The process from love to marriage is very long, and when in love, many women say and what men do. To get married, many men have changed, advise friends, ah, do not easily hurt women, they are really vulnerable. Let's take a look at 10 heartfelt words from a woman before she divorced.
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Before you got married, you racked your brains to pursue me, willing to spend money on this and that for me
Have you ever given me the same gift after I got married?
2
Before getting married, you said that although I was not very pretty, I loved to be clean and dress up;
After getting married, you said that I was like a yellow-faced woman, who did not pay attention to grooming myself, and that I was like a sloppy mother-in-law. But you know, I take on all the housework alone, and I have to take care of the children, is it easy for me? How much time do I have to dress up? Am I feeling better? Would I?
3
Before you got married, you swore to me, "Be good to me for the rest of your life and love me for the rest of your life." ”
After getting married, you paid little attention to me, very little about this family, and often came home drunk.
4
Before getting married, you often went to my house, did this and that in my house, and called my parents "Daddy, Mommy" so good;
After getting married, you rarely visited my parents all year round, and even you would rather drink and eat with friends than wish my mother a happy birthday.
5
Before getting married, you had a low salary, but for me you saved two months' money to buy me a birthday present;
After getting married, instead of buying me a birthday present once, you used your own money to buy birthday gifts for other women.
6
Before getting married, how confident you were, always thinking that other men couldn't look up to me;
After getting married, you are always worried that there will be other men looking at me, and you will send someone to stalk and track the phone at every turn, you are not tired, I am tired, are you annoyed?
7
Before marriage, you and I said well how to get along with your mother, and sometimes even if I am a little wrong, you will comfort me and understand me;
After getting married, you have changed, whether right or wrong, as long as I and your mother have a little bump, you accuse me, is it all my fault?
8
Before getting married, how many sweet words did you say to me;
After getting married, you only talked to me about your work and career, when did you understand my feelings and my feelings? I'm a woman, and women need to be cared for and coaxed, you know?
9
Before getting married, as soon as I called you, you came out and went shopping with me.
But after so many years of marriage, have you taken the initiative to visit me once on the street? Have you ever taken your kids to the park once? Watching other people's homes in pairs, do you know how cold my heart is
10
Tell you what, sometimes how much I long to have an emotional exchange with you, how eager I am for your understanding and caressing, so that my tired and haggard mind can relax, but there are some things that I really can't say, not to mention that you often come home late at night, and when you come home, you sleep with your head covered.
Before, he said, it doesn't matter if I don't do housework, I'm married to a wife, not a nanny.
Later, he said, "You won't do anything to me marry you home for?"
Before, he said, if you don't want to go to work, just be at home, I will support you.
Later, he said, you eat me and drink mine, what reason do you have to argue with me?
Before, he said, if you want to play, play, one day when you are tired of playing, look back, I am still waiting for you in the same place.
Later, the words were still there, but I couldn't find him.
Before, he said, I'll give you a home.
Later, she really had a home, and she waited for him in that room every day.
Previously, he said, he belonged to her.
Later, he said to the woman, you and I.
Before, she was crying, and he was confused.
Later, she cried, and he turned his back. Later, she cried, and a slap fell on her face.
Before, he called her baby, big chick.
Later, he shouted, XX
Before, she was away for a few days, and he always kept calling to urge her to come back. Later, it turned into her asking when I would go back.
Before, he picked her up and dropped her off work, rain or shine. Later, in the 40° weather, she walked back on her own.
Before, she said she wanted to eat, and he would run as fast as he could. Later, it was always a word, tired.
Before, she was sick, and he had been sleepless all night, looking at her. She hurt, and he almost shed tears in pain.
Later, she was hospitalized, and he didn't go to see it, saying busy.
He had forgotten what she had done for him. All he saw was the hysterical woman in front of him.
He felt tired, annoyed, and he wondered how he could have fallen in love with such a woman.
He couldn't even remember who had turned that little girl into such an incomprehensible woman.
People always habitually push the responsibility to others, and when they really understand, there is no point in regretting it.
Some people say that love is like fishing, which means that when you are hooked, there is no need to waste bait.
But you know, if the fish would rather be injured and break free, huh. The results can be imagined.
No one can do without anyone, love is the biggest obstacle, because love, will be reluctant. Don't use other people's love for you as a chip. Because the decision is not up to you.
I have always believed that unwavering love exists.
I also firmly believe that such love will never happen to me.
Love, until it becomes wounded, then it becomes forever.
Find the right person and hurt you for a lifetime. If you find the wrong person, you will lose everything.
Women, always gambling. Man, she bet her all for you, how can you be willing to let her lose?