explain herself to others, she basically spends all her energy and time on explaining, not on improving herself.
You have to know that in this world, people with the same frequency as you, people with similar magnetic fields to you, and people with the same energy as you do not need you to explain yourself.
You share common values, and they are the part of the world that understands you best.
People who really love you will respect your uniqueness; people who really love you will respect that you are different from other people.
Truly intelligent women know that the only thing that can be changed is themselves; trying to change others is delusional and will only lead to conflict and unhappiness in the end.
Low-level women are willing to take the time to explain themselves, because she hopes to get the understanding of others, she hopes to get the sympathy of others, so that even if she achieves nothing in this life, no one will blame her, and she has found the best shield for her life.
This shield has become the best shield in her life, and she can attribute all the unsatisfactory, all the laziness, all the self-discipline in her life to this shield.
Women who are really doing well will not take any excuses, take any explanations, and make a cover for their own lives.
She will face her own life, she knows that as an adult, she must learn to take responsibility for her own life, no matter what happens, whether it is good or bad, choose to follow first, it is already the beginning of transformation.
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A woman who is really doing well also doesn't bother to explain herself because she speaks with her ability.
When a person doesn't understand you, when a person doesn't like you, when a person doesn't agree with you, no matter how much you explain, it feels like a heavy punch on the cotton.
In your life, you will meet all kinds of people, some people will be willing to be with you, some people like to deny you, hit you, criticize you, and all kinds of people you meet cannot be explained to all the people around you.
It is precisely because people are complex that you can't always think about other people's feelings and feelings, but you should spend more time and follow your own inner thoughts.
Being silent without explanation is the wisest choice for a wise woman.
Don't care about what other people say, don't care about other people's eyes, and don't let others steal your dreams.
When you live your favorite appearance, when you enjoy being busy in your own world, other people's every move, other people's words and deeds, will not affect you at all.
Don't waste time doing things that are laborious and unflattering, because it really doesn't work.
Don't do things that make others dismissive, because people who look down on you still look down on you.
Life belongs to you from beginning to end, in fact, it has nothing to do with anyone, whether it is your lover, your children, or your parents, they cannot determine your life, let alone determine your life.
Treat everyone around you sincerely, work well, do what you have at hand, and give help to the people who help you, and you have already repaired the blessings for yourself.
Anna Quindrana said: "A person who understands your tears is better than a group of people who understand your smile." ”
In your lifetime, you can meet a person who really understands you, and without you having to explain, he will already understand all the emotions contained in your heart.
In this life, people must be worthy of themselves, and they must let themselves live well.
No matter how much you want it, no matter how hard you try, what should be you is yours, and you who are not yours can never grasp it.
Don't hastily explain yourself to anyone, because no one is qualified to judge you, and when you keep bravely moving forward, you will live your own style, so women who never explain, often win in the end.
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