Everyone knows, "Marry a man who does not marry a phoenix man, and marry a wife without marrying a brother-in-law demon."
The classic sentence pattern of "Phoenix Man" is "I am such a mother".
The classic phrase "Fu Di Devil" is "I am such a disciple.".
In the final analysis, they are all inseparable feelings, and a mother and a brother are close relatives.
In real life, there are many people in the "Phoenix Man" and "Brother Fu Demon".
A generation of goddess Li Zi, 14-year-old Li Zi gave up her studies and began acting, earning money to support her brother's dream.
He gave up his studies for his brother, and then gave up his career for his brother.
Li Zi is also a typical "Brother Demon" sister.
After Mei Yanfang's death, her mother Qin Meijin once made a big fuss in the spirit hall, only because Mei Yanfang donated most of the money to charity.
He was sucked by his mother before he was born, and consumed by his mother after his death.
Mother Qin Meijin took out the underwear and underwear that Mei Yanfang wore before she died and auctioned it off.
She left her daughter with a shred of dignity, and all she cared about was whether the money had reached her pocket or not.
Flesh and blood affection was originally a priceless feeling in the world.
In Mei Yanfang's mother, it is so cheap.
Her mother just thought of her as a "cash cow."
Due to various reasons, the film and television dramas are also restoring the harm caused by the "Brother Fu Demon".
In the TV series "Ode to Joy", "Fan Shengmei", played by Jiang Xin, grew up in an unfortunate family, and her parents preferred sons to daughters.
I thought that I would be able to get rid of them by escaping to the big city and sending some living expenses to my family every month.
As a result, she also had to help her brother buy a house, marry a wife, and have children.
Knowing that it was a bottomless pit, he once again reached out to him for the so-called blood relationship.
In the TV series "An Jia", the "Fang Xiangjin" played by Sun Li was injured by the people in the family.
The same is born of a mother's womb, as a sister, often hear "Don't you just let you give your brother 100,000 yuan?" ”
They can turn their mothers into a full-fledged "vampire" only because they have a younger brother or older brother, making themselves "brother demons".
Actor Xu Ting's suffering was hundreds of times worse than theirs.
Before she died, her whole body was festering and she could not move.
With one of her confessional letters, the world was made aware of how miserable her life had been.
Raising 9 people at the age of 18, and dying of ulceration at the age of 26, is there a bottom line in the family of "helping brother demons"?
First, the talented Xu Ting did not get the attention of her parents, but became their "tool person".
Xu Ting was born in Anhui in 1990, and her parents were not happy about her birth, but were disappointed.
Because Xu Ting is already the third girl in the family, her parents want a boy in their hearts.
In the countryside, if there is no male doll, it is that the incense is broken.
Xu Ting's birth forced her parents to continue to have children.
It was not until the mother gave birth to six daughters, the seventh pregnancy, and the birth of a baby boy, that the parents stopped the "plan to create man".
From desperately giving birth to 7 children, it is a boy.
I know that the Xu family's idea of preferring sons to daughters is not ordinary.
As soon as this little brother was born, he became the "little old man" of the family.
The whole family will hold him in the palm of their hands and wait for him.
The whole Xu family went up and down, only Xu Ting, who was sandwiched in the middle, had no good life at all.
There is a big sister and a second sister who bully her, they have 3 younger sisters who need her care, and they also have to be the punching bag of the "little old man".
The Xu family's parents gave all their love to their only younger brother.
Xu Ting has been very sensible since childhood, and her personality is also independent, she knows that her parents love her brother, so she never complains that she is a girl.
Instead, she studied hard and went out of the countryside by reading, and she did not ask her parents to give her anything.
Although she had to do a lot of farm work every day, she still picked up lights and studied at night every day, and finally entered the Sichuan Media College with the first place in the professional results of Anhui Province.
When I got the acceptance letter, my parents took a look at it and said, "We don't have any money for you."
The parents did not say a word of praise, but slightly disgusted.
Xu Ting did not have the luxury of asking her parents to give her money to go to college, only wanted to be recognized.
After Xu Ting graduated, she went directly to the city, and her parents did not care, but let her send home the money from part-time work.
Xu Ting did a few jobs outside the home, and then gave half of the money to her parents, leaving half for tuition.
After going to college, she started part-time work in various stores almost every weekend.
Waiters, cleaners, even flyers, advertisements, as long as there is work, can make money, she will do.
All the free time is used to earn money, just enough to pay tuition and maintain food and clothing.
Xu Ting thought that as long as she stayed up for a few more years, she would graduate from college.
Sadly, her dreams were ruthlessly shattered by her mother.
When I was a junior in college, my mother called.
Her father failed in business and was in debt, so she quickly worked to earn money to pay off her debts.
Xu Ting was not willing to let her life stop like this, but she eventually lost to her mother.
Defeated by the man who gave her life.
Second, 18-year-old Xu Ting took over the burden on her parents' shoulders and drifted north alone.
Xu Ting took the money earned from her part-time job and took a train to Beijing to make a living.
At the poorest time, there was only 300 yuan left on his body.
She lived in the worst basement, damp, sweltering, and invisible.
Take a shallow nap and go looking for a job immediately.
In Beijing, where is her place of residence, where is her place?
At first, no one used Xu Ting to run the dragon suit.
Xu Ting squatted in the crew, as long as there was a lack of people in the play, she immediately went out.
In this way, staying in the crew every day gradually gained the approval of some directors.
Seeing that she was so serious, he began to give her some small roles.
Xu Ting's acting skills are very good, and good luck has also come towards her.
In 2010, Xu Ting learned of Lu Chuan's national casting event for Yu Ji in the film "The King's Feast".
This activity, there are not many restrictions, as long as you have acting skills, you can participate.
Xu Ting participated in the competition with the mentality of trying.
Unexpectedly, she relied on her superb acting skills to obtain good results in the top 20 in the Chengdu Division, and once crushed professional actors.
At the end of the year, she participated in the casting of director You Xiaogang's TV series "The Secret History of Xi Shi".
This time, she directly ranked in the top 30 in the country.
Such a good result, she has not shared.
Because Xu Ting is very clear that if she tells her family, they will only care about whether they have money and how much money they can get.
Since coming to Beijing, Xu Ting herself has eaten poorly, but she has to pay her parents every month.
She lived a hard life beyond the tolerance of ordinary people.
Filming in the cold water in the winter is a day.
Hanging Weia, one hanging is a day, the whole waist hurts.
Even so, most of the salary received was given to her parents, who were still dissatisfied, saying that she was incompetent.
Under the "coercion" of her parents for many years, she only felt that when she took all the money home, it was the happiest time.
Because, such Xu Ting is valuable at home.
Third, in order to earn money, day and night to take over the drama, acting, money earned, life is gone.
The long working hours of gaoqiang will be exhausted.
In 2011, Xu Ting participated in the beauty pageant of "Miss Oriental", and with her outstanding appearance, she won the national top eight.
As a result, she also gained a wave of fans.
Again, because her appearance is somewhat similar to Zhao Yazhi, she is called "Little Zhao Yazhi".
In 2012, Xu Ting ushered in a year of rising career.
The TV series began to throw an olive branch to her, directed by Dou Qi, starring Liu Wei, Yang Zi, Zhang Yishan, Wu Mian and other family emotional drama "Daddy Comes Home" TV series, Xu Ting played "Li Yao" is Yang Zi's girlfriend in the play.
Privately, Yang Zi and Xu Ting are also good friends.
Although she is a supporting role, she finally got a role that can appear in the TV series.
In 2013, he starred in "The Little God Is Coming" with Zhang Yishan and Liu Yan and then starred in the TV series "Second Uncle" with Yu Xiaoguang.
Yu Haoming and Shen Mengchen", "Bring Love Home", Xu Ting also participated.
With her popularity, she is never picky about various plays.
As long as someone asks her to star, she will definitely set aside time.
Every penny earned was given to the parents.
Through hard work, Xu Ting paid off the family's debts.
I thought that the future would be better.
But I didn't expect that her parents' oppression of her was far more than that.
After paying off her father's debts, her parents asked her to pay her brother's tuition.
She wanted to keep a little money, but her parents told her that her sisters were also going to work and let her pay the rent.
It is a habit not to eat breakfast all year round.
Girls' monthly menstrual leave pain, coupled with tired stomach diseases, headaches from parental pressure, emotions to the brink of collapse.
Stay the course.
Because behind her is not only the repayment of the debt for her father, but also the living expenses of a family of eight, the tuition and living expenses of her younger siblings, and the cost of her sisters and sisters talking about boyfriends in the future.
The whole family was lying waiting for Xu Ting's feeding.
Her relatives don't care, her body, only the money arrives on time.
Parents, sisters, sisters, and brothers sleep at home every day until they wake up naturally.
And she was making money for them day and night.
A phone call from her parents asked her to buy a marriage house for her brother.
What does it mean to be married?
It means that Xu Ting has to earn more money, and the number of people she has to support has become more.
Xu Ting also wants to be like "Fan Shengmei", mortgages, wedding expenses, and raising children must rely on her.
2015 is the most prosperous year for Xu Ting's career.
In 5 years, Xu Ting has filmed more than 50 plays before and after, an average of 10 a year.
And Xu Ting also because of the filming more, the film remuneration is also high,
He bought a residential house for his brother, but he lived in a rental house.
The new house has just been renovated, and the ventilation has not been completed for half a year, and the family has lived in it with brushes.
Xu Ting saw that her parents had come to live, and she also lived in it to start a warm life with her parents.
She is happy to live with her family and will take her parents outside to play.
However, in less than a month, she felt mentally exhausted.
She went to the hospital for a check-up, only to find that she was sick.
It turned out that the formaldehyde of the house was too high, and her immunity was low, coupled with the perennial overdraft of her body could not bear it.
Therefore, Xu Ting's lung infection was serious, and she did not know when she developed lymphoma.
Doctors advised her to receive treatment as early as possible.
And Xu's father and mother Xu first thought about how to treat the most economical.
The parents pretended to be affectionate in front of Xu Ting.
A sentence: "Selling a house will also treat you", it is all a show.
By the time Xu Ting died, the house was still there.
The cost of treating advanced cancer is astronomical.
The parents thought about it and decided to take Xu Ting to see a Chinese doctor.
In fact, looking for Chinese medicine is also to save money.
In just one year, Xu Ting tried various traditional Chinese medicines.
Eat very bitter Chinese medicine, go to acupuncture, go to gua sha, etc.
It made my whole body scarred, and filming became a problem.
The skin became infected and in some places it began to ulcerate.
The disease spreads too quickly.
Xu Ting chose Western medicine chemotherapy again, but she missed the best time.
The odds of success are slim, but she's convinced that a miracle will happen to her.
But she still sent photos of herself and her family's happy and harmonious life on the platform.
The smile was so bright, but who knew that her body was already in tatters.
After becoming ill, Xu Ting could only eat some light food every day.
Unfortunately, her procrastination and indiscriminate treatment have long since collapsed her body.
Her physical function quickly weakened, because she could not eat a lot, and she lost more than 70 pounds at once.
During the chemotherapy process, her parents rarely had time to see her.
The only thing that will be asked is whether she still has any money.
When she learned that her life was not long, she finally figured it out a lot.
In 2016, Xu Ting began to do various public welfare, and even pulled her parents to read the Buddha.
But her heart at the moment is still full of goodwill.
Around June 2016, Xu Ting's condition deteriorated.
Because of chemotherapy, the skin throughout her body began to change color.
But after experiencing this disaster, Xu Ting also understood that she was just a "cash machine" at home.
Wrote a long essay that was full of splendor.
In the long text, Xu Ting uses words such as "ease" and "liberation" to say goodbye to the world.
She didn't blame anyone, she didn't blame her parents, and she didn't ask for love like her parents.
Before her death, Xu Ting signed an organ donation letter.
She was single-mindedly good, but she was caught in the eye by heaven in advance.
I thought that after Xu Ting left, her parents' conscience would be uneasy.
But they didn't.
The first time they did not think about how to bury their daughter, but the first time they applied to the court for Xu Ting's assets.
Xu Ting under the Nine Springs saw this scene, how painful it was.
The testimony given by the court made the parents dare not believe it.
All the assets add up to only a few thousand yuan.
Large sums of money flowed back to the accounts of xu's parents.
After a stranger listens, he will feel sorry for Xu Ting.
But the Xu family would not, they blamed her for leaving only such a little.
What is even more infuriating is that after Xu Ting's death.
Her mother wanted to use Xu Ting's fame to enter the entertainment circle.
After Xu Ting's fans knew, all the members boycotted him.
Shortly after Xu Ting's death, her sister Xu Yin also took the opportunity to rub Xu Ting's heat and wanted to enter the entertainment circle.
What is even more lamentable is that Xu Yin changed his head to the head of his sister Xu Ting.
It's too much.
Xu Ting's life was painful and sad.
When she came to the world, she did not really enjoy a day of parental love, nor did she enjoy the taste of a love, so she regretted to die.
If, Xu Ting had said to them earlier, "No."
If Xu Ting refuses to be a "brother support demon" and refuses to be "sucked by her parents".
The ending will not be the same as today's situation.
In real life, many girls live in patriarchal families.
Their parents were extremely cold to them, thinking that they were not good enough, not good enough, and could not get their parents' approval.
But no matter how hard she tried, she never existed in the eyes of her parents.
And the pranks of the younger brother/brother will make the parents happy.
Only because they are the men who inherit the incense.
As she grows into adulthood, the girl has to take care of all the expenses of her brother/brother.
The family of a "brother and devil" is doomed to tragedy.
There is a kind of helplessness, so that people's origins have no choice.
If there is a choice in life, no one wants to be born with the life of another person.
Keigo Higashino said, "Everyone wants to be born in a good family, but they can't choose their parents, what kind of cards are given to you, you can only try to play it well." ”
Parents have given us life, and we should be grateful for a lifetime, but not with life.
Since you have chosen to be parents, please take on the responsibility of parents and do not blaspheme this great and sacred title.
Boys and girls are the same, they are all pregnant in October, they are all seven layers of abdomen, and the bones are ten parent bones.